Help! Husband on roids and irritable and mean!

[rude]

Yea, good luck to you baby1

and Fuzo, try to remeber thats your wife bro, she should be the most important thing in your life, not your body, you never know what you have until its gone, always try to remember that.... either way, I hope the best for both of you in your marriage

[Lite Gear]

Originally posted by baby1
. How do I not be afraid?
Baby1

Knowledge overcomes fear.

The reality is that you basically have 3 choices:
1) leave him
2) keep going at the situation as you are
3) Become an active partner in what he is doing.

I know that your situation is complicated and I am not pretending to understand the depth of it. I could offer several things wrong that I see your partner doing, but you came here for help in dealing with situation, not help in attacking him.

You are his partner for life. Take the time to educate your self so that you can intelligently assist in your husbands goals. Help make this his best cycle yet. There are hundreds of things you can do to make this a tremendous gain for the both of you.

He has already made up his mind to do this. Trying to change it now is probably a waste. If you put forth an honest effort to assist him in this, then he will be more receptive to your imput, but wait until the cycle is over. Then if the urge strikes him again, hopefully he will consult you first, and you can talk it through as partners in the decision.

Remember, guys have an inert desire to be stronger, bigger, betterlooking, in other words more MANLY. It is the same as when women get cosmetic surgery.

I think you are both on the right path, I hope this helps in some way

[Mudge]

Deca and anavar? Maybe he is pissed he picked such a crappy stack

[Lite Gear]

Yo Fuzo,

A lot of males have short tempers. I cannot speak for all males, but I can tell you why I had one and what I did to overcome it.

I could not register my emotions properly. Whenever someone very close to me hurt my feelings, I automatically got Pissed.

I would have this emotion inside of me, but I thought that I was a man and men don't get their feelings hurt. So the only way I knew to respond was to yell, flex, or say things that I always regretted.

It was because of these actions that I lost someone that I loved very much. I didn’t hit her, but I did scare the shit out of her.

When she abruptly left I was faced with figuring out where I went wrong. Since then I have learned to understand that I am a man, but my feelings can be hurt.

[makavellie23]

Fuzo bro i respect you like i respect everyone in here who takes the time to learn and the time they put in the gym, everyone knows that it takes determination and a damn good drive to make yourself the best you can be. but your gonna be a dad for what i assume will be the 1st time. now its time to take some of that determination and show it to your wife. and after everything settles down, you guys should sit down and talk about your situation, but right now i would be worried about your wife and your child. AND TRUST ME I KNOW IT AINT NO PICNIC FOR YOU

GOOD LUCK BRO,

[makavellie23]

By the way my wife doesnt want me doing steroids either, so we compromise i just dont do it all the time. lol

[Skip]

First of all, Fuzo and Baby1 congrats on the little one on the way, thats great.

I think the consorted effort by both of you to talk about these things is a step in the right direction.

My wife does get concerned as well, especially when I finally get a cycle together and I have a variety of pills, vials, syringes, etc all gathered together. It really does look like alot. I just answer every question in full detail to the best of my ability. My wife has in fact sat right next to me while I have been on this board reading, asking, reasearching for hers answers. Some of the questions she asks seem knit picky sometimes, but I always try to give or find her the answer. I think this is why she has become so very supportive of my fitness goals. And she even does all my injections now, (damn hard to reach places, lol).

I wish you both the best, and I hope you continue to.... "WORK SO HARD FOR EACH OTHER".

Peace

[jsjs24]

Tough one Fuzo. I juiced for 3 yrs and then got married and had to quit. My wife didn't want me to do it and since I loved her so much I quit. Now, 3 yrs later I'm getting a damn divorce and I am starting a cycle in Nov. Good luck with your decision.

[cr4sh]

Here's the fact. Roid Rage doesn't exist, this has been confirmed ages ago... Media, TV etc talk crap about steroids etc that will bring negative side to newbies..your husband is fine, his gear wont kill him or give him any mood swings...he just might have bad days thats all...

[Skip]

I agree, Roid Rage is a Myth.......

I tend to be a little short tempered by nature (when I'm not juicing) although I have never once experienced any kind of outburst or uncontrollable temperment while on.

My wife and I were together way before I ever started taking any AAS, and since I started taking AAS she says she hasn't noticed much of a difference except for physical appearance and increase Limbido........................LOL

Hope this helps Guys......................

[makavellie23]

not to bust your chops cr4sh but prove the fact that roid rage doesnt exist, and anyone else prove to me that is does, truth is we dont know. becuase everyone is different. and that is fact, just read the post on this thread some say yes some say no.

i do believe that IN SOME PEOPLE that gear changes your personality, when im on, i feel better about myself have a better self esteem and i am damn more ready to beat someones ass if it came to it. in english I GET COCKY i mouth off more and i say what i want. i just feel like i can do anything.

thats the way gear changes me but for someone else and there personality if they are already a dick they will most likely to be more of a dick, thats what i think but no one can prove that it does or doesnt cause rage