Help! Need advice.

[FUZO]

FIRST HAD TO EXPLAIN MYSELF SECOND THIS ISNT THE PLACE BUT SINCE SHE BROUGHT IT HERE NOT ME SHE KNEW IT WOULD GET A RISE OUT OF ME. ENOUGH SAID I'M DONE WITH THIS POST

[LOCO]

a relationship/parenthood is A LOT OF WORK... and i mean serious hard work...in order for it to work out BOTH sides have to give in sometimes, and try adjust accordingly... if one side decides not to cooperate, balance is lost, and all goes to hell...

fuzo i know how u feel, i just got off the phone with my girl.. we fough for the last 3 hours, simply just cuz her hormones are out of whack this week... at the end i ended backing off because i don't think it's worth it loosing her over some stupid little things...
and u should do the same thing... if she's moody give in sometimes... but then she should do the same thing when ur grumpy or not in the mood to do somehting she wants u to.....

try spend more time with both of them... u shouldn't count how many hours/days a week ur looking after ur daughter...
u should cherish every second u get to spend with her...even if u do go to the gym every day, a day has 24hrs... u should still find plenty of time for ur family.

the board or people here, they come and go... ur real family is right beside u... and they will be for ever... no matter what happens...

[Extranero]

Originally posted by jipped genes
explain your feelings without making him choose. 2-3 hours at the gym is excessive. he may be scared of being a father and thats why he spends so much time doing other things. how old is he? parenthood ends alot of freedom and so makes you feel bound to the biggest responsibility of life. maybe he just dosnt want to participate in raising your child because he is scared of failure and he already is good at BB so he focuses on what he is good at. i would seek professional help darlin.

That was a very sensitive post.

You're SCARING me!

[mick-G]

Re: Help! Need advice.

If you ever want to talk FUZO give me a pm. I have a wife that is very, very similar. Ive been married 9yrs, 12 alltogether. There were alot of things i was doing wrong and didn't want to realize it because i was too stubborn. You may also be partially addicted to the board? Also it is your wife that should come first or equal to your child. God FUZO this talking you just did must have really hurt her. I sure hope things got better, as you have a very sensitive and caring wife, who needs some attention thats all.

[FUZO]

Re: Help! Need advice.

THAT WAS FEB MICK EVERY THING HAS CHANGED FOR THE BETTER. SHE WAS JUST PISSED THAT DAY.WE COULDNT BE HAPPIER

[mick-G]

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I know, it just struck me by suprise. Glad to hear everything is better.

[HungarianBeast]

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THAT WAS FEB MICK EVERY THING HAS CHANGED FOR THE BETTER. SHE WAS JUST PISSED THAT DAY.WE COULDNT BE HAPPIER

I am happy you guys found balance. Balance is so very important. We need more baby pictures!

[Ryker77]

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My wife gets all out of wack if I spend to much time on the web. I have to make sure that I spend xxx amount of hours per day and xxxxx per week. If not then my life is hell.

Its hard to have a job, the gym, wife, kids etc etc etc.

Best wishes for Fuzo and his family