need your advice & help ?

[DJDIGGLER]

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Hey, I do have a sensitive bone in my body here and there. I have one bone that's REALLY sensitive!

Would it be your funny bone? Or maybe your mandible? or clavicle? or frontal?

[diggi]

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Everything you guys are saying is nothing but true statements.. I also believe that age and maturity in women plays a big role. This girl is 23 years old and I'm 25. Looking at her past she didn't have many relationships .. not serious one at least not the ones I know off. Women get better with age. I'm not saying go and have a GF thats 100yrs old.. but at least someone who had ups/downs in their relationship .. a girl that is mature and knows how to handle a relationship that knows right from wrong..etc..etc..

I will ignore her 'ex' and see what happens. I won't bother her with any questions or anything to see where she is going with this. As far as she adding him on her myspace. That could also be a screening test for me, to see how will I behave. I can't control her or tell her what to do period. I won't pressure myself over this. She is a nice girl and has everything that I want in a female but her judgement is just poor. So far she didn't show anything that would make me think that she lost interest in me. Usually, less phone calls..less spending time.. less this n that leads for a breakup or a girl gives you a hint to break up..

But in all honestly..if she wants to go to her ex then thats fine. I don't need a girl like that at all then.. but from now on whatever happens .. happens.. next time I will be making smart decisions believe me.. you won't see me on board posting these lame threads ever again.

[mtnmedic]

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Your gonna get burnt...

[mick-G]

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Bro, if you are going to play it this way, you have to let it go allthogether. Don't get jealous or even insinuate anything about him. If it is in fact a game to test you, you have to completely ignore it. If you find out she is talking to him etc. id start making my own plans with other women as well, let her is how she handles that.

[supasaiyan99]

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1. It's BS that she has him as a friend on her myspace account if he was trying to get her back while you were together in the beginning. That's disrespectful. I for one have one rule with my wife.....She can be friends with any ex's or guys so long as they don't hit on her. As soon as they hit on her their out the door. Simple as that.

2. She should never bring him up in a fight. If she does then she is dwelling on the past and needs to let it go. Honestly if she says it again to you, make a big deal about it. Don't just settle for someone because you THINK she's nice. You don't want someone with ex baggage! Next time she says "we'll never have what I had with him" or anything like that, I would break up with her and tell her she can go have him then. You need to make her realize what she is going to lose. The old saying says "You don't know what you got, till it's gone" and when she realizes how much more of a catch you are, than her ex was she'll drop him and all feelings for him like a bad habit. Or she could go back to him, in which case you did yourself a favor by not wasting anymore of your time on someone that doesn't feel the same about you. Better to find out now than ten years down the road when your married and have kids!

3. Have more self respect for yourself. It's one thing to be trusting of someone. It's another to let them walk all over you. She has absolutely no respect for you or your relationship or she wouldn't pull half the crap she does.

Exactly!!!