How soon is too soon to love??

[Lily]

Re: How soon is too soon to love??

and tax breaks!

LOL

[leankid]

Re: How soon is too soon to love??

2 weeks?!?!?! Are you really asking this question? OK, its great that you two really like each other. So keep dating. See where it leads. Date her for at least a year or two before going and talking marriage - you owe that to yourself, to her, and to that little girl whose heart would be broken if things got real serious and then didn't work out.

You want to be married only once, right? So use your head. You don't really even know who she is yet - give it some time. Trust me.

I hope to God I didn't make it sound like I want to marry her, I am just blown away by her. That part of my post was just to make it clear that I usually have a guard up and that I don't even consider keeping a girl around unless she is someone I can see a potential future with. Marriage is not at all what I meant, just talkin bout the feelings I have for her..

[leankid]

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I KNOW THERE'S EXEPTIONS TO EVERY RULE....AND, YOU HAD TO KNOW THIS WAS COMING!! LOL....WHEN I FIRST MET MY WIFE WE WORKED TOGETHER. I WAS 21 SHE WAS 24. SHE HAD A 12MO OLD BABY. I KNEW SHE WAS MARRIED, BUT I DIDNT KNOW THEY WERE LIVING SEPERATLY. I TOLD A FRIEND THAT I WAS GONNA MARRY THAT GIRL. HE LAUGHED. IN THE FOLLOWING THREE WEEKS, I LEARNED THAT THEY WERE LIVING SEPERATLY, WE HAD A COUPLE OF TALKS, WENT ON OUR FIRST DATE, I TOLD HER I LOVED HER, AND SHE MOVED IN WITH ME (I LIVED WITH MY PARENTS)! IT WAS A LITTLE BUMPY AT FIRST. SHE WAS A LITTLE CONFUSSED AND MOVED BACK INTO HER DAD'S. I TOLD HER "TAKE ALL THE TIME YOU NEED TO GET YOUR HEAD STRAIGHT AND FIGURE OUT WHAT YOU WANT TO DO, AFTER ALL, WE WILL BE SPENDING THE REST OF OUR LIVE'S TOGETHER!" "NO RUSH..." LOL. SHE TOLD ME THAT WHEN I TOLD HER THAT, SHE KNEW IT WAS THE TRUTH. ALOMOST 17YRS BRO, AND I STILL LOVE HER JUST AS MUCH (IF NOT MORE) THAN EVER!!

This is the type reply I was hoping to see! I don't want to say it to any of my friends because I don't wanna see them roll their eyes, but I'm 110% sure we'll end up together for a LONG time! Will keep ya'll posted!

[daved150]

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This is the type reply I was hoping to see! I don't want to say it to any of my friends because I don't wanna see them roll their eyes, but I'm 110% sure we'll end up together for a LONG time! Will keep ya'll posted!

HONESTLY...GOODLUCK BRO. I'M NOT TRYING TO SAY I KNOW YOUR SITUATION, BUT I'M ONE OF MANY THAT PROVES THAT IT IS POSS.

[Testify]

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Well Lean, tell her whatever you want - pour your heart out. But wait to see how your relationship develops over the long term before you decide to make it make it legal. That's all I'm saying. I wish you the best.

[OldWiseGuy]

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It really doesn't matter if you say "I love you". Anybody with a brain can tell if someone loves them. Even if your being played you'll be able to tell. Just keep your cash in the bank for now.

[T-Man007]

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True Love is a thing that can't be explained because it has no guidlines, no rules, nothing but the feeling of true love.

[DJDIGGLER]

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I moved to my wife's state after knowing her 1 week. I lived in Buff, Ny she lived in Maryland. I was dating 4 different girls at the time and I immediately dumped them for my wife. Now 4 years later we're married. BTW, I knew I loved her almost immediately when I met her!

[Harry Tasker]

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YEA, AINT THAT SHIT FUNNY. ALL HER FRIENDS SAID SHE WAS STUPID...WE WERE TOO DIFF. (I WAS A LONG HAIRED GUITARIST IN A HEAVY METAL BAND, SHE WAS A REDNECK!!) HER STEP MOM TOLD HER I WOULDNT AMOUNT TO ANYTHING!! NOW, HER FRIENDS ARE ALL DIVORSED!! ALL OF THEM!!!!!!! AND SO IS HER STEP MOM AND DAD. AND, HER STEP MOM BEING VERY ILL, I SEND HER 300-500 A MONTH TO HELP HER MAKE ENDS MEET!!!! MAN, AM I A PIECE OF SHIT...LOL

thats really nice of u. It would take a lot for me to hand over my hard earned cash to someone, espcially if they if they used to talk shit.

[leankid]

Re: How soon is too soon to love??

Well Lean, tell her whatever you want - pour your heart out. But wait to see how your relationship develops over the long term before you decide to make it make it legal. That's all I'm saying. I wish you the best.

Cool, testify you always have good advice so I'd certainly value what you say, but I definitely ain't tryin to marry the chick!

Thanks for the replies folks!

[SMILEY FACE]

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make sure its LOVE and NOT LUST

[SMILEY FACE]

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^that was my mistake..i think

[space mountain]

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lol at mikey