Girlfriend and Roids........

[THE JUICE]

This is the thing, I wanna start a new cycle of Test/Dbol/Eq. But there is one problem, my girlfriend. She told me if I start juicing that she would leave me, after a year of being together. Before I met her I was juicing, and when I met her after a month or so I admitted to her that I took some roids. I couldnt hide it and I was big and obvious. Well I told her like 2 days ago that I wanted to juice so I can get bigger for the summer. She told me if you do it you will find out what will happen. I know I should not have told anyone anything, but Im honest, and cannot hold lies nor things like that. Hey she means the world to me, I cannot lie to her. Oh she goes that they are gonna mess me up and all. She thinks Im gonna be all violent. I dont get non of the above, the only things I get is oil skin, shruken nuts, and little hairs in my back. I told her I know what Im doing and I know what to take and Im not taking just whatever. I know my shit and what works for me and what doesnt.

I just dont wanna loose my girl guys. What can I tell her or should I do as what she says. This is a tough choice, reason is cause I wanna get bigger and if she were to leace me I woldnt allow it. I would keep on bugging her no matter what. Its not like if Im a druggie or something. Damn roids boost up my self-esteem, confidence and all. What should I do my FG family.

Do any girls in here have any problems your boyfriends juicing?

[x|Fluid|x]

get her on FG. Maybe if she educate's herself on the matter, she will realize the truth about steroids instead of the propaganda she's been fed from high school and the media.

[THE JUICE]

Originally posted by THE BOUNCER
personally i would get rid of her and find a girl who excepts me for who i am and what i choose to do. i know it's easier said then done but you gotta make a decision.

nah bro not with htis one one. Shes one in a million, I have tons of feeling toward her. I'll try to figure somehting out man, shes a very understanding girl but she thinks roids are gonna fuck me up. I think I shoudl bring her in here and for her too see the truth about roids that I aint the only one, just like FLUID said.

[viper10139]

I agree with these guys, bring her in here....and let her read and educate her....trust me bro..it's very hard, been there done that and good luck....trust me I know..u want the support of girl that loves you...and what u do..I used to have one...that injected me and everything....and then she turned on me.....but wow...things happen.......and People change I know....

[34pumped]

yea bro i had a big problem with my wife..so i got her to read some of this stuff to and she melloweed out. i also went and had blood work done before i started for her . it gave her a peace of mind.

[PARABOLAN]

bro let her get educated on roids... she might love ur sex drive on test!!

[Josh]

To play devils advocate - if she doesnt go for the knowledge thing. couldnt you just get some prohoromones - have them lay around the house and tell her your taking those and juice in secret? My girl does not like the idea of roids and im about to start my first cycle after spring break. That was my plan.

[arrowone]

I had to buy my wife new furniture for the cycle Im about to start..LOL

[THE JUICE]

Originally posted by Josh
To play devils advocate - if she doesnt go for the knowledge thing. couldnt you just get some prohoromones - have them lay around the house and tell her your taking those and juice in secret? My girl does not like the idea of roids and im about to start my first cycle after spring break. That was my plan.

hehehehehehe

[monstercojones]

Originally posted by arrowone
I had to buy my wife new furniture for the cycle Im about to start..LOL

hahahaha

[BENNYBOOM]

Your going to have to learn sooner or later(especially if you get married) some things are better left a secret.You should have never told her ,you were thinking about doing some roids.Your not lying ,you just should have NEVER told her.Im married 10 yrs now,love my wife and kids to death.I couldnt imagine life without them but my wife would never approve of roids.Its your life too,you should have a choice to do wwhat you want.I will say again ,you should have Never told her.Let some time pass,start a cycle and dont let ANYONE know,WE should all be discreet and neve admit to ANYONE,its your business and your business ONLY.This is the attitude I have taken and its worked for me many years. PEACE BENNYBOOM

[beachgirl]

I dont think its right for her to threaten you with a breakup if you do this...I have done it before....If she really doesnt want you doing it, then ask her why? Maybe you two can compromise and figure out the problem and solve it. I have atually broken up with guys for juicing a long time ago....now im thinkin about trying some var myself!

[THE JUICE]

Originally posted by beachgirl
I dont think its right for her to threaten you with a breakup if you do this...I have done it before....If she really doesnt want you doing it, then ask her why? Maybe you two can compromise and figure out the problem and solve it. I have atually broken up with guys for juicing a long time ago....now im thinkin about trying some var myself!

I try to question myself why she wont let me. I did my reaerch before popping roids. I know what Im doing and getting myself into. Its not like as if I go all crazy, roids give me all the confidence I need to achieve goals. I also ask myself if its because Im gonna get bigger and get more noticed. If right now I get noticed and I dont consider my self an animal yet. I know Im gonna turn heads around but I would never leave her if thats what she thinks. I love her to death. I wanna make her try to come into this board too. Shes into fitness also, maybe you all girls could give her some advice.

[newgirl]

Hey -- first off any woman that threatens or issues ultimateums no matter how wonderful she is.....is not as wonderful as you think she is. NOW DON'T GET MAD HERE -- READ AND HEAR ME OUT...

Right now it is roids -- next it will be something else. You first need to sit and talk with her not about roids but about threats such as these -- they are NOT healthy for a relationship -- no matter how good the guy/gal is. PERIOD. Relationships are two way streets. If someone LOVES YOU and ACCEPTS YOU and wants THE BEST FOR YOU, then a partner WOULD ALWAYS SUPPORT YOUR DREAM. PERIOD. This is a non-negotiable.

Now, education is the key when it comes to gear. There is alot of negativity swirling around it. Does your girl ever drink? Do drugs of any sort (pot, e, coke)? Does she or did she ever smoke? You see -- some things are seemingly more acceptable as they are more mainstream....roids have been cloaked in secrecy and what we do hear is often media based negative propaganda.

It was that way in my house - my dad and my brother were athletes. GOOD ONES..but never jumped on the aas bandwagon -- and all I ever heard was crap about other pros that used -- and that is why they are pros. Well, suffice it to say, while I never really thought much about roids, it did somehow taint me.

I started dating a fitness professional. I did ask him if he ever used, said he thought about it but never did. Dated this guy for about a year...every once and a while the subject would come up and he would always deny.

One day, he had this odd swelling in his foot and then up his ankle and then the skin turned an odd and gross color. He had 104 temp -- something was not right. Well he had used bad gear....and got gangrene. They wanted to amputate his leg. It was NOT how I wanted to find out about roids and certainly I was more angry about him lying to me for the longest time. I was even more angry that he thought I was the sort of person who would judge him.

Well he was not going to stop using so I decided that if it was that important to him and he had been using for years without incident (this was a freak thing), that I would arm myself with as much information I could get my hands on. I found that it is more mainstream than not, that more guys and girls use than I ever imagined...and it was certainly alot safer than what other people do to themselves.

It brought about an understanding between us that took our relationship even closer. I was not going to hinder his goals and I was going to support him in any of his desires as long as I knew he was responsible and informed and conservative in his approach.

I think you need to find out what she really objects to. Is she afriad the bigger you get, the less attractive she may feel? Does she feel that she can no longer "keep up"? Or does she feel that using roids will lead to other more harmful drugs? The illegal part of it...well that is easily discussed -- we all do things that are illegal to some degree.

I would find out as I suspect that her fears are more personal in nature than about the roids themselves. In my quest to understand gear, I have discovered that women have self esteem issues of their own to contend with...the hotter their man gets...the more attractive he is to others -- how do they as women then measure up to the added competition.....it was hard for alot of chicks to admit -- but it was a common thread.

BUT..aside from juice -- a partner should NEVER push an ultimateum unless of course this is a life threatening habit. No matter what your partners' dreams -- it is far more fulfilling knowing you support them and help them on their journey.

If she is a good woman, she will understand after some good discussions. If she does not, then perhaps she is not the woman for you -- or the woman you think she is.

Good luck....I would love to know how it turns out. And Bouncer did put it well.....she needs to accept YOU for YOU (not what SHE wants youto be and to do).

[newgirl]

AND YES BRING HER TO THE BOARDS -- This is how I got involved.....I was into fitness too -- she does not have to know about roids to be here -- we have a nice group in the women's area...and she can talk and ask and discuss her fears with others.