Why I Don't Understand Women?

[SUGARBABY]

Originally posted by LadiesMan
This isn't really debatable, so i'll leave it at this.

The only reason people go out alone, to the movies, dinner, etc is most likely because they have nobody to go with, whether you admit this or not is your choice and you have nothing to prove to me. Just like me while I was on travel, I had nobody to go out with, to eat with, so I went alone, I know the feeling.

On the other hand I guess I am fortunate and thankful that I have my friends, I mean, why would I go out alone?

And I know the type of women TheGame1976 likes and is after, my tip was directed towards him, he can take it or leave it, his choice, I do not give a shit to be honest with you, only trying to help him out. I did not intend for you friendless people to get your feelings hurt......... if so, I apologize.

Oh Please, don't flatter yourself.

mochi, bling and I were just saying that we don't think 1976 is a tool for doing things by himself. WE do things by ourselves as well as socially. Not because we don't have friends or because we need to have "wingmen" but because that is what we choose.

now, GO deflate your head and have a good evening.

[Keiser]

Originally posted by DiamondBling
so u are so insecure with urself (and u probably don't even know or will admit it) that u have to go with your posse????

Not to get into a stupid net arguement with you..............

I am far from insecure, but its evident that i've offended people who go out to night clubs alone with my opinions.

Why do you guys get so offended & defensive about this issue?

[DiamondBling]

LM is funny, even though i'm only 23, when i was younger (insecurities) i had to be with a group of guys at least 4 others.

Now, I get more respect from people in the clubz that recognize i'm by myself. Or maybe its cuz of my style/look that I can go to clubz by myself and get shown luv.

[DiamondBling]

Originally posted by LadiesMan
Why do you guys get so offended & defensive about this issue?

Well its how ur respond to the posts and ur tone

[SUGARBABY]

Originally posted by LadiesMan
I am far from insecure, but its evident that i've offended people who go out to night clubs alone with my opinions.

Why do you guys get so offended & defensive about this issue?

The issue doesn't offend me, it is your generalized statements.

Ie: The only reason people go out alone, to the movies, dinner, etc is most likely because they have nobody to go with, whether you admit this or not is your choice and you have nothing to prove to me.

If you stated these as opinions rather than LM's facts it would be different.

[SUGARBABY]

Originally posted by DiamondBling
LM is funny, even though i'm only 23, when i was younger (insecurities) i had to be with a group of guys at least 4 others.

Now, I get more respect from people in the clubz that recognize i'm by myself. Or maybe its cuz of my style/look that I can go to clubz by myself and get shown luv.

Or maybe you are just DAMN sexy!

[m0chi69]

Originally posted by LadiesMan
This isn't really debatable, so i'll leave it at this.

The only reason people go out alone, to the movies, dinner, etc is most likely because they have nobody to go with, whether you admit this or not is your choice and you have nothing to prove to me. Just like me while I was on travel, I had nobody to go out with, to eat with, so I went alone, I know the feeling.

On the other hand I guess I am fortunate and thankful that I have my friends, I mean, why would I go out alone?

And I know the type of women TheGame1976 likes and is after, my tip was directed towards him, he can take it or leave it, his choice, I do not give a shit to be honest with you, only trying to help him out. I did not intend for you friendless people to get your feelings hurt......... if so, I apologize.

BWWWWWAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAAH... puh-leeez, "I did not intend for you friendless people to get your feelings hurt"...

you are SO completely missing the point.

i have plenty of friends. i have plenty of people who i can call up and go to dinner with or see a movie with. i have also travelled extensively for work where i'm forced into a situation to be alone. so i can safely say that a lot of times when i choose to go out alone, it is a choice i am making because i WANT to fly solo, and enjoy the feeling of it.

my point being that a person who is CHOOSING to go out alone, not being forced to, has within themselves a certain level of confidence, KNOWING that they have the ability to make friends if they choose that night when they're out.

so maybe if you need your friends to be your wingman all the time, you're just not comfortable enough with your own level of being able to meet new people.

i will ALSO tell you that even if i have gone out with my friends, i notice that i can meet a lot more people when i seperate myself from a group. so from MY experience, being alone actually helps you meet people - if that is what you desire.

[m0chi69]

Originally posted by Sugarbaby
Oh Please, don't flatter yourself.

mochi, bling and I were just saying that we don't think 1976 is a tool for doing things by himself. WE do things by ourselves as well as socially. Not because we don't have friends or because we need to have "wingmen" but because that is what we choose.

now, GO deflate your head and have a good evening.

AMEN sistah!

[Keiser]

Originally posted by Sugarbaby
Oh Please, don't flatter yourself.

What do you mean by this statement? I said I was thankful for having my friends.

mochi, bling and I were just saying that we don't think 1976 is a tool for doing things by himself. WE do things by ourselves as well as socially. Not because we don't have friends or because we need to have "wingmen" but because that is what we choose.

You are saying you go out alone because you choose to, so you are telling me that if a group of your girlfriends were going out, you just may choose to go alone instead?

now, GO deflate your head and have a good evening.

better yet, what do you mean by that statement? Where have I shown that I have an inflated head because I don't go out to night clubs alone?

[DiamondBling]

Originally posted by Sugarbaby
Or maybe you are just DAMN sexy!

A guy that can get away with wearin a Laveur powder Baby Blue track suite with his Gucci sunglasses will get some attention

[m0chi69]

Originally posted by Sugarbaby
The issue doesn't offend me, it is your generalized statements.

Ie: The only reason people go out alone, to the movies, dinner, etc is most likely because they have nobody to go with, whether you admit this or not is your choice and you have nothing to prove to me.

If you stated these as opinions rather than LM's facts it would be different.

you're in my brain

[Keiser]

Originally posted by DiamondBling
Well its how ur respond to the posts and ur tone

I was attacked for trying to help out TheGame1976, he is the one who got played.

[SUGARBABY]

Originally posted by LadiesMan
What do you mean by this statement? I said I was thankful for having my friends.



You are saying you go out alone because you choose to, so you are telling me that if a group of your girlfriends were going out, you just may choose to go alone instead?



better yet, what do you mean by that statement? Where have I shown that I have an inflated head because I don't go out to night clubs alone?

Yes, if I group of my gf's are going out and I don't want to be with them, then I either go out alone, stay in, or go out with another group of friends.

The inflated head comments were do to this:

I did not intend for you friendless people to get your feelings hurt

another example of your generalizations and labels, I thought we could both play this game your way now.

[DiamondBling]

Originally posted by LadiesMan
I was attacked for trying to help out TheGame1976, he is the one who got played.

I agree that u were tryin to help in out, how ever did u call him a tool correct???

[SUGARBABY]

Originally posted by DiamondBling
I agree that u were tryin to help in out, how ever did u call him a tool correct???

hahaha, good point!!