need to get this off my chest and get some advice before i do something stupid

[Phreak]

ok, first of all i want to say that i am not a bigot, i have no qualms with homosexuality or any questions as to my orientation. what people do in the privacy of their own homes is their business, and as long as they aren't hurting anyone other than themselves i could give a shit.

but here's my situation...

in my gym, there are 2 or 3 gay dudes that are always, i mean ALWAYS eyeballing me, from the time i get there until i leave. now, for a while i just let it go, i'm talking two-three months, but it is starting to get on my nerves. i gets on my nerves when anyone stares at me, gay or straight.

the way i look at it is this- when a dude continuously stares at you, he wants to fight or ****. period.

and i find it annoying when someone stares at me, especially when i can only imagine what is going through their mind.

i kid you not, every time i look up one of the two *****es is staring me down!

you know when you can just feel someone looking at you? well maybe i've gotten a bit paranoid, but i feel this the whole time i am there.

i try to ignore it, but it has gotten to a point where i am feeling harassed. and i am about to put a gay ***** in his place.

i really don't want to lose my membership, but i'm pissed off now, and i feel like i am going to explode on a ***** ass punk in a bad way if i don't find a way to handle this shit.

[BIGMOFO]

Re: need to get this off my chest and get some advice before i do something stupid

who cares if they dont touch you or get in your way! just dont look at them or let them bother you....just dont even think about it.....its part of the pain you go through for being so buff nish.....

[gimp]

Re: need to get this off my chest and get some advice before i do something stupid

Just tell them that you don't like people staring at you, you don't even have to bring the gay thing up, if they keep it up then put the fear into them. i can't say that i'd be able to keep my cool about it but that's the way i'd try an go about it.

[gearjunky]

Re: need to get this off my chest and get some advice before i do something stupid

ask them why they stare? then ask them to politly not stare.

[Phreak]

Re: need to get this off my chest and get some advice before i do something stupid

that's what i'm saying bros, i've been cool about it FOR MONTHS!!!

i think it's harassment

what if i was constantly staring at some girl the whole time she was in there? would it be right for her to tell me to **** off? shouldn't i cut it out when she showed that she was obviously not interested?

i just don't like being stared at, especially in that way.

[Phreak]

Re: need to get this off my chest and get some advice before i do something stupid

ask them why they stare? then ask them to politly not stare.

that's what i'm going to have to do i think. the trick will be keeping my cool.

[gimp]

Re: need to get this off my chest and get some advice before i do something stupid

have u said anything to them yet or just been ignoring them. i agree it's the same as a guy staring at a chick, but if u haven't said anything to em yet that may help.

[lxorl]

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just let him poke you in the hiney and get it over with!!

lol

just dont look in their direction!

[gearjunky]

Re: need to get this off my chest and get some advice before i do something stupid

STOP WEARING SPANDEX TO THE GYM LOLOLOLOL

[Phreak]

Re: need to get this off my chest and get some advice before i do something stupid

but those leg warmers keep me so warm and comfy when i'm doing my leg lifts!!!

[FUZO]

Re: need to get this off my chest and get some advice before i do something stupid

NISH JUST LET THEM BLOW YOU AND GET IT OVER WITH.LOL

[Phreak]

Re: need to get this off my chest and get some advice before i do something stupid

maybe it's my t-shirt:

[McKenzie]

Re: need to get this off my chest and get some advice before i do something stupid

I say go off on em!

god knows I cant take anyone staring at me either.....especially at the gym and full of Ephedra...that shit makes me mean if I havent gotten it out of my system with cardio.

[Phreak]

Re: need to get this off my chest and get some advice before i do something stupid

I say go off on em!

god knows I cant take anyone staring at me either.....especially at the gym and full of Ephedra...that shit makes me mean if I havent gotten it out of my system with cardio.

i knew a woman who has had a similar experience would chime in eventually; i can only imagine what they go through... well i guess i kinda know now

i've been just ignoring them up till this point.

i just want to handle it the right way and not lose my membership or get an assault charge

[FUZO]

Re: need to get this off my chest and get some advice before i do something stupid

RICHARD SIMMONS ROCKS