Why is breaking up so damn hard?

[Aphrodite]

Re: Why is breaking up so damn hard?

You know it's never easy to break up.....whatever age you are. And the only thing that gets you thru is "time". My advice to you is to just BREATHE! Each minute, each day will get better. Take baby steps and you'll get thru things. The "older" guys gave some super advice. Take it from their experience and listen.

Remember "some people" are like cigarettes - you know they are bad for you but you just can't resist just one more.

Resist temptation.

Best of Luck!!

[mick-G]

Re: Why is breaking up so damn hard?

Well, Cromb at least you are trying, lol! I just have a feeling that its the environment that leads to finding these types of women. Try some different avenues other than just bars and clubs. I know it is hard to breakup. Think in your mind though, is it alot to do with maybe the sex and intimacy that you have with her that makes it hard to break up, or is it "her", as in her personality and character? I would prob bet its the sex, intimacy, and looks that is making it hard for you. I know that sex and intimacy is a big part of a relationship, but it shouldn't be the biggest part and keeping you from finding someone that is more of what you would like in a woman. I think alot of what many younger men go thu is they meet a good looking woman, then they want the sex, and most women wonts let you have the sex without a commitment, so the guy give her the commitment so they can have sex. Then later they find out that this woman has nothing in common with them or what they are looking for, but since now they are supposed to be "commited", they can't play the field. If you want to play the field let the woman know this early on in the relationship before you get too involved. This will keep both ppl from getting hurt.

[OldWiseGuy]

Re: Why is breaking up so damn hard?

If you enjoy being with her then there's nothing wrong with that. Go enjoy but, don't saw your own legs off by giving her many gifts. It's down right stupid. Don't get bummed out over a female. Your only hurting yourself. Get some balance in your life. Take this advice TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF FIRST then if you want spend some time with her that's fine. Be a man act like a man and be in charge like a man. Save the gifts for the woman that bears your offspring. She will have earned them. Learn how to say no to her if she wants gifts and tell her that being saved for your faithful wife and mother of your little ones.