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Originally posted by m0chi69
you're in my brain
you're in my brain
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What can I say? Great Minds...
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This is funny stuff....
If you guys are so SECURE and CONFIDENT with this going out alone thing, then why are you getting so defensive?Comment
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I dont' think the ladies and I are getting defensive, we are just pointing something out. U tell everyone what you think, so we are gonna too
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we are defending the fact that you REFUSE to see our points as legitimate claims.Originally posted by LadiesMan
This is funny stuff....
If you guys are so SECURE and CONFIDENT with this going out alone thing, then why are you getting so defensive?
You are stating your claims as FACT, which they are not. We are trying to help you realize this. Nothing more.Comment
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alike minds think alike, you are right. I'm being attacked here because there are 3 defensive people in here currently....... you guys have something in common, you go out alone, of course you are going to think alike on this issue.Originally posted by Sugarbaby
What can I say? Great Minds...
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the options are endless when you feel comfortable with yourself. if you want to go where they're going and that's what you fancy, sure. but if they don't want to go where you want to go, it's not necessairly a deterrant.Originally posted by LadiesMan
You are saying you go out alone because you choose to, so you are telling me that if a group of your girlfriends were going out, you just may choose to go alone instead?
you're missing the point.... if my friends call me up and say: 'hey, we're hittin' up such and such a place, let's go', i won't reject them and say: "um... no thanks, i wanna fly solo"... it's about when there are times when you can't get someone to go with you, or they don't want to go where you want to go, you can feel comfortable enough saying "i'm going to go out by myself and STILL have a good time".
for me, it was the comments that you made assuming that we choose to go solo because we're friendless... gave out the feeling that you feel like you're better than "us".Originally posted by LadiesMan
better yet, what do you mean by that statement? Where have I shown that I have an inflated head because I don't go out to night clubs alone?Comment
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I gave my opinion, notice in my previous posts IMO. You guys attacked because you are defensive.Originally posted by DiamondBling
I dont' think the ladies and I are getting defensive, we are just pointing something out. U tell everyone what you think, so we are gonna too
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i think the issue is that you're missing our point. that is has nothing to do with the # of friends you have or your social acuity, but more to do with being secure in your own skin.Originally posted by LadiesMan
alike minds think alike, you are right. I'm being attacked here because there are 3 defensive people in here currently....... you guys have something in common, you go out alone, of course you are going to think alike on this issue.Comment
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*passes the torch to Bling and Mochi* I gotta jetOriginally posted by m0chi69
i think the issue is that you're missing our point. that is has nothing to do with the # of friends you have or your social acuity, but more to do with being secure in your own skin.
Sorry to say, I think he is a hopeless cause. G'night!Comment
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Man, I can't keep up with all the attacks........ i'll quit quoting.
my opinion: you go out alone because you don't have the option of going out with friends. You will never admit that of course not, none of you will, because you are so defensive about it.
Moochie - I remember a thread a while back about you not being able to keep a man and not getting called back for second dates. The Ladiesman advice is go back and read your defensive, attacking, bad attitude posts above and remember not to act that way on your next date and maybe you won't run the next one off
G'night!Comment
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IM not taking sides but ive seen some of lm's work, he might not preach what the ladies on here like but dammit he got some pretty impressive results. the women in texas and la must like it.
lucky bastard
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no one is trying to attack you, we are only trying to "enlighten" you... and your unreceptive to it and continue to think that we're friendless freaks that need to be felt sorry for when that's the furthest from the truth.Originally posted by LadiesMan
Man, I can't keep up with all the attacks........ i'll quit quoting.
my opinion: you go out alone because you don't have the option of going out with friends. You will never admit that of course not, none of you will, because you are so defensive about it.
Moochie - I remember a thread a while back about you not being able to keep a man and not getting called back for second dates. The Ladiesman advice is go back and read your defensive, attacking, bad attitude posts above and remember not to act that way on your next date and maybe you won't run the next one off
G'night!
and as far as the call thing is concerned, you have to re-read what i wrote, b/c none of it attacked you on any personal level, but you rather attacked people like me who chose to go out alone. perhaps if men percieve an articulate woman who speaks her mind to be too intimidating and don't call me back, then i shouldn't be going out with those men.
and the next thing you're gonna tell me is "don't playa hate, hate the game"... and that was the point of that thread i made. that i don't understand why it has to be about the game.... being coy, playing shy.
anyway kiddo, you continue to be who you are... continue to think what you will... no skin off my back. but if you're going to tell me to go back and read what i wrote, you should seriously go back and read what you wrote too.Comment
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ass kisserOriginally posted by pudgy
IM not taking sides but ive seen some of lm's work, he might not preach what the ladies on here like but dammit he got some pretty impressive results. the women in texas and la must like it.
lucky bastard
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nope i dont like agreeing with him he knows that, but you cant deny the fact that it works for himOriginally posted by rado
ass kisser
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nuff saidOriginally posted by DiamondBling
A guy that can get away with wearin a Laveur powder Baby Blue track suite with his Gucci sunglasses will get some attention
*whispers*
They weren't laughing with you, they were laughing AT you.Comment
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