we have the hand shake now the men hug. Do we hug like I want to do you or is it a chest bump,half a hug,Me again no hug unless your a women I will not hug a man unless its my father or a women.I'm not a phobic person dont care if your gay just a good ole fist bump. Well I do have to say I would do a military man hug but thats it.A soldier at war coming home he gets a hug