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    today, picking up lunch and I saw something that I found sad. At a table was an older couple, about 60 or so, both sitting there eating and texting away on their phone. Before phones, I used to think it was bad when I saw this but they were reading papers. It just made me think...don't people even talk anymore? I have seen parents do this with their kids to in restaurants. Yes, I do have a cell phone, but I can honestly say that I* will NOT do this with my husband, daughter or anyone else I am out spending time with. I have had 2 of my daughters friends mention to me how they hate texting cause that is all their Mom seems to do. I listen carefully when I hear these things and take it in. Todays technology has its positives, but also some very bad negatives.

    My parents have been married for 55 years and my Mom has been with my Dad since she was 14. No cell phones, texting etc...just good strong communication. I just think life was a bit simpler back in those days and even when we were kids. Call me old fashioned, I dont care, but this is me
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    Originally posted by chrisotpherm
    Agreed. My wife and I don't do this either. Social media has definitely hurt relationships. .

    This is so true, and in so many ways. It is harder enough to keep communication open let alone now with all the social media, it is even more challenging.
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    • #3
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      I dislike technology working out is the only reason I bothered learning to use a computer.
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        I very rarely text. don't care for it at all, the gf she can do it all day and night drives me nuts. as for seeing this, I too see it all the time its kinda funny when you go into a lunch room and 7 or 8 people are sitting there texting away with no social interaction and the room sits silent .

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        • #5
          Re: So I was in Subway...

          Baby I agree

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            Re: So I was in Subway...

            Originally posted by BABY1 View Post
            today, picking up lunch and I saw something that I found sad. At a table was an older couple, about 60 or so, both sitting there eating and texting away on their phone. Before phones, I used to think it was bad when I saw this but they were reading papers. It just made me think...don't people even talk anymore? I have seen parents do this with their kids to in restaurants. Yes, I do have a cell phone, but I can honestly say that I* will NOT do this with my husband, daughter or anyone else I am out spending time with. I have had 2 of my daughters friends mention to me how they hate texting cause that is all their Mom seems to do. I listen carefully when I hear these things and take it in. Todays technology has its positives, but also some very bad negatives.

            My parents have been married for 55 years and my Mom has been with my Dad since she was 14. No cell phones, texting etc...just good strong communication. I just think life was a bit simpler back in those days and even when we were kids. Call me old fashioned, I dont care, but this is me
            100% agree, but also at times 100% guilty . I have an older daughter that got all caught up in social media, Facebook particularly, and yes the whole texting and the whole kissy face photos of themselves being taken and sent to boys...would drive me nuts as a dad...this is one avenue that is so uncontrolled and open to our children of socializing, and at times with people we don't even know...scarier THEY don't really know. Now as far as sitting at a restaurant eating with my wife and youngest angel ...no I do not text or use my phone, and yes I am old fashioned too, but staying honest now since I have been on these forums as a rep, Mod, and making all these friendships I do find myself...like NOW...on my phone posting or working on the forums. Obviously it is finding a balance and my Darlin' Nikki won't hesitate to give me a hint about being on my phone or tablet. Yes technology is beneficial but also can be bad news. I have been on the bad side with my daughter, and good side meeting all of you and building some awesome relationships. Again just using that one thing they don't teach our kids in school...common sense...and setting the example for our kids. I known it is coming with my youngest who is now 8, and she will want her own phone and then the parental monitoring and boundaries will have to be set...and also to teach our kids the dangers of social media too...and that it is all for their safety. Also think of this too...the lack of one on one conversation, human interaction, and speaking to another individual will hurt their ability when it comes to job interviews, relationships, being able to share true feelings, and with texting there is no showing emotions...and so many times things are taken out of context in texting conversations.

            Back to the older couple, I am actually surprised they would be texting on their phones, that would surprise me too.

            Thanks for bringing this up Baby, like I said I am guilty of being in this device too often, and need a reminder that I need to keep myself in check too and lead by example.

            My dad said it best...when it comes to technology and the human race, we are too immature for the technology we have created.

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              Re: So I was in Subway...

              Originally posted by MuscleAddiction View Post

              My dad said it best...when it comes to technology and the human race, we are too immature for the technology we have created.
              Sums it up right there.
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              • #8
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                I agree meal time should be spent together no on a damn cell phone I really hate texting

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                  Re: So I was in Subway...

                  LOL!!!

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                    Talk dirty to me baby
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                    • #11
                      Re: So I was in Subway...

                      It is sad!!! I was out to dinner last night and I was the only one not doing it!!

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                      • #12
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                        My sister does that all the time. Drives me nutts !.. I never answer the phone or text if I am with anyone unless I know its something super important that I am waiting for her. Otherwise I wait .

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                          I remember me and some friends where throwing football, a friend of ours was huddled against a tree hitting buttons on his phone like a mad man. "So what's the deal bro"? "oh, I'm talking to this chick I just met" We jus kinda looked at each other "So why don't you just call her and talk to her"? "It's easier this way" he said. Then I had someone say that's nothing, my kids will have a bunch of friends over maby six or eight, all in the same room texting each other. I cant how many times I would have someone just walk in front of my truck totally oblivious as to what the f#ck is going on,.....texting.
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                          • #14
                            Re: So I was in Subway...

                            better question is why are you eating at subway.

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                              Re: So I was in Subway...

                              Originally posted by Dieseljimmy View Post
                              better question is why are you eating at subway.

                              Uh, cause I was hungry...HELLOO,lol
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