Name calling at 11 years old?

[BABY1]

So what would you do if your 11 year old girl came home from school and said a boy called her and her friend a whor*? Would you blow it off or bring it to the teacher's attention?

[BABY1]

Re: Name calling at 11 years old?

Serious replies only please

[MOUNTAIN-MAN]

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Well if it were my little girl I would be at the school demanding to have the other child's parents in a meeting I would be pissed off

[BABY1]

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Well if it were my little girl I would be at the school demanding to have the other child's parents in a meeting I would be pissed off

WEll this little boy is a bit troubled as it is. His parents dumped him on his grandparents and they moved out of state. that being said, it is still NOt acceptable and our daughters teacher will not tolerate that so hopefully he will be firm with this kid and set him straight. the principle, we have gone around with before. She is a joke

[MOUNTAIN-MAN]

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WEll this little boy is a bit troubled as it is. His parents dumped him on his grandparents and they moved out of state. that being said, it is still NOt acceptable and our daughters teacher will not tolerate that so hopefully he will be firm with this kid and set him straight. the principle, we have gone around with before. She is a joke

Hopefully the teacher yelled at his little but in front of the whole class. I never used that word till I was in mid 30's

[BABY1]

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I never used that word till I was in mid 30's

I just got a chance to mention this to Fuzo and he said the same thing that boys never said that word when you guys were young

[Dzone]

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Oh man, thats awful. Feel bad for your daughter baby1. Geezo. Sad. If that keeps up that kid needs to be removed from the class

[MOUNTAIN-MAN]

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I just got a chance to mention this to Fuzo and he said the same thing that boys never said that word when you guys were young

Lol the few times I have said it. I felt crappy about it for mths and allways said I was sorry

[BABY1]

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Oh man, thats awful. Feel bad for your daughter baby1. Geezo. Sad. If that keeps up that kid needs to be removed from the class

It honestly upset us more than it did here and I only think it is because she doesn't know everything about what that means. We raise her not to take anything verbal or physical from a man EVER so I surely don't want to just blow this off if this crap is starting with kids already...UGH

[ZOOT]

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go to the school..you are her voice. I can't tell you how many times I've been to my son's school already this year. They hate when I go. usually the Mrs handles it. They actually told her that don't like it when I come cause all I do is yell and tell them what they dont want to hear. I won't tolerate any name calling or bullying. And if the wife doesn't feel satisfied with their response...ol zoot shows up and things get settled in a hurry

[Rake]

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Baby this is one of the many reasons I believe public school is for the public. Your daughter has many talents and comes from a loving home,keep her away from those people and home school her or private school. Lil one is not just the general population she is better. It will be hard on you as far as time and money but please use this as sign that she does belong with people. I say this with respect and wisdom that was acquired from raising my own.

[MOUNTAIN-MAN]

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Baby this is one of the many reasons I believe public school is for the public. Your daughter has many talents and comes from a loving home,keep her away from those people and home school her or private school. Lil one is not just the general population she is better. It will be hard on you as far as time and money but please use this as sign that she does belong with people. I say this with respect and wisdom that was acquired from raising my own.

Well said brother.

[BABY1]

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I went to Chicago public school and catholic High School but as we know, things were different then. I think going to the private high school was even better back then too. I would love to send her to a private high school. but not sure how Fuzo would feel about that. We have some time for that though. She talks to us daily about her school day and such so it is very important to keep that line of communication open. I just asked what you all would do but already knew what we were going to do. Was wondering if anyone would just blow this off? I think the so called "bullying" in this day can get a bit ridiculous as I still think kids will be kids, in a certain way, but this shit when words like that are used...makes me angry as hell. Thanks for all your feedback. I really appreciate it.

baby1

[J F T]

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As a parent, if it were my kid that dropped that word I would want to know. Problem is most parents don't take accountability any more. So sad. I would bring the school in on this one.....

[MOUNTAIN-MAN]

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I went to Chicago public school and catholic High School but as we know, things were different then. I think going to the private high school was even better back then too. I would love to send her to a private high school. but not sure how Fuzo would feel about that. We have some time for that though. She talks to us daily about her school day and such so it is very important to keep that line of communication open. I just asked what you all would do but already knew what we were going to do. Was wondering if anyone would just blow this off? I think the so called "bullying" in this day can get a bit ridiculous as I still think kids will be kids, in a certain way, but this shit when words like that are used...makes me angry as hell. Thanks for all your feedback. I really appreciate it.

baby1

I could not blow it off. The boy needs to learn manners before he gets worse later in his life.