So am I an A$$ Hole?

[McKenzie]

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Its just respect Dave...

[Merc]

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i would be pissed if my wife told me she was going to be up in a few and was longer then an hour I would have locked the door on her ass and left her a message on her phone. We go out together, especially to places like that you have a right to be pissed. You know she would have been all over your ass if you would have done the same thing its BS!!

[DJDIGGLER]

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So I ask again....Am I the A$$hole?

Not even a little bit. It would be one thing if your allowed to go to a strip club, then you would be an ahole. But being that you said your not allowed to go to a strip club, then since women fought for equal rights with men they should also be held to that same standard. What goes for you, goes for her! I think it's absolute hypocritical BS on her end, and you have every right to be pissed off!

Just for that my azz would be at the strip club every weekend for the next month!

Typical woman thing! 99% of them expect you to follow certain rules, but think those same rules don't apply to them! Where's the equality in that?

[Scalleywag]

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Honestly I don't think it is actually the issue of the strip club. The issue is that she wanted to keep drinking and in her mind if she went to the strip club I would be cool with that since its GIRLS taking their clothes off as opposed to her going to a dance club where dudes are trying to hook up. This is her thinking.

Now I have been to strip clubs but choose to not go out of respect. I also know that when I went to strip clubs the two girls in there that weren't taking their clothes off are the two I most want to see take their clothes off. I would run game at the ****tail waitresses just because they weren't taking their clothes off. So in my mind I see it that there are a bunch of horny dudes sitting around looking at the two hot chicks that aren't taking their clothes off. Therefore her logic makes no sense.

What it all boils down to is that she doesn't know how to act when she drinks. She wouldn't cheat but she f's up in other ways.

[Scalleywag]

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......how was golf game???

I actually had my best round ever. I shot a 78 which is the first time I broke 80. I think it helped that my goal was to get as wasted as I possibly could so the ****tails started at the second tee box.

[McKenzie]

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woohoo congrats on the 78....great job

[Scalleywag]

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I pick my battles carefully and that one I would pick to battle. More so that I need my sleep and she disturbed it for my long day the next day...And of course the double standard

Deep down I think that is what I am most mad about.....my sleep. I am crazy about my sleep and I chose to go to bed early and not go out just so I could get my sleep. She pulls some crap like this and makes the decision for me that I am not going to sleep well.

[OldWiseGuy]

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I want some opinions....You asked.
Dude you bowed out and went to bed. Then forgot to take your woman home with you. So the party went on without you. You wasn't there. And you overlooked the fact she might just be having fun. I'm sure both of ya'll didn't get married to end all the fun in life. Dude believe in yourself and believe that she loves you too. All of couples down at the beach everybody there to party and have some fun. And what's up with the early tee time ruining the party? Next time suck it up and party all nite then go play golf. Always remember it's your duty to be there as much you can to protect your wife from harm. Keep time with her fun so both of you two will remain happy.

[daved150]

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Its just respect Dave...

yea, your right...i miss read your post (witch is pretty embarressing to admit, seeing how i highlighted it and shyt! lol) i thaught you said...going out WITH someone...that would suck if you said that...sorry, brain fart

[daved150]

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I want some opinions....You asked.
Dude you bowed out and went to bed. Then forgot to take your woman home with you. So the party went on without you. You wasn't there. And you overlooked the fact she might just be having fun. I'm sure both of ya'll didn't get married to end all the fun in life. Dude believe in yourself and believe that she loves you too. All of couples down at the beach everybody there to party and have some fun. And what's up with the early tee time ruining the party? Next time suck it up and party all nite then go play golf. Always remember it's your duty to be there as much you can to protect your wife from harm. Keep time with her fun so both of you two will remain happy.

all that is great dude...but, my wife better pick up the phone when i call (witch she has in the past) i'm not asking her to end her fun, just to me the favor of letting me know your ok. and, i'll do the same. we're not gonna be attached at the hip, altho most times we are, there will be times i gotta crash and she dont...this time it was him and golf, next time it could be an important biz. meeting...whatever!

[a-bomb83]

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i would have been more pissed about the whole not answering the cell phone thing. that phucking KILLS me when people don't answer their phones.

[Scalleywag]

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I want some opinions....You asked.
Dude you bowed out and went to bed. Then forgot to take your woman home with you. So the party went on without you. You wasn't there. And you overlooked the fact she might just be having fun. I'm sure both of ya'll didn't get married to end all the fun in life. Dude believe in yourself and believe that she loves you too. All of couples down at the beach everybody there to party and have some fun. And what's up with the early tee time ruining the party? Next time suck it up and party all nite then go play golf. Always remember it's your duty to be there as much you can to protect your wife from harm. Keep time with her fun so both of you two will remain happy.

I hear what you are saying but the fact that she still wanted to party wasn't the problem. The problem is that she didn't tell me but instead left me to wonder where she was or what had happened to her. If she tells me she is going to be out until 2am then I am fine with it. If she tells me she is going to be up after she finishes her drink but instead I have to track her down at 3:30 I am not fine with that.

[OldWiseGuy]

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Next time go to sleep and stay asleep. I can't hear my cell phone in a club either. DUDE JUST GET OVER IT. You'll be better off

[BIGMOFO]

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I want some opinions....You asked.
Dude you bowed out and went to bed. Then forgot to take your woman home with you. So the party went on without you. You wasn't there. And you overlooked the fact she might just be having fun. I'm sure both of ya'll didn't get married to end all the fun in life. Dude believe in yourself and believe that she loves you too. All of couples down at the beach everybody there to party and have some fun. And what's up with the early tee time ruining the party? Next time suck it up and party all nite then go play golf. Always remember it's your duty to be there as much you can to protect your wife from harm. Keep time with her fun so both of you two will remain happy.

thats a dif way to look at it!

[Scalleywag]

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Next time go to sleep and stay asleep.

Dude, I am running Tren right now so that ain't happenin'!