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  • #16
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    sorry SM....i wish him the best and my prayers will goes out for him...

    p.s fuck that ***** what GOES AROUND, WILL COME AROUND...ONE DAY SHE WILL BE BROKEN HEARTED AND NO1 IS GONNA BE THERE FOR HER...

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    • #17
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      Space,

      You and your friend are definately in my prayers. I cant even imagine the pain that he is experiencing but like someone said above his health and children are the top priorities for him to focus on. The man upstairs always makes things happen for a reason and this is just part of his plan. Thankfully he has a good friend like you and children that love him.
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      • #18
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        thanks mike and testrip!
        If bigger is better then im better than ever !

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        • #19
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          SM - Bro, I am going through a similar thing. My best friend of 20 years is going through the same stuff with his wife. All she wants to do is go out with her friends from work. She shows up whenever the hell she wants to and doesn't feel she needs to tell him when she'll be home. However, the slight difference is, during his wife's selfish crap his dad died of a heart attack (at age 60). Get this, the ***** (he gave me permission to call her that) has the nerve to tell him he's being too needy. Too needy! His dad just died and she wants him to be like nothing happened. My bro is heart broken. He has sacraficed a lot for this woman and she treats him like shit. He works for Lotus (the car company) and he turned down a promotion because he would be traveling a lot going to races and car shows. So, I feel your pain bro. PM me your bro's name and I will add him to my prayer list brotha.
          I used to have superhuman powers....until my therapist took them away.

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          • #20
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            I will pray for him and his family.

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            • #21
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              Originally posted by mick-G
              Well, very sorry to hear this about your friend Space. I have been thru a very similar situation long ago, but thank God no children were involved. Usually there is some sign of something going on before hand though. Maybe there is another man involved. It is hard to believe a wife would leave her husband and children because she just wants to go to clubs. Maybe she married too young and now wants to sew her oats per se'. I would bet though that there is another man. Reguardless, has your friend really talked to his wife in depth about this to find out exactly what is going on?? There has to be other issues going on here that are not being said. If she is pent on this, he needs to end it quickly for his kids sake and get over it as quickly as possible. I know it is very hard, especially after 10yrs, but he must do everything he can to help himself and his health, as he has others to think about.

              there doesnt necessarily have to be another man involved. We do not know the specifics of their relationship. No one really knows what goes on behind closed doors. If she has only been with this man, maybe she is feeling that need to sew some wild oats, or maybe she just isnt in love with him...everyone goes through difficult times in their marriage. There are alot of reasons why people break up (or stay together) and even if you are very good friends with one or both, there is always 2 sides to the story, each having a totally different view on their own relationship.

              that's just my 2 sense..
              Last edited by Lily; 09-26-2005, 12:10 PM.
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              • #22
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                ^That is why i said maybe she married too young and wants to sew her oats. Iam not suggesting that everyone in this type of situation has a man on the side, but in my experience and with hearing similar situations, a woman that has been married to a man for 10yrs or more and just wants to up and call it quits, there is usually something else going on in the relationship that is not known by outsiders and, yes there are two sides to every story. If though, the husband does not have any idea what is going on, and he is or did not do anything to provoke this kind of prob, then from what i have seen there is usually another relationship going on outside the marriage.

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                • #23
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                  my boy doing a lil better . he is starting to see thats he must go on plus he is getting pissed now talking about child abandament shit like that !
                  If bigger is better then im better than ever !

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