GF cheated with a girl this weekend

[lxorl]

Re: GF cheated with a girl this weekend

i dont know guys... i kinda see it from all the angles here..... there are grey areas to it... we were not an exclusive item.... when we first started dating she didnt want to give it up... so she told me to just go out and nail other girls. So in that sense it has been a little open. I have only been seeing her like 2 months.. .nothing was established.

now at the same time I do feel like she betrayed my trust. She is a confused 22 year old.... i ****ed over everyone when I was 22. I can relate... what goes around comes around.

Romance aside, this girl has become one of my best friends in such a short period of time... I like her better than most of my friends that i grew up with. Her and I started out as friends and she kinda took me in when my wife split on me. She knew i didnt know anyone in this town and she took care of me. She took me out with her friends.... she had me over for dinner many times. and this was all just as friends. nothing romantic to this point.

So what i am saying is im not gonna spit in her face and say goodbye. Ill be friends with her forever, i know this. Are things messed up as far as us dating???? DEFINITELY! Am I still goint to hit it ?? DEFINITELY!! I am just not approaching it as building a serious relationship anymore. I will keep my options open and not hesitate to jump on a good oportunity. but you have to understand, in my situation... living where I live, having as few of friends as I do.... I need to keep this other girl in my life, I am just thinking of her more on a friend level now..... which sucks because I was really excited about us.

[mtnmedic]

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Well what if it was the other way around for our bro here ? Ya think this chick would give a him a chance ? maby invite his new friend over for a threesome ? yeah right. Your better than that bra, sounds like you're one of the few that have principals. Nishnish does have a good point though !

[SMILEY FACE]

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i never said to spit in her face, i SAID DON;T GET YOUR FEELINGS TOOOOO ATTACHED WITH HER

[lxorl]

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lol... i had to go back anbd reread what nishnish wrote.... lol

im doing my best to guard myself against potential disaster.

a small part of me still thinks she might be gay.... so i am somewhat prepared for that, which has my guard up. But its had to really think she is gay the way she acts towards me.

Well what if it was the other way around for our bro here ? Ya think this chick would give a him a chance ? maby invite his new friend over for a threesome ? yeah right. Your better than that bra, sounds like you're one of the few that have principals. Nishnish does have a good point though !

[mtnmedic]

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Im sorry your hurting bra, I got dumped a coupla weeks ago and I can feel yor pain.

[SMILEY FACE]

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^all good..they come and go and she is NOT THE ONLY FISH IN THE DAMN SEA

[lxorl]

Re: GF cheated with a girl this weekend

my girl is Fu*king nutts...... she is all over the board...

She keeps saying she is so confused.... one minute she is saying how much she loves me, would die if she lost me, can see herself marrying me someday...... then the next day she wants to be single... then back to the love stuff... then back to single.

she say she has no interest in any other guys, so obviously she is interested in dating this chick...

ohh well , she is strictly a Fu*k buddy from here on out.

[mtnmedic]

Re: GF cheated with a girl this weekend

Mine is a jeckyl and hyde too who needs a good swift kick in the ass !! Bra, you dont need some confused chick playing with your head !! she doesn't give a real crap about you, she jus doesn't wanna be alone. Im sure you probally treat her better than the last guy (they all say that), till they feel that they found someone better, dump ya, then they make you out to be the reason why they left in the first place. And once again you're standing there alone with your dick in your hand, and racking your brain at every spare moment wondering what it was you did. Btw, im not flaming all the ladies. Guys can be just as thoughtless, self centered and cruel too. Sure im hurting, I was alone for eight years till I met her. But ya know what ? I dont have anyone abusing me anymore, I feel like the ol' mike again. Not all drained and hurt from trying to salvage a relationship and hope things will get better. She could care less about you bra, she can have any sucker she wants and knows it bottom line. Take care of yourself and carry on, this problem will only eat at ya and bring you down my friend.

[lxorl]

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i know she cares about me.... she is just 22 and doesnt know what she wants in life, in relationships..... and unfortunetly for me i got my feelings too involved... now i have to try and back away, which is really hard.

Mine is a jeckyl and hyde too who needs a good swift kick in the ass !! Bra, you dont need some confused chick playing with your head !! she doesn't give a real crap about you, she jus doesn't wanna be alone. Im sure you probally treat her better than the last guy (they all say that), till they feel that they found someone better, dump ya, then they make you out to be the reason why they left in the first place. And once again you're standing there alone with your dick in your hand, and racking your brain at every spare moment wondering what it was you did. Btw, im not flaming all the ladies. Guys can be just as thoughtless, self centered and cruel too. Sure im hurting, I was alone for eight years till I met her. But ya know what ? I dont have anyone abusing me anymore, I feel like the ol' mike again. Not all drained and hurt from trying to salvage a relationship and hope things will get better. She could care less about you bra, she can have any sucker she wants and knows it bottom line. Take care of yourself and carry on, this problem will only eat at ya and bring you down my friend.

[mtnmedic]

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Trust me they know,..they just have too many choices.

[bowbow]

Re: GF cheated with a girl this weekend

My take on this is she hooked up with a chick and felt bad about it.I can see feeling bad about doing it once but DAMN she hooked up all weekend with her. Took her a little while to feel bad wouldn't you say?

Drop her ass. I don't care what you feel. It's just going to be worse when she does it again and she will.

[Gooseneck]

Re: GF cheated with a girl this weekend

Whether it's a guy or a girl, it's still cheating. Maybe next time it will be a guy. You dont need that kind of worry.

[SMILEY FACE]

Re: GF cheated with a girl this weekend

Drop her ass. I don't care what you feel. It's just going to be worse when she does it again and she will.

bump..that is waht i have been telling lxorl...GO BACK AND READ MY POSTS AND I TOLD U SHE IS STILL CONFUSED AND SPEAKING OF THAT, SHE TOLD U SHE IS CONFUSED.....WAKE UP AND SMELL THE DAMN COFFE BRO ..I KNOW ITS HARD..TRSUT ME, I'AM WT U IN THE SAME SITUATION(STILL DEALING WT MY EX)

[SMILEY FACE]

Re: GF cheated with a girl this weekend

Whether it's a guy or a girl, it's still cheating. Maybe next time it will be a guy. You dont need that kind of worry.

BUMP AS WELL, WHETHER IT'S A GUY OR A GIRL, ITS STILL CHEATING..
U DONT' NEED THAT SHIT IN YOUR LIFE