Wedding nerves!

[DJDIGGLER]

Re: Wedding nerves!

Thanks for all the support guys.

Mick I know she's the one. We match perfectly. Sure we have our problems here and there, but I don't know any relationship that doesn't. But thanks for the heads up.

I'll post back after Saturday, I'm going to be busy as shit for the next couple of days!

[T-Man007]

Re: Wedding nerves!

007 you never cease to amaze me with your stories, lol! Oh, one thing you must consider DJ, if there is something that really bothers you about her and think she will change then i would have to say reconsider, because one thing i have learned over the yrs is you can't change anyone, so if you can live with it, then all will be good, if not.... then your in for some serious probs later. The same goes for a woman thinking she can change a man. Alot of ppl i see getting married nowdays feel they need to get married, because its time to, or they have been in a committed relationship for so long that they don't want to break it off because of confrontation or don't feel they can get anyone else, or in a woman's case, they don't want to be an old maid, but i say when the time is right then thats when you consider it, not just because you are getting older. Marriage is not for everyone, but if you are the marrying kind and you have truely found your life mate, it can be the most closest bond you will have. Good luck to you, and best wishes!

LOL! Yeah, during my 33 years of life I have seen and done quit a bit. More than the normal person, IMO. I used to get myself involved in as much as possible. I guess I had one of those personalities that felt like I was missing out on something. LOL Seriously, I used to think I had to be doing something all the time. And, well, the more you do, the more you experience. Not all good unfortuanately, there were a lot of not so pleasant experiences as well.

PS - great advice Mick!

[mick-G]

Re: Wedding nerves!

Thanks for all the support guys.

Mick I know she's the one. We match perfectly. Sure we have our problems here and there, but I don't know any relationship that doesn't. But thanks for the heads up.

I'll post back after Saturday, I'm going to be busy as shit for the next couple of days!

Well, DJ i wasn't really inferring this to be your case, but i have seen so many younger ppl getting married for the wrong reasons, or simply because they feel that they have been in a committed realationship for so long that even though there are many things they don't like they force the issue anyways. To be honest im really talking alot about women here. Ive seen it so often, the women are really great women, but they cut themselves short not only with their personal lives but professional as well, just because they either feel they are not worthy because they are stuck in this "not going anywhere realtionship" and don't have enough esteem to really take proactive approaches to find the right man or after a long relationship that has ended they find another man right away and then get married almost like a rebound effect. I know everone has disagreements and fight, hell if you didn't have a disagreement or a fight now and then (not physical now) what fun would it be, lol! Best of luck to you and your fiancee' and im sure you will have the time of your lives together. Weddings and honeymoons are something you will remember your lifetimes and can reflect on it many yrs from now, and then wonder where all the time has gone, lol!