Im in love...

[brody13]

With 2 different girls that I dont even know that well. Both girls go to my college and are in my fraternities sister sorority i guess you would call it. One I have been talking to a little here and there and she is always stareing at me and the other ive met 1 time exchanged names, and thats it. The one i have talked to has a boyfriend though but its a long distance thing and all my friends say they arent that serious. I dunno what to do here cause I am terrible at the whole get a girl to be interested in me thing. I usually just rely on my looks to get a girl to come to me then I have no problem... its just the whole going up and being intersting thing right off the back is really hard for me.

What do you think would be good for going up and talking to these girls. There sorority is oppessed with our frat so I see them around all the time. How can I just start talking to these girls and get there attention?

[ByRoN]

Re: Im in love...

START WITH SOME SHOTS AT A PARTY BUT IF THEY ARE IN THE SAME SORORITY YOU CAN HANG IT UP.......WELL NOT REALLY BUT YOU WOULD HAVE TO HIT BOTH OF THEM BACK TO BACK THEN YOU COULD HANG UP HITTING ANY MORE OF THEIR SISTERS! this coming from a guy that USED to do this type of thing it will get you a bad rap fast but if ya don't care then make sure ya strap up!!!

[brody13]

Re: Im in love...

thats not really what i mean, like i actually like them and want to get to know them well. either one of these girls i would get with, and by that i dont necessariliy mean sexually but like date.

[ByRoN]

Re: Im in love...

but like i said before they are sisters!!!!! THERE IS NO WAY IN HELL its in their rules or some **** about dating guys! so do what i told ya and move on you will be much much happier!!!

[ByRoN]

Re: Im in love...

kidding about that last statement but your in college man use this time to have drunken orgies and wild one night stands!!! after yea get out ya get married!! then no more orgies and one night stands only begging for sex well i still don't have to beg yet but others say when ya get older we have too!

[brody13]

Re: Im in love...

Then ill just make out with them i guess, no biggie

[ByRoN]

Re: Im in love...

^^^ after you do that tho you are off limits to other sisters!!!! GO FOR THE GOLD!!!!

[brody13]

Re: Im in love...

brothers have told me that if you make out with girls and thats all, everyone (girls) respect you more and its easier to get with the other girls. So, I might just try and make out with all of them.

[dixiechick]

Re: Im in love...

Suck it up and be brave... no shyness... go talk to them whenever you get a chance. There is nothing wrong with getting to know both of them. Just be yourself and if there something more becomes of it with one of them, then great! If not, you've gained two new friends.

[O2BESOHUGE]

Re: Im in love...

^ GREAT ADVICE DIXIECHICK!

[Harry Tasker]

Re: Im in love...

If you want them to like you. Dont ever talk about yourself for awhile. Just ask them open ended questions about themselves, ones that dont give a simple yes or no. Keep them the main conversation. Make this a habit every time you see them. . Make sure you sincerely listen. All girls want is a good conversation, 'most girls'. Once you have a good conversations who knows where it will go from there. Oh and getting girls with ur looks will not cut it. U will get a few but not as many as u could by embracing your verbal communication. Gotta go the extra distance and show them who u r.

People love to talk about themselves, they dont care about u. So make them the center of attention. then once you do this 4 awhile u can open up and talk about urself. DO THIS PROPERLY AND U NOT FAIL. They will love you. I swear.

[DragonRider]

Re: Im in love...

your in college man use this time to have drunken orgies and wild one night stands!!! after yea get out ya get married!!

To who? Some girl that has been used for drunken college orgies and one night stands? Sounds like a match made in heaven.

[badasz32]

Re: Im in love...

you cant teach confidence.

[Stout1]

Re: Im in love...

love or lust?

[brody13]

Re: Im in love...

I just think they are really hot actually, not really love at all, but you know what i mean. Also, I met like 5 more girls who are equally hot soooo, its game on.