Love or Lust

[MrzDiva]

Many of us believe in love at first sight and many of you don't.. But has anyone believed in lust at first sight? Which one are you and how was your first thoughts of the person who caught your eye.? Tell me your stories of how things came about.

[BABY1]

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I think it is mostly lust at first sight. I mean how can you know you love someone just when you see them the first time. I think we lusted for at least the first couple of years,lol. I do think we were in love right away but lust took over then. I also think it is different when you meet in your early 20's rather than maybe someone who meets at 40 or older. expectations and such just seem different as we get older.. I also think it is never to late to rekindle those lustful times again and again. Nice topic Diva

[MOUNTAIN-MAN]

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Mine was love. We meet at a lake had a good lunch mrs mm lived 400 miles away at the time meet her on business trip. On my way home 2 hrs later I called her told her I loved her and would
Be back by the weekend that was 11
Years ago I proposed to her at same lake same
Spot same lunch.

[LittleTom]

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IMO lust is easy. Love is enduring and challenging. They go together but are very different things. Theres no doubt I've had lust at first sight, that animal attraction. It's intoxicating and can make people do things they never thought they would do. Love for me is realizing I have something irreplaceable, lust comes and goes.

[horse]

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mine was love, my present wife ,we met 24 years ago, went thru hell divorced remarried and are living happily ever after

[BABY1]

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Well our lust turned into love obviously cause lust doesn't last and 25 years going strong here

[Trixie]

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Definitely 'Love at first sight' for me, but I was lucky to be selling Rake a truck and car sale is a very long process where many core personality and financial questions are asked and answered. I think all that information contributed the thought that he would be the strong, hard working man that I would be able to respect for the rest of my life. At the time I was totally deluded about who I was at my core and totally turned Rake off on our first date but his lust took over: then my submissiveness he thought was good. The rest is history. We married 15 months later and have been married over 28 yrs. Rocky at times but our love and respect has endured.
~Trixie~

[animal87]

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lol lust at first sight is easy. That happens to me every day lol

[animal87]

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love is more important. I would take real love over lust anyday, love is what is hard to find

[Trixie]

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love is more important. I would take real love over lust anyday, love is what is hard to find

Love is not hard to find. I believe that God steers us to our true love: life is difficult and we must remind ourselves every day that we love that person, and stay over the tough times and tell each other and remind ourselves every day that that this is the person I love.

[MrzDiva]

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Love is not hard to find. I believe that God steers us to our true love: life is difficult and we must remind ourselves every day that we love that person, and stay over the tough times and tell each other and remind ourselves every day that that this is the person I love.

Easy for you to say.

[animal87]

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the person has to love you back is the problem. People just normally like to take advantage of one another in someway. ahh i fond the right one, one of these days lol

[BABY1]

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One has to decide what they will and will not put up with. Make it clear, give and demand respect. There are 2 things I would not tolerate in spite of love, the rest we can deal with.

[Trixie]

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Easy for you to say.

You are not the one who gave up during hard times and that breaks my heart. Rake has been near death 2 times in our life together and aparently I'm someone who believed in the vows I made at the alter. If I could make up for the abandonment you have suffered I would. I love you with all my heart Diva.
~Trixie~

[horse]

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love is more important. I would take real love over lust anyday, love is what is hard to find

you said it brother