Why is breaking up so damn hard?

[crombie09]

Re: Why is breaking up so damn hard?

She keeps calling me and texting me while Im at work. Its getting old, but Im starting to miss her already. To all the comments about beauty and her body, of course Im going to want that in any girl. Thats what attracts me to a girl in the 1st place and then if shes beautiful on the inside as well, I'll date her.

[SMILEY FACE]

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Sounds more like us guys bro......

[SMILEY FACE]

Re: Why is breaking up so damn hard?

She keeps calling me and texting me while Im at work. Its getting old, but Im starting to miss her already. To all the comments about beauty and her body, of course Im going to want that in any girl. Thats what attracts me to a girl in the 1st place and then if shes beautiful on the inside as well, I'll date her.

bro..ignore em..trsut me..don't be stubborn..i ignored her for one week and i'am still going nuts... and i swear on the bible , she texed me this moring sayin: i miss soooo much mikey and not going to tex her back.....i will by next weekend..teh more u ignore her, she will think that u are loosing interest in her which is good..she will go nuts... and she will come after u..but it's hard not to call or tex back..i know the feeling..hang there....

[mick-G]

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You are going to call her back Mike?? If so, you really need to wake up! I think you are just prolonging the issue. Either you want her or you don't. Games are for kids bro! If you don't like how shes acting or something is bugging you, meet her face to face and tell her. If she doesn't give you the kind of communication or responce that you want it, or doesn't give you feedback that shows she understands, then break it off completely. Be a Man! One day you guys will figure it out that a "real" woman" is one that is secure with themselves and doesn't need to play these immature games. And Crombie i explained in my post that, yes you have to be attracted to that person to have chemistry, but to go after women that is based on looks only at first then getting into a sexual situation too fast before finding out what the person is truely like, can have its ramifications. From what i have read from your prior posts, this is something that happens often to you, you get a women because you want someone "hot" that you can be "seen" with and then after the course of 4 months or so it doesn't work out. You have to quit worrying about what you look like to your circle of "friends" and maybe take a step back and look at yourself and your actions. Women that are secure and mature want men that are mature as well. I don't mean this to be a flame, but just being blunt and honest. I hate seeing young guys getting jerked around.

[SMILEY FACE]

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well mick..we both really like each otehr, but she is insecure about me big time(AND I START ACTING INSECURE ABOUT HER WHEN SHE GETS ON MY LAST NERVES, EVEN THOUGH I TRUST HER BUT JUST TO PISS HEF OFF....)... adn that is the main problemsbeside she wants me to loose 30lbs since she hate big guys.....we hopefully next week, we are gonna have some coffee and see what is up? and from there, i'llbe making my decision...but i know the answer is going to be NO....she is soooo stuck up and stubborn, but we will see.....

[Phreak]

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she hates big guys? why?

and why was she with you then?

f that noise mikey. she should like/love/whatever you for who you are, not what she wants you to be.

[SMILEY FACE]

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she hates big guys? why?

and why was she with you then?

f that noise mikey. she should like/love/whatever you for who you are, not what she wants you to be.

yes she hate big guys...she say's i'am too big..y? she is not attractive to any big guy..she like the fit model looking guy likr around 180 lbs.....

she was wt me coz of my heart but than we were fighting tooo much that she didn't care about me no more....plus she doesn't know i'am on aas ..i can't tell her NO WAY.......and she tells me i'am NOT HER TYPE as far for physique and shiat...she was like well diet and i was fine..i'am going in december b4 i hit miami in march....but she need to deal wt it....

[SMILEY FACE]

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but now she texs me saying : i miss u sooo much coz she fucking realized i didn't do anything wrong and i ignored the fuck out of her(even though i was dying from teh inside)but i guess it is working.....

[mick-G]

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Mike don't sugar coat this, lol! You know there is more probs with her than that! She is the kind that does what "she" wants to do when "she wants to do it, and likes to tell her men what to do. You want to end up p***y wipped?? She has already displayed this behavior many times to you, and now she wants "you" to loose 30lbs???? You were big when she met you and if she gets jealous because of it, thats her prob. Mike, she is not going to change, and don't think for a minute that the jealously will stop either. How many times do you have to breakup and get back together before you wake up? There are so many good women out there Mike. I think you have prob with the looks as well. If looks are that much of what you want in a woman, then play the field at the same time. I think it is also a control issue with her to make her men do what she wants.

[SMILEY FACE]

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WELL YES I DID SUGAR COAT THAT...i don't want to get into more details and so forth.....but I'AM NOT GOING AFTER HER LOOK....TRSTU ME..I HAD BETTERRRRRRRR...BUT SOMETHING ABOUT HER DRIVES ME NUTS...WHEN SHE IS NORMAL, I LOVE HER TO DEATH AND WHEN SHE IS MOODY. I HATE THE MOMENT THAT I MET HER..

[mick-G]

Re: Why is breaking up so damn hard?

Well, just don't get your hopes up, cause youve been doing this yo, yo ride for awhile. Do you think she can change?? Maybe the coffee talk will clear things up..?

[SMILEY FACE]

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Well, just don't get your hopes up, cause youve been doing this yo, yo ride for awhile. Do you think she can change?? Maybe the coffee talk will clear things up..?

I HAVEN'T BEEN DOING THE YO YO RIDE FOR 8 WEEKS.. AND THAT IS THE LAST THING IS ON MY MIND..CAN SHE CHANGE THE ANSWER IS NOOOOO BUT WOULD SHE COMPROMISE, I DUNNO....I'AM GOING TO LAY EVERYTHING ON THE TABLE FLAT OUT ADN I TOLD HER THAT AND SHE IS WILLING TO LISTEN TO ME WHAT I'AM GOING TO TELL HER...I WILL KEEP U UPDATED....

[Phreak]

Re: Why is breaking up so damn hard?

you need to tell her to f off and go find an underwear model mikey. put on another 30 pounds and bust a crab in her face.

[mick-G]

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Lol^! Well, Mike if you lay it on the table i hope she undersands, but you need to get some kind of commitment of her working on it. I've seen women like and they will say yes, and what you want to hear, so they can get you back. Then afterwards its back to the same thing. I guess all you can do is see how she reacts to your issues with her and see if she is going to take action to compromise.

[crombie09]

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Thanks mick-G, you're right about me going for the good looking girls. Maybe its where I meet these girls that screws everything up? Anyway Im trying to get through this slowly. She keeps calling and texting me and I've been calling her and texting her back some, not everytime but some. At least I havent seen her in 2 days, thats a huge, huge step for me. Last time we split she was over at my place the next day. Im working on spending some time away from her and thinking things over. This is really hard, I wish we didnt live so close to eachother. I keep wanting to go see her, but I know we AT LEAST need some space. I went out with my friends last night and ended up running into some girls I used to hangout with when we 1st got to the bar. Then all thier girlfriends came, so it was 3 guys and about 10-11 girls. We had an awesome time and it kept my mind off her.