I went to my Papaw birthday party in Muhlenberg County KY. He lived with a cousin of mine (2nd I think). I always liked Papaw I would draw water for him or bring in coal to burn when he lived in ETown.
Back to my story Papaw wanted some ice cream so I got him some, he quickly gobbled it down. Soon after he was holding his belly beneath his bib overalls. I continued talking to him and Edith Mae came by. She said "Pap what is the matter" He told her "Nothing" she was relentless in her pestering. He finally told her he ate ice cream. "You know you are lactose intolerant" Why didn't you tell me yor belly hurt. He looked at her and said" Why, my belly would still hurt but then you would be worried about it.
What I got from him was Being worried never solved anything. He was very wise.
He has long since went to heaven