Appreciation...

[BABY1]

Well yesterday was the day that things came to a head! Over the course of 6 months and have encountered several people in my life that I feel have taken advantage of my kindness. A few, just anger me about it, but some of them others are close family members and that's where it hurts me. I am kind, giving, and love to help those in need and that is the hard part. I have to distance myself from certain people cause it is just hurting me and I am finally putting myself first. It is bittersweet in a sense. I am thankful for Fuzo and Fuzette who help me stay strong. Also very thankful to MrzDiva for always being there for me. ON that note "Have a FABULOUS day" and "stay awesome"

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[ZOOT]

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Hurt from family is tough, real tough..I know. Stand strong, you guys are great. Have an awesome day as well

[BABY1]

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Hurt from family is tough, real tough..I know.

They don't probably even know why I feel the hurt, I know it will be discussed soon. I still will talk and see them just have to refrain from putting their needs before my own.

[mikeyg51]

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I am proud of you Baby...I struggle with that alot...I have a heart of gold and I am a people pleaser...distance is healthy...A wise man once asked me: Michael, would you rather be right or happy today? I would love to be both lol...but happy is better

[BABY1]

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I am proud of you Baby...I struggle with that alot...I have a heart of gold and I am a people pleaser...distance is healthy...A wise man once asked me: Michael, would you rather be right or happy today? I would love to be both lol...but happy is better

Thanks Mikey. Distance is hard when you love people but I have come to realize that my happiness needs to come before. Like the quote goes "Detach with love", easier said than done

[MOUNTAIN-MAN]

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Sometimes people will walk all over u because ur nice you gotta get up and build a bridge so u can walk over them for a while.

[BABY1]

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Sometimes people will walk all over u because ur nice you gotta get up and build a bridge so u can walk over them for a while.

that's just not me MM. I just doing for them and offer an ear for listening.

[MOUNTAIN-MAN]

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that's just not me MM. I just doing for them and offer an ear for listening.

I mean u have to be higher than that person and be in a better place than they are for a little while till that person understands what they are missing out on ur kindness and stop taking that kindness for granted not revenge just absence of attention.

[mikeyg51]

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oh soooooo much easier said than done! I am going through that now with a friend who is a heroin addict...kills me....and for anything that tells me to just "not think about it"...yeah, good luck lol...it is possible though with action...i try to distance slowly and it has worked for the most part...Now with family, all bets are off lol

[MrzDiva]

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LOVE YA BABY !.. I'M ALWAYS HERE FOR YOU LIKE YOU ARE ALWAYS HERE FOR ME. FORTUNATELY FOR US WE HAVE EACH OTHER TO VENT WITH OR WE WOULD HAVE GONE CRAZY FROM THEM BY NOW LOL.