GF cheated with a girl this weekend

[lxorl]

So i have been seeing this girl.....

we really never defined our relationship but i kinda thought we had reached a point where we were not seeing other people.

so I go out of town this weekend.... i go to hang out with her last night... and she says she has to come clean. She met a girl friday night... hooked up... then went back out with her Sat night... and they hung out yesterday too. She said she felt really guilty and feeling guilty made her realize how much she wants to be with me.. So on the way to work i stop at her house to drop something off, and the girl from the weekend is there. She said she asked her to come over to talk things over... swears they didnt hook up last night... but why did she have to sleep over.

Again we were nothing serious, so i cant really consider it cheating.... Now she is saying she wants to be with me and will do anything to make it work. and if we are together then it is just me and her and she would never cheat.

I personally think she is a lesbian and embarassed to face it. she says its not the case. This all really sucks because this girl is amazing.... i was really starting to fall for her... but now dont really want to look at her. its just really confusing because we have become really good friends. I dont know what to do from here. I wanted to be with her so badly.... but how can i trust her now??

[space mountain]

Re: GF cheated with a girl this weekend

damn bro what luck u have ! maybe worse than me !

[Gooseneck]

Re: GF cheated with a girl this weekend

Drop her, you dont need the headache. Me and my girl arent doing so great lately either, actually its just me getting annoyed with her.

[lxorl]

Re: GF cheated with a girl this weekend

i hear ya... but easier said than done... i was really right there on falling for this girl.

she is really one of my best friends... its hard to just drop her.

Drop her, you dont need the headache. Me and my girl arent doing so great lately either, actually its just me getting annoyed with her.

[DIRTY_SOUTH]

Re: GF cheated with a girl this weekend

I'd just drop by and give them both some DANG-A-LANG!!!

[Lily]

Re: GF cheated with a girl this weekend

Must be something in the water...me an my hubby had words last week...I caught him in a lie over something stupid!! I told him maybe it's time we had a little talk again...my friend could use a roommate!
Now he acts like nothing happened...WTF?!

[lxorl]

Re: GF cheated with a girl this weekend

i could probably work that angle.... but im not really trying to go there.

I'd just drop by and give them both some DANG-A-LANG!!!

[Lily]

Re: GF cheated with a girl this weekend

I'd just drop by and give them both some DANG-A-LANG!!!

LOLOL
you would!

[lxorl]

Re: GF cheated with a girl this weekend

well she feels terrible..... she is begging me to forgive her... saying she didnt know what we were... but she wants to be with me.

it just pisses me off that she came to my house to discuss everything with me last night and then has that girl meet her right after.... she claims it was just to discuss everything.

my head is so messed up right now!

Must be something in the water...me an my hubby had words last week...I caught him in a lie over something stupid!! I told him maybe it's time we had a little talk again...my friend could use a roommate!
Now he acts like nothing happened...WTF?!

[McKenzie]

Re: GF cheated with a girl this weekend

Let her swim in her guilt for a while lxorl....I mean she has been making you worry and not caring about it.

IMO...I would let this one go...or go for a lil while.

[O2BESOHUGE]

Re: GF cheated with a girl this weekend

I'd just drop by and give them both some DANG-A-LANG!!!

YUP YUP

[O2BESOHUGE]

Re: GF cheated with a girl this weekend

LXORL...ITS OK TO BE SINGLE. GET YOURSELF STRAIGHT. DO WHAT YOU WANT TO DO AND DONT LOOK TO BE TIED DOWN. THE RIGHT PERSON WILL COME ALONG WHEN YOU LEAST EXPECT IT

[CJ24/7]

Re: GF cheated with a girl this weekend

Good luck brother!! You seem to be a straight up guy you will get somebody you deserve eventually

[diggi]

Re: GF cheated with a girl this weekend

why dont you just play nice with her and pound them together..bro face it...its done ,.. you now have experience from your xwife.. do not be nice with her anymore and think about relationship and marriage..she might not be a lesbian but def. a bi-sexual and those girls are the worst ones trust me..

either bone em together really hard or get away from her before your feelins really start to sink in.

[blackwater]

Re: GF cheated with a girl this weekend

Im sorry bro, but you have to look at it like this.. This girl completely disrespected you, you may say that your relationship was nothing serious, then why would she come at you saying she feels guilty and has to come clean? thats a relationship...

this girl has ****ed up your trust, and that will never be the same.. Regardless, girl/guy, it dont matter.. You will always have a grudge against her for this, you can hide it very well, but it is always going to be there...

Whatever you decide, just remember that this is a girl that you should never get serious with.. she has already proved that to you, and if you only get one thing from what Im saying, let it be this.. Never let yourself get too close to another person, because no matter what, they will not always be there, and you will...