Mom makes me feel guilty.

[HULK1550]

Bro, this is what i would to, at the very least i think it would work for a little while. Grab her checkbook and stymie a deposit slip. Have an auto deduct out of your acct each month into your moms, that way its a little at a time and depending on how close she looks at every transaction she may never know. If nothing else, she wont be able to give the money back to you unless you accept a check back from her.

[njjuicer]

yea thats sneaky lol stillt ryin to figure it out!

[Got Gear?]

HULK1550 - Sounds like a good idea bro. Don't think I'd even have to be that sneaky. Her bank should allow me to make a deposit to her account directly (without giving me the account number), from there it's only a baby step away to making it a monthly automated payment.

HOWEVER, I don't think this will work for more than a couple of months. With her finances being so tight, she watches her checkbook pretty closely. She might sluff it off a couple of times, but then she'd get curious. I'm afraid she'll be slightly pissed at me, but I can live with that.

Thanks guy, that should at least get me by for a couple of months till I can think of something else.

[HULK1550]

good idea, just go to her bank and fill out a form and that shit will be going there everymonth. Shit even if she finds out and yells at you, the shit will still be going. Until YOU stop it. LOL You may have to get yelled at every month and then rip up the check she writes you back. Thats worst case senario though. Best case. She doesnt find out, at least for a while. its alittle sneaky but your mom sounds like a proud and standup person, so it has to be that way.

[Got Gear?]

Well, I believe she does have the ability to block an automatic payment. Not sure about that tho..

She may not be able to stop the money from coming in, but believe me she'll find a way to return it. I tried something like this once before.. cept I just forced cash on her (leave it at the house, pay her bills, etc). She fought me hard at first, then stopped.. I thought I had won. Till it came to my attention that she was keeping all of the money I gave her in a seperate account under my name, she was saving every penny I gave her in a "University Saver Plan" for my 1st child. I didn't even have a girlfriend at the time! But do have a little over a Grand saved up for my kid's college. If I hadn't have seen that credit report I would have had no idea to this day.

[HULK1550]

Yeah i thought of that too, she could just let it come in and put it all aside for you later. Its worth a try though cause i cant think of anything else that wasnt mentioned

[Got Gear?]

Originally posted by HULK1550
Yeah i thought of that too, she could just let it come in and put it all aside for you later. Its worth a try though cause i cant think of anything else that wasnt mentioned

Will definately give it a try. It'll probably work for a couple of months at least. Thanks!