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**njjuicer** · 06-13-2003, 02:25 PM

Originally posted by Plucks
I agree with NJJuicer (after taking awhile to read and re-read to see what he was saying). Once someone betrays you, unless you are mother theresa or like a saint yourself you will always have that in the back of your head of what they did to you. Every arguement it will be brought up and it will be a thorn in the relationship for years. I have divorce to show for it.

ino ua gree cuz im alway right

**grlnxtdr** · 06-13-2003, 02:26 PM

well, my sister is going through this right now....she was with the guy for over nine years and just last weekend he called her up, yup, called, and told her that he's been seeing somebody else for the last two years. He always talked about the big m, kids, and all that fun loving stuff to her...always said he needed some time to get finacial things squared and finish the masters...blah blah blah..before they could move on......not to mention he said he was going to work and had to do so much overtime....he's a cop by the way! it turned out he only worked his 40 hrs, 5 days a week, not the 70 hours he said he was, with all the 12 hr shifts! he spent the other time with the other chick. My sister just up and left him, no turning back, too many stories to forgive and all the time......so, are there any single 30-something yr olds out there?.....lol She's nurse by the way, so she can help out with the injections...lol :p

my thoughs....i've learned my lesson on giving out second chances........if you fuck up once you'll do it again...I do, at least on the other hand ...I'm the one that always trusts and gets shit on. You'd think i would've learned by now, but everybody is different, i take the chance because who knows they might be the one...you'll never know if you don't chance it.

**njjuicer** · 06-13-2003, 02:28 PM

im free

**grlnxtdr** · 06-13-2003, 02:39 PM

Originally posted by njjuicer
im free

I'm too! so ya have to pick...my sis or me? lol

**SUGARBABY** · 06-13-2003, 02:43 PM

Originally posted by grlnxtdr
well, my sister is going through this right now....she was with the guy for over nine years and just last weekend he called her up, yup, called, and told her that he's been seeing somebody else for the last two years. He always talked about the big m, kids, and all that fun loving stuff to her...always said he needed some time to get finacial things squared and finish the masters...blah blah blah..before they could move on......not to mention he said he was going to work and had to do so much overtime....he's a cop by the way! it turned out he only worked his 40 hrs, 5 days a week, not the 70 hours he said he was, with all the 12 hr shifts! he spent the other time with the other chick. My sister just up and left him, no turning back, too many stories to forgive and all the time......so, are there any single 30-something yr olds out there?.....lol She's nurse by the way, so she can help out with the injections...lol :p

my thoughs....i've learned my lesson on giving out second chances........if you fuck up once you'll do it again...I do, at least on the other hand ...I'm the one that always trusts and gets shit on. You'd think i would've learned by now, but everybody is different, i take the chance because who knows they might be the one...you'll never know if you don't chance it.

man that is rough....I can relate to always getting shit on. But to some extent I really would like to believe that the man I love is telling me the truth. Ya know?

All in all, I think the risk is worth it.

I am glad you sis is so strong! The RIGHT guy will come along and sweep her off her feet, I am sure.

**njjuicer** · 06-13-2003, 02:44 PM

Originally posted by grlnxtdr
I'm too! so ya have to pick...my sis or me? lol

its up to you sweety

**grlnxtdr** · 06-13-2003, 02:51 PM

Originally posted by Sugarbaby
man that is rough....I can relate to always getting shit on. But to some extent I really would like to believe that the man I love is telling me the truth. Ya know?

All in all, I think the risk is worth it.

I am glad you sis is so strong! The RIGHT guy will come along and sweep her off her feet, I am sure.

Yeah tell me about it..she's a strong one....i was in a four year one and found out he was seeing a 19 yr old stripper with a 2 yr old kid....not that strippers are a bad thing, but she was a bad one! lol ......that was his second chance down the tube! i've made up my mind and i've taken more than enough of those risks....each time i've gottn shit on it seems to make me stronger and more aware of situations at hand..learning experience you can say...

**njjuicer** · 06-13-2003, 02:53 PM

Originally posted by grlnxtdr
Yeah tell me about it..she's a strong one....i was in a four year one and found out he was seeing a 19 yr old stripper with a 2 yr old kid....not that strippers are a bad thing, but she was a bad one! lol ......that was his second chance down the tube! i've made up my mind and i've taken more than enough of those risks....each time i've gottn shit on it seems to make me stronger and more aware of situations at hand..learning experience you can say...

stripper pissed me off too let get together

**grlnxtdr** · 06-13-2003, 02:56 PM

Originally posted by njjuicer
stripper pissed me off too let get together

ya wanna go to the strip club? lol

**njjuicer** · 06-13-2003, 02:57 PM

Originally posted by grlnxtdr
ya wanna go to the strip club? lol

if bye strip club u mean u gettin naked in private for me then yes

**grlnxtdr** · 06-13-2003, 03:02 PM

Originally posted by njjuicer
if bye strip club u mean u gettin naked in private for me then yes

lol....who knows.....anyway we better get back to the subject here.....cheaters are BAD! forgive or not, depends on situation, i just wouldn't...i just demand the same respect back...and i haven't and would never cheat....and that's that....

**njjuicer** · 06-13-2003, 03:05 PM

Originally posted by grlnxtdr
lol....who knows.....anyway we better get back to the subject here.....cheaters are BAD! forgive or not, depends on situation, i just wouldn't...i just demand the same respect back...and i haven't and would never cheat....and that's that....

ok that good when shall i pik u up?

and what should i wear for yah or nto wear ur choice

**THE JUICE** · 06-13-2003, 03:08 PM

Originally posted by Plucks
I agree with NJJuicer (after taking awhile to read and re-read to see what he was saying). Once someone betrays you, unless you are mother theresa or like a saint yourself you will always have that in the back of your head of what they did to you. Every arguement it will be brought up and it will be a thorn in the relationship for years. I have divorce to show for it.

I agree to there man with juicer, when someone fucks with u in betraying u, i say fuck it dont talk to them nor trust them.

Think of this, what if u trust them once more, and in the future u get married with the girl or guy with. What if u find out wheile your at work this chick or guy is messing around with someone else. Once they do something like that, their gonna do it again , so i say fuck them.

**Auriflex** · 06-13-2003, 03:53 PM

I take it nobody likes a cheater then? LOL

**njjuicer** · 06-13-2003, 03:56 PM

Originally posted by Auriflex
I take it nobody likes a cheater then? LOL

gues its all circumstances and everyon differet and the amount of lvoe etc... so muchf acotrs but i stillt hink ocne a cheater always one

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