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So... you believe my conspiracy theory then? why else would they be laughing? they're laughing because they are now filthy rich because everyone is buying up all the guns. DON'T YOU SEE IT?
No,I just see a fool that is lost to the real world and hope you never have to laugh at your children dying.
As I stated before, only the fool follows others blindly.The educated person looks to research themselves.When an abundance of things dont make sense,its time to stop listening and start learning.
LEARN.Get out in the real world and get a real life education.
Thats a great study.Unfortunately it still has norevlevance on the situation.Grieving at any given time and how you do so has NOTHING to do with a parent that just lost their child THAT DAY and laughing.Your non-sensical ravings have no relvevance on the situation in question.
When you speak directly to people who have lost family or friends tragically at the time it happened,there is no laughing! I know you being a sceintist and all it may be hard to actually understand real life,but if you've ever been in these situations and have spoken to these people you will soon learn that what you leanred in class or in someone reports dont hold true to real life.
that's not a study, it's an expert who helps those grieving. She speaks directly to bereaving parents, did you actually read it?
I'm sorry, I'll stop bothering you with facts, I know they get in the way of your lunacy.
Dr. Patti Levin's pamphlet lists common physical and emotional responses to trauma, and suggests helpful coping tips.
Common Responses to
Trauma & Coping Strategies
shock and disbelief
fear and/or anxiety
grief, disorientation, denial
hyper-alertness or hypervigilance
irritability, restlessness, outbursts of anger or rage emotional swings -- like crying and then laughing
worrying or ruminating -- intrusive thoughts of the trauma
nightmares
flashbacks -- feeling like the trauma is happening now
feelings of helplessness, panic, feeling out of control
increased need to control everyday experiences
minimizing the experience
attempts to avoid anything associated with trauma
tendency to isolate oneself
feelings of detachment
concern over burdening others with problems
emotional numbing or restricted range of feelings
difficulty trusting and/or feelings of betrayal
difficulty concentrating or remembering
feelings of self-blame and/or survivor guilt
shame
diminished interest in everyday activities or depression
unpleasant past memories resurfacing
loss of a sense of order or fairness in the world; expectation of doom and fear of the future
The body wants to heal and is designed to heal – even from traumatic events. Trauma occurs when the system is overwhelmed and cannot process the information the way it is designed to do. Different people respond to the same traumatic event in different ways. While only about 20% will go on to have post traumatic stress disorder, many people will experience different physical and emotional reactions. These are all normal reactions to abnormal events. Each of us responds to traumatic events differently and at different times of our lives. It depends on how overwhelmed the system is from other current and past stressors, earlier traumas and overall support system at the time.
Many people experience physical reactions like aches, pains, headaches, backaches, stomachaches, sudden sweating and or heart palpitations, changes in sleep patterns appetite, interest in sex, constipation or diarrhea, easily started by noises or unexpected touch, more susceptible to colds and illnesses.
Emotional reactions can include shock, disbelief, fear, anxiety, grief, disorientation, denial, hyper-alertness or hyper vigilance, irritability and/or restlessness, outburst of anger or rage, emotional swings like crying and then laughing, worrying or ruminating, intrusive thoughts of the trauma, nightmares, flashbacks, feeling like the trauma is happening now, feelings of helplessness, panic or out of control, increased need to control everyday experiences, minimizing the experience, attempts to avoid anything associated with the trauma, tendency to isolate, feeling s of detachments, emotional numbing, restricted range of feelings, difficulty trusting, increased use of alcohol or drugs or overeating, feelings of self-blame, survivor guilt, shame, depression, unpleasant past memories resurfacing, loss of a senses of order or fairness in the world, expectation of doom. If you are experiencing these symptoms, you could be experiencing post traumatic symptoms.
Coping with trauma involves time and support. It is important to connect with others and ask for help, support, understanding and opportunities to talk. Other coping strategies include allowing yourself to cry, exercise, go for massage, pray, meditate, take hot baths, hug those you love, eat comforting foods, do yoga, go for walks, nourish yourself well, sleep regularly, take naps and journal. Some body-centered therapies such as EMDR or IBP can be extremely helpful in recovering from trauma. Don’t be afraid to reach out for help.
Victoria Pawlowski is a Registered Clinical Counsellor with training in helping people deal with trauma. She is a registered counsellor with ICBC and BC Crime Victims Assistance Program.
Ive never seen any parents laugh at any funerals ive attended EVER do these videos make sense sure they do is it true who knows but makes ya wonder.
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Ive never seen any parents laugh at any funerals ive attended EVER do these videos make sense sure they do is it true who knows but makes ya wonder.
I haven't either, but its widely known by professionals that work w people who are involved in trauma that one of the defense mechanisms is laughter. To argue otherwise is just ignoring the facts.
Now now, im sure he has been to roughly 1000 funerals which would give him the ability to make such a statement and eliminate the small sample size for the statistic at hand.
Now now, im sure he has been to roughly 1000 funerals which would give him the ability to make such a statement and eliminate the small sample size for the statistic at hand.
You silly guy, don't use science, it's unreliable.
Now now, im sure he has been to roughly 1000 funerals which would give him the ability to make such a statement and eliminate the small sample size for the statistic at hand.
Now now, im sure he has been to roughly 1000 funerals which would give him the ability to make such a statement and eliminate the small sample size for the statistic at hand.
Unfortunately, he has been to several funerals where parents have lost their children INCLUDING our own child's funeral.
THERE IS NO WAY IN HELL MY MOM COULD HAVE DONE AN INTERVIEW ABOUT LOSING MY BABY BROTHER A DAY OR 2 LATER WITH A STRAIGHT FACE...SHES A MESS NOW AND ITS BEEN SINCE 1998 WHEN IT HAPPENED. THIS STUFF MAKES YOU THINK...WHAT REALLY HAPPENED?
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