Girlfriend and Roids........

[angel]

I think that Newgirl put it best, I don't think there is anything else to add to her wonderful response. I agree with her a 110% that most likely it is her own insecurities. Ultimatums are NEVER or should never be a part of a healthy, strong relationship. Something to think about....
Good luck to you, and I do hope it works out. Please keep us posted.

[Iapetos]

Ultimatums are more corrosive to a relationship than doing AS is. When I approached my wife about it I showed her that I had done my homework and bookmarked what was then FB so she could also do some research on it. While there are certain aspects of it she doesn't like, she encouraged me do start my next cycle. It helps because she would notice a side effect in me before I would.

Perhaps this would work for you as well. Best of luck.

[WillJitsu]

Hey bro, I know exactly what you're going through. A girl I dated a few years back told me pretty much the same thing before I started my first cycle. I could either do the roids and lose her, or stay together with her and forget about the cycle. Well, I read what some other people on FB had said about it and they're right, educate her on it. I told her all about it, everything I had studied and learned over the previous 2 years and all the necessary precautions I would be taking to make sure I wasn't harming myself. Well she still didn't like the idea, but she wasn't giving me the ultimatum anymore. Maybe I was lucky, I don't know.... but at least try to educate her on the subject. It's worth a shot. I'm not with the girl anymore, but we're still very close friends and to this day she has grown more accepting of them and I've heard her talk to other girls about AAS and telling them that they're not as bad as what most people think. Hopefully it'll all work out for ya bro. Let us know what happens.

[megatron]

Originally posted by THE JUICE
nah bro not with htis one one. Shes one in a million, I have tons of feeling toward her. I'll try to figure somehting out man, shes a very understanding girl but she thinks roids are gonna fuck me up. I think I shoudl bring her in here and for her too see the truth about roids that I aint the only one, just like FLUID said.

think about it for a sec... if she refuses to accept the fact that bodybuilding is a part of you then maybe she isnt the one for you. If you arent willing to give it up for her then maybe she isnt the one for you... telling you that she is gonna leave you without offering to even hear your side of it is just stupid.

From personal experience i know that i will NEVER put down the things that i love just because someone else wants me to... I tried it a couple of times before finally realizing it aint worth it.

[bigjim33]

here is my take. she probably see what the media says and has no clue about gear period! my girl didn't like when i started juicing but i was honest with her from the beginning. she doesn't like that i do it but she accepts it because i have educated myself and am smart about it. i would do the same in your case. bring her on here, explain what each item you will be using does, and then show her how you are preparing to combat any sides. if then she can't accept it as part of who you are, then i would move on regardless. if this is part of who you are she should support you if she really cares about you. just my .02 cents

[Torchy]

Newgirl...nice novella....


It's about education...she needs to learn. She may seriously be concerned for you. Now, there may be more issues to pop up later...but who the hell doesn't have issues to pop up in a relationship?

Educate her...bottom line.

[majorguns]

Yea, I have been teasing my fiancee about using roids for around 2 years. She thinks it is a big joke. But really have 2 cycles under my belt. When we are married someday I might tell her so that she can see I never freaked out on them.

[newgirl]

And yeah Bouncer and Torchy I did write a book. Makes me MAD when partners issue ultimateums in the first place and then morever when it is a subjec they have NOT researched for themselves.

Equally Iapetos put it best when he said that ultimateums are more correosive to a relationship than AAS.

Personally, it is indicative of a deeper character defect than anything else. If we as human beings took account for more non-sublte cues about the person we are with, then we would have far less divorce and far less wrong partner choices.

[bigjim33]

so newgirl, when are you going to write your first book

[newgirl]

XOXOX

[Torchy]

Originally posted by newgirl
And yeah Bouncer and Torchy I did write a book. Makes me MAD when partners issue ultimateums in the first place and then morever when it is a subjec they have NOT researched for themselves.

Equally Iapetos put it best when he said that ultimateums are more correosive to a relationship than AAS.

Personally, it is indicative of a deeper character defect than anything else. If we as human beings took account for more non-sublte cues about the person we are with, then we would have far less divorce and far less wrong partner choices.

Geez, words like indicative, ultimateums, character defect....Go get 'em woman :2gunsfiri

[THE JUICE]

Thanx you all.

[Gladiator]

Just bring her to the DARK SIDE!

[football54]

tell her what it is all about. If she does not like it then do it behind her back

[bigpimpc]

I had a girl that told me the same shit. What did I do? I tried toi educate her and when that didn't work I just kept it a secret. You can't keep people from doing things that they really wanna do.