What would you guys do to change a situation like this?

[latinsteel]

Ok you know how all of us take nose dives here and there in life but sometimes it feels like your stuck on the bottom for like ever...like bad after bad keeps happening no matter what we seem to do it can't be avoided. Have you guys ever came to the point were you've just been let down somuch to the point where you just stop feeling anymore and all the agression is building up? What do you guys do to help deal with that or atleast try to over come it??

[BuffNuts]

Stop depending on others for happiness, try going out for yourself, by yourself something you've always wanted, go eat your favorite food, just do things for yourself and make sure you put 100% into whatever work you do so you feel better about yoruself even if you fail at it...

[latinsteel]

its not somuch as me failing in something. Its more of like stuff falling apart. Seems like everything that can go wrong is going wrong. Close to losing everything that means anything to me.

[BuffNuts]

Sometimes the things that you think mean a lot to you might not mean anything at all. It happens to me a lot..sometimes things start going wrong and it feels like it keeps getting worse..all you gotta do is work through it, do what you can to fix it and keep going..dont stop and think cuz you'll get depressed....

[njjuicer]

i jsut keep at the gym and stuff liekt ah tto keep my mind off shit cuz i feel for u i ahve tons and tons of shit falla aprt my whole lfie been one big downhill ride it sucks but thats life bro jsut rem it always gets \worse before better and it can always be wrse too

[OldWiseGuy]

The one thing you can depend on is change. Be ready to let go. This will make room for the windfall that is coming soon. So you may lose your women,car,house,money and more but new women,car,house,money will be coming your way sooner then you think. As long as your OK all will be OK. Nothing is really yours anyway and all you really have is you and your stuck with that.

[Speedracer59]

I always say fu** it. As long as you get to heaven nothing else really matters. I do what I want when I want. I am just real laid back.

[trip]

latinsteel,

Well, we all go through it.

Main things are, if you have not experienced any JOY for a long time go see a doctor, that is the major sign of depression.

Next, find a good friend or confidant to talk with on a regular basis, this is for everyone, yet, it is much better to express the things inside than hold them in, holding them in eats at you day by day.

It's also a time for re-evalutation. I will bet you a hundred dollars, you have ten times as many great strengths as weakness's, and I'll also bet another hundred it's your weakness's where most of struggle lies.

Find out what your weakness's are and stop them.

Hoped That Helped
Good Luck

[leankid]

OldWiseGuy- Wow! Great advice! yes the world is a big ball of bullshit! It's just easiest to have a "fuck it" type attitude! Pull out your dick and tell all the world to suck it!

No really I suffer from depression badly, it seems that once shit starts going back it won't stop, but it will! Keep going to the gym and any changes that you make, make for you!

[SINA]

LatinSteel,

I know what kind of bullshit you're talking about. I still go through this and I keep my bullshit to my self, cause really no one really gives a fuck about any body, not even friends, seriously common sence. You were happy at one point, now you'r not then deal with it. I tried to say away from my problems as far as possible but once it approaches me, shit gets deep and I try to leave it.

just like oldwiseguy said, be ready for changes.

and I say CREATE YOUR OWN DESTINEY.