new girl /how do i tell her

[Gearo]

Well I guess, great but also different posts have been made, which means that there is no right or wrong answer !!
I'm married, one child (4 months), and I've never told my wife about the juice, when I'm on a cycle, and she asks me why I look so puffy and Bloated, I just tell her that it's just my new supplements that work great...
So she asks me why I don't use'em all the time, for having the same results, so my answer is that you can't push up your body to the extreme all the time, and that you have to slow down from time to time....
Well that's it, but I have great trouble hiding the whole stuff

[Auriflex]

I've hidden it from my wife for a while now. I would never consider telling someone I was dating either. Breakups are too easy at that point, and like others said - people know how to be vindictive.

If you love this woman, and you want to keep things on the up and up - then sit her down and explain how important this is to you. Be ready for an ultimatum though.

Again - I would stick with not saying anything - or outright lying. There are things I do that I don't even tell myself.

[tinytim]

im going to keep it on the down low for a while...when shes asks ill just tell her " befor you get really mad about this ,let me educate you about AS" i think i can fun enuff info around here to help ease the situation......

thanks agian guys/ gals for all of your input.

tinytim

[Starr]

Here's a response from a girl whose husband is on AAS:
My husband talked to me before ever doing his first cycle because the effects would impact both of us. I was kind of scared at first because it was such a cross to the "dark side." We discussed the entire situation, realized how it would affect his attitude, moods, temper, body, health, and the reasons why he wanted to do it. Being super inquisitive, I also did a lot of research on my own so that I would be informed and not make a judgment on general steroid use. In my opinion, it's important to be honest about what you're doing because like I said, there are so many things that will change about you. The huge thing is attitude, mood, temper. If you don't tell her, she's going to go balistic and you'll end up fighting a lot, with you telling a bunch of lies in an attempt to cover your tracks. If you actually want to keep this chic around for a while, regardless of your long term marital plans, be honest, it'll be worth it in the long run. And DO NOT say anything about her own insecurites about her own body, that is the WRONG appoach to take, she may get defensive. This is about you, not her body.

[Chemical Evolution]

Originally posted by CJWolf
don't tell her outright.

i'd convince her you're doing all natural supplements, and then ask her what she thought if you did steroids and explain it to her ...

if she's cool, then no problem. if she freaks, well then of course you'd never do that ...

I'd go with this one .......

[tinytim]

Originally posted by Starr
Here's a response from a girl whose husband is on AAS:
My husband talked to me before ever doing his first cycle because the effects would impact both of us. I was kind of scared at first because it was such a cross to the "dark side." We discussed the entire situation, realized how it would affect his attitude, moods, temper, body, health, and the reasons why he wanted to do it. Being super inquisitive, I also did a lot of research on my own so that I would be informed and not make a judgment on general steroid use. In my opinion, it's important to be honest about what you're doing because like I said, there are so many things that will change about you. The huge thing is attitude, mood, temper. If you don't tell her, she's going to go balistic and you'll end up fighting a lot, with you telling a bunch of lies in an attempt to cover your tracks. If you actually want to keep this chic around for a while, regardless of your long term marital plans, be honest, it'll be worth it in the long run. And DO NOT say anything about her own insecurites about her own body, that is the WRONG appoach to take, she may get defensive. This is about you, not her body.

good post bro

[Auriflex]

Originally posted by tinytim
good post bro

She's a bra. Still a good post though.

[lineman]

like "Most" are saying if you really dig her be honest, most women love that in a guy. I am slowly learning this. spent last weekend traveling with a new girl friend and while at the hotel she started to go throu my bag. Shit, I had loaded pinz in there had to distract her. She is to "new" for that kind of trust and she might get old in a hury if she likes to go throu my things!

[hummerluv]

bro just follow my advice still the best so far, i mean it. you dont know her well enough and is your future on the line if u break up and she goes running her mouth. i m serious i think my advixce is best but at the same time let us know what way you decide to go( hope is mine)

by the way prolangtum i knew u did drugs

[tinytim]

well im going to keep it on the down low for now ...i start my cycle monday ..so it will be some weeks befor she may notice anything....i have mady many refrences to how much weight i want to gain this summer....so hopefully she will just think im reaching my goals....

[tinytim]

Originally posted by Auriflex
She's a bra. Still a good post though.

sorry Star i'm an ass ........