Need good advise!

[space mountain]

ok people this is a serious question so lets try and be mature about this!

ok here at the gym i got a lil problem developing..we got a young guy that comes in to workout..he is gay. openly about it. now he dont dress say bad but he will wear womens shorts or tops etc. we are starting to get complaints about it...what should i do ? any ideas?

[O2BESOHUGE]

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YOU SAY ANYTHING AND YOU WILL LOSE A MEMBER...TO EACH HIS OWN...LIVE AND LET LIVE. TELL THE ONES MAKING THE FUN TO MIND THEIR OWN BUSINESS

O2

[jamescb77]

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get a sign made that states that all people must be dressed appropriately. then ask the fella to please come back when he is dressed appropriately to not offend others there

[O2BESOHUGE]

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IF PEOPLE WERE MINDING THEIR OWN BUSINESS AND WORKING OUT LIKE THEY'RE SUPPOSED TO BE...NO ONE WOULD BE WORRIED ABOUT WHAT SOMEONE WAS WEARING

DOES HE BOTHER FOLKS OR KEEP TO HIMSELF?

[Evil Ryu]

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Thats a tough one. I think there is really nothing you can do about it as long as he is not physically or verbally offending somebody. Is it your gym?

[space mountain]

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no he dont bother no one! he is cool bro very good manners etc... some if he goes in locker room will come out and stand outside door until he gets done etc

[space mountain]

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im damned if i do or dont lol

[jamescb77]

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this is the problme tha ti see in america today is the empowerment of minority at the depowerment of others. if he is bothering a lot of poeple then he is the one that needs to be told if it's one maybe 2 people then he is fine. it's just liek prayer in school a few don't want to be able to have prayer in school so it takes the rigths away from all those that do want to be able to pray in school. yes if you tell him whats up you might lose one customer if you dont' you might lose 10 costumers(if the problem is big enough). I in no way have a problem with gays or any other minorities this is just an unbiased view on the way i see things

[Evil Ryu]

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no he dont bother no one! he is cool bro very good manners etc... some if he goes in locker room will come out and stand outside door until he gets done etc

Then those that come out of the locker have no manners. Don't get me wrong I think a man dressing like that is wrong, but its like people that complain about the music in a gym. If you change it you will have others complain about the change, only this is a person so as long as he is not directly, meaning confrontation, offending someone then IMO their is really nothing you can do.

[space mountain]

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i think im gonna sit him down and see if he will just tone it down some.. he breaks no dress code here just wears like tight pink shorts etc

[space mountain]

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he is really a good bro if ya didnt know he was gay we would hang with him

[Evil Ryu]

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Man you must be out of a small town cuz if a gay person got kicked out of a gym in a big city for how they dressed, there would be like thousands of gays protesting. LOL I don't think they are right, but if they are good people then you do have to respect them, not saying you space because you obviously do, but i'm reffering to the members.

[Lily]

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Well if it's only because of how he dresses in women's shorts then why aren't they complaining about the women in tight work-out clothes? They are just a bunch of homo phobes! If it offends them then THEY can find another time to work out!

Question: Do any women complain or is it just the men?

[Stout1]

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he is really a good bro if ya didnt know he was gay we would hang with him

So you soley do NOT hang out with him because he is gay?

[bowbow]

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i think im gonna sit him down and see if he will just tone it down some.. he breaks no dress code here just wears like tight pink shorts etc

See theres that pink thing again