new girl /how do i tell her

[darmadoc]

Just a few thoughts here. Guys who use AAS tend to continue to use them, so you're going to have to talk to some girl about it at some point. If you do decide you're going to talk to this girl about it, why not do it now, before you start the cycle. You could propose it as something you've been thinking about. If she says OK, you're home free. If she is hesitant, you can educate her. If she freaks, then you have to make the big decision.

If you think there is a remote chance you will be in a long term relationship with this girl, she will in all likelihood find out at some point. (Especially if she notices your nads are the size of peas- and I imagine you will want her to be familiar with that part of your body ) So consider bringing her in on it from the start. If this is more of a short term thing, I'd keep it between you and us.

[tinytim]

damn!....well after all of these posts im still kinda up in the air about how to bring it up....honestly im kinda stund that many of you go straight to being dishonest. but i can understand...it seems that to even say the word Steroids , puts a bad taste in most peoples mouth.
my ex was straight up about AS ( or any other drug) she said if i use then no mater what she would leave me. she is intilted to that

but i this chick seems to be open minded....but ya never know...
oh well i guess i need to plan this out

[prolangtum]

Tell her like this. Ask her if she could change one bodypart, what would it be? Many say "A boob job" or something like that. "But baby, i think you look fine how you are" "Its for me" she says. Even though its fake? After she answers that, you then say, well im into the same thing, except i want to work for mine. Then bring up steroids, and go on a long tangent about media hype, etc, and even bring her to FG to look and research. I did the same thing, except I ended up buying her a set of D cups, after my first cycle, oh so she thought my first cycle, no reason on letting her in on my past.

[ryan16]

just be honest and educate her so she understands your not killin yourself!........ at least right away...... he he

[jackdaddy]

I agree....don't ask, don't tell is the policy you should take. And who says your boys are going to go south for the winter. I've never had a problem with mine up to this point, and that was with no post-cycle recovery to boot. You'll just have to see how things go and if/when the time comes that she asks, then tell her the truth if she's someone you care about. If not, pretend you're Bill Clinton and lie your ass off!!

[prolangtum]

I think you are asking to get caught, how long can you lie? It can cause problems down the road. Would you like her to hide something from you? Not me.

[tinytim]

Originally posted by prolangtum
I think you are asking to get caught.

yea ive been through that with my ex.....i caught her on many lies .......it just leads to mistrust.



strangely she tried to turn it around on me and make me feel like it was my fault.....


as if i didnt expect that one

[Juicemonkey101]

I dont know what to say bro.... I've been with the same chick for 2 years now, When she knew i was on AS, it was literally a living hell for us... so i slowed my dosage for a bit, told her i was off, and shit turned around oh so quickly. I've been on for the past few months and she has had no idea... things have been Great for us.... but at the same time, im still very young and have no intentions of Marrying this girl.... atleast right now that is. I do feel guilty about lying about it all the time, but if i was seriously wanting to seddle down with this women, i would be honest, suck up my pride, and tell her! But, untill that day, what she doesn't know won't hurt her! :

[prolangtum]

I tried the whole lying bit, then when i was caught, and couldnt lie anymore, it made things worse from then on. So we broke up. Thats why I was straight up with my current GF.

[Douro]

just be honest, believe me, it's the best you can do. It worked for me. I showed a couple of books to my wife and then she changed her point of view...a little...

[powerforward]

Originally posted by TxLonghorn
Creatine baby, creatine.

i agree,give it more time then decide if you want her to know...if things don't work,do you want her telling people that you juice?my dad told me" the only way to get away with it is if noone else knows"....good luck!don't tell yet,imo.

[Harvey Balboner]

Don't tell her unless your sure you are going to be with her, remember what you are doing is illegal, and if the breakup gets messy, she could easily call the cops on you, tell your family & co-workers. With the stigma juice has, nothing good could come of it.

Tell her your taking creatine & some supplements only if she asks.

[warpalien]

honesty is the best answer. i like the point about boob job or whatever, if shes not happy with her body in one aspect and would possibly like to change it, point that out to her. say this isnt as drastic, it isnt an imediate new bra size, its suttle growth that will lead to the end results i want. a few drinks in her when talking helps, trust me. mine was like whats that as i showed her the dmso/fina mix, and i told her a pro hormone that raises testosterone levels. so it wasnt a "total" lie since it is a cattle growth pellet then after a few drinks i was like i want to do steroids yadda yadda, she was rather cool with it, but said, i want to read about it first before any "decissions" are made. honesty works the best, as long as you paint the picture in a way that works. its a touchy subject so take it careful, every girl is diffrent but if she loves you, she'll go "well i could lose him or accept this and live with it". just my opinion.

[Iceburg]

Seriously bro .... you are playing with fire if you tell her. She could always hold it over your head .... threatening to tell other people.

I lied about it at first to a girl I was dating seriously at the time. But as time passed and we became close enough .... I felt more comfortable ... because I knew I could trust her.... then I told her.

Because of the stero-types about AS .... she understood not being 100% honest at first.

Use liquidex to fight the bloat too ....

[prolangtum]

Well,
Like I said before, if she finds out, it is worse than if you tell her. Despite my past drug use, and now steroid use, i try to stick to some morals. Honesty is the key in any relationship. Would you like her to keep her eating disorder from you? I know its totally different but you get my vibe. Educate her. Tell her she cant get pissed, until she at least learns some about it first.