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Originally posted by BouncersBabe
Nothing wrong with that?? Ewwwww!!!! LM~I wouldn't expect that from YOU! LOL
Nothing wrong with that?? Ewwwww!!!! LM~I wouldn't expect that from YOU! LOL
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true, but I do like nice bodies & nice booties....... you know that. -
Its just weird to go to a bar by yourself with no friends. Most girls will think you are weird or desperate or wonder why you don't have any friends. They won't trust you. Plus you always need a wingman.Originally posted by Sugarbaby
What makes him a tool for that?Comment
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Uhm, no, A man that can go out without is Posse is much more attractive than one who has to constantly be flanked with buds.Originally posted by LadiesMan
Its just weird to go to a bar by yourself with no friends. Most girls will think you are weird or desperate or wonder why you don't have any friends. They won't trust you. Plus you always need a wingman.
Do you need a wingman in the bedroom too?Comment
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I AGREE SUGARBABY, A MAN IS EASIER TO APPROACH WHEN HE'S ALONE!Comment
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What you girls say "sounds good" it really does, but it is so far from the truth in reality.
First of all most women don't approach guys, alone or not. Some do, but most don't. With friends its easier to approach women, conversation is helped by the friends, and the wingman is there because most women don't go out alone, its too dangerous.
When I was on travel for my company, I was alone and yes I went out alone, so I have experienced both and with friends it is much more successful.
When I give tips, they are from actual experiences, not whatever "sounds good". So, you two ^ approach guys who are alone in a bar?
Do I need a wingman in the bedroom? Nope thats not the definition of a wingman.Comment
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He might be easier to approach, but his confidence isn't that high.Originally posted by fitness-girl
I AGREE SUGARBABY, A MAN IS EASIER TO APPROACH WHEN HE'S ALONE!
Anytime I go anywhere by myself I always feel like such a looser!RIP BigJim33 & GearedUp: You are sorely missed my friends.
Hindsight is always 20/20. But looking back it's still a bit fuzzy.Comment
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OK OK LADIESMAN YOUR RIGHT. I NEVER APPROACH A MAN , I FEEL IF HE'S INTERESTED HE WILL TALK TO ME. BUT... MAJORITY OF MY FRIENDS PREFER TO APPROACH A GUY IF HE'S ALONE...SO NOT FIRST HAND EXPERIENCE BUT IM THE "WINGWOMEN"/FRIEND WATCHING. HEHEComment
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Ok, a man who can go out alone definitely gets my attention for a few reasons.
He doesn't need to be validated by having friends/people around him--which in turns tells me that if he can stand being alone with himself he must not be too bad of a guy.
There is nothing that annoys me more than a guy who always has to have a buddy lingering.
And I have definitely approached men who are alone in the past and will continue to do it when I am single.Comment
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Ok girl, just remember I have a good memory and I was gonna bust you on this:Originally posted by fitness-girl
OK OK LADIESMAN YOUR RIGHT. I NEVER APPROACH A MAN , I FEEL IF HE'S INTERESTED HE WILL TALK TO ME. BUT... MAJORITY OF MY FRIENDS PREFER TO APPROACH A GUY IF HE'S ALONE...SO NOT FIRST HAND EXPERIENCE BUT IM THE "WINGWOMEN"/FRIEND WATCHING. HEHE
So if in May 2002, you were 18, that makes you 19 now. Unless you live in Louisanna or Canada, you can't even go to a bar at that age. Plus you compete and are dedicated, so I know you don't go out drinking and hitting on guys babeOriginally posted by fitness-girl
HEY SUGARBABY, I FIRST 2 COMPETITIONS WERE IN MAY 2002 AT 18 YRS OLD. I HAD ALOT OF IMPROVEMENTS TO MAKE ON MY BODY, SO I TOOK A YEAR OFF AND LAST WEEKEND COMPETED IN THE SAME SHOW. (MY 3RD SHOW)
by the way, we haven't met yet, but I saw your pics and you look awesome to me, good work & dedication
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Your a different breed sugar!
Alot of girls find guys who are out along to be creepy. And question their motives for being there..
LM is right, girls are almost never alone. Are you going to ditch your friend to talk to this guy? Do you both approach him?
Like I said, I hate going somewhere alone. But only in a party atmosphere.. I'm a bachleor, I'm used to doing alot of stuff by myself. There's nothing worse than sitting in a dark loud club all by yourself. Or going to a house party where you don't know anyone. True once you get drunk and everyone else is drunk then things get more social.. but I rarely drink more than 3 or 4 drinks when I go out.RIP BigJim33 & GearedUp: You are sorely missed my friends.
Hindsight is always 20/20. But looking back it's still a bit fuzzy.Comment
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Ok well just like Got Gear said, a man who is alone actually has less confidence....... its not that he has to be validated by having friends/people around him, he has no choice, most likely he is desperate.Originally posted by Sugarbaby
Ok, a man who can go out alone definitely gets my attention for a few reasons.
He doesn't need to be validated by having friends/people around him--which in turns tells me that if he can stand being alone with himself he must not be too bad of a guy.
There is nothing that annoys me more than a guy who always has to have a buddy lingering.
And I have definitely approached men who are alone in the past and will continue to do it when I am single.
So in actuality what you perceive as confidence & such is so far from reality. No wonder girls always say the choose the wrong guys............Comment
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UHH HMM! HAVE YOU EVER HEARD OF FAKE IDS??? I GUESS NOT! WHAT ABOUT CLUBS, LAST TIME I CHECKED THEY DO HAVE BARS AROUND!! RESTAURANTS...YUUP IV'E SEEN BARS IN THERE TOO! I DIDN'T KNOW THIS CONVERSATION WAS REFERING TO BARS ONLY!! I THOUGHT THE GAME1976 SAID HE WAS AT APPLEBEES!
WELL LM IT'S BEEN REAL NICE TO MEET YOU
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And another thing, I will admit. I am a loner in a way. I love to be alone and relax, I love to go shopping alone and I love to just drive around in my car and listen to the radio alone.
When my gf and I lived together, my alone time was depricated. Sometimes, I would lock myself in the bathroom or take a long shower. The alone time was healing for me....
But at a bar or in a social environment, I do not like to be alone...... I feel like a total creepy, weirdo, desperate, loser.Comment
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Originally posted by Got Gear?
He might be easier to approach, but his confidence isn't that high.
Anytime I go anywhere by myself I always feel like such a looser!
Agree! You sure don't see many women out at the bars alone. Confidence is raised when you're in a comfortable surrounding. Not many people are too comfortable alone......Comment
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aww i'm sorry did not mean to make you sad. I'm just always up for a friendly debate, I need the mind stimulationOriginally posted by fitness-girl
UHH HMM! HAVE YOU EVER HEARD OF FAKE IDS??? I GUESS NOT! WHAT ABOUT CLUBS, LAST TIME I CHECKED THEY DO HAVE BARS AROUND!! RESTAURANTS...YUUP IV'E SEEN BARS IN THERE TOO! I DIDN'T KNOW THIS CONVERSATION WAS REFERING TO BARS ONLY!! I THOUGHT THE GAME1976 SAID HE WAS AT APPLEBEES!
WELL LM IT'S BEEN REAL NICE TO MEET YOU
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