TweetNot trying to be a control freak here at all. My GF asked me to help her find a new job that paid ok and she didnt have guys hitting on her all day. Can you believe her new boss told her she was very attractive? He backed off after she told him it was not appropriate but still. Shes a college student and has only worked at a few retail places. Any ideas?

Tweetcome on man , you cant blame the guy for saying she is good looking. As long as he backed off after she said not interested. He's just being a guy.

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Originally Posted by Rolsroyce

come on man , you cant blame the guy for saying she is good looking. As long as he backed off after she said not interested. He's just being a guy.

I agree with RR here bro. If the dude is respectful enough to leave it at a comment, then that's who she should work for. If you girl is attractive, it doesn't matter where she works, men are going to notice. It's just a fact of life. Now, my wife works part time for Gymboree, which is a childrens clothing store. All the employees are women and so are most of the customers. And, my wife doesn't take crap of anyone, she will tell a guy she's married and to piss off. Look, I know I married up and above my level so it's something you have to deal with. If she's honest and loyal, then you have nothing to worry about. I don't think I've ever been out with my wife and not had guys stare at her, if just happens. Some days I want to punch them in the face and some days I just laugh and think to myself 'too bad for you'. It's really funny at the gym when I catch a guy staring at her because I work out at the Y so there are only a few guys bigger than me and I know them. It's usually the little guys and the young guys who stare so it doesn't bother me.

TweetJealousy is the killer of all relationships! Nothing is more attractive to a woman than a guy that is confident enough in himself to not worry about other guys.

Now if she was hanging all over him then it's a different story. Otherwise if they don't hit on her at work, they will at the grocery store, or the gas station, or the beach or wherever she goes.

Just take pride in the fact that your woman is so desirable that everyone hits on her, then your ego should be through the roof knowing that with all of the men that want her, she chose you! Give her your trust man! And don't give the lame ol "I trust her, I just don't trust them". That incinuates that she would cheat on you, which in all essence means you don't trust her.

Come on crombie your a muthaf'n pimp! These fools shouldn't worry you bro!

TweetDont sweat it bro....LOL I could care less when my girl tells me stories about what guys say and do it public... For one she is cold to guys, doenst like strangers type of girl. Very social when you get to meet her but I love that about her, shes has ice in her veins when it comes to other guys....It took me forever to realize she liked me...lol Second bro, you got the girl, she wants to be with you and has respect for you obviously. I was the same way about 3-4 years ago when I was 22 or so I was all about fighting over girls and getting pissed at guys, so I know what your thinking. Just help her get a job and support her wherever she is. If she wants to make good money quick then she is going to have to work as a waitress, bartender, or some type of public service...These places are high for girls getting hit on. Trust me they get sick of it bro (the good ones do) and she prob doesnt even realize it half the time they get so used to it. That said maybe find a nicer joint that is classy and expensive. She can waitress at nicer places and prob not be subject to it as much. I agree her boss shouldnt say that shiit AT WORK but hes a guy and thats what guys do. Everyday a good looking girl is getting hit on, I love it that mine does, relish in it and laugh about it. When I started laughing at the guys it was so much easier. There the tool cleaning up the drool, and your the man slamming that ham!!

Tweetshe's going to get it anywhere from anybody including other chicks bro. If the boss backed off then let it be, he was probably fishing and saw there was no fish so he went to a different lake.

there is too much other drama in life to get worked up over this bro...

Tweetis it her that is freaking out and wants a new job, or is it you...if it's you, go back and read all the previous post's a couple times. if it's her, then you gotta have a talk with her. i went through the same thing with my wife when we was younger. she wouldnt even go get her own gas...dude, this went on for YEARS!!! she's lucky i'm a very patiant guy and head over heals in love with her, or i woulda kicked her to the curb for all that braindamage! it's gonna happen. she/you better get used to it, or figure out a way to ugly her up!!

TweetBro, like everyone else said, you gotta kill that jealous streak. If you get worked up everytime someone looks or says somethin about your ole lady being good lookin, then you are gonna be out stressed out mutha! You'll drive yourself nuts and drive her away. Besides man, there's absolutely no point, if your girl is gonna be unfaithful then it's gonna happen with or without you being jealous or controling.

Tweeti dont know...you guys must be reading something diff. read the first 2 sentences of the post. i take it his girlfriend is freaking out...i could be wrong, but thats how it reads.

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Originally Posted by daved150

i dont know...you guys must be reading something diff. read the first 2 sentences of the post. i take it his girlfriend is freaking out...i could be wrong, but thats how it reads.

Well if that's the case, she's just gonna have to get over it. That may sound callous but if she's good lookin then guys are gonna hit on her, it's just the nature of the beast. All she can really do is just let em know that she isn't interested.

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Originally Posted by kite

Well if that's the case, she's just gonna have to get over it. That may sound callous but if she's good lookin then guys are gonna hit on her, it's just the nature of the beast. All she can really do is just let em know that she isn't interested.

yea, that was my point. i really went through it with my wife. she was very bad about people looking at her..kinda scared her and made her feel ugly, even though guy's were whistling and shyt (sounds goofy, but i already said she's a SHE, lol j/k) she just had to get over it....

TweetTell her to quit brushing, and have her dress in gravy stained sweats....ofcourse that wouldn't work here.

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Originally Posted by mtnmedic

Tell her to quit brushing, and have her dress in gravy stained sweats....ofcourse that wouldn't work here.

lol..mofo's fantasy women...she'd be in waaay too much trouble!!

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Originally Posted by crombie09

Not trying to be a control freak here at all. My GF asked me to help her find a new job that paid ok and she didnt have guys hitting on her all day. Can you believe her new boss told her she was very attractive? He backed off after she told him it was not appropriate but still. Shes a college student and has only worked at a few retail places. Any ideas?

She's going to get hit on regardless where she works if someone thinks she's attractive. Only way to stop this is you make all the $$$$$ and she stays at home while you work and only is allowed to go out with you, but then she still may even get hit on while she is in your company.

I don't see the big deal, unless of course you don't trust her. Good looking women get hit on all the time. You can't stop that unless you beat her with the "ugly stick"

Tweeti understand her situation..while she will get that attention at any job some places are worse then others..I worked in the mortgage industry at a small firm and every good looking girl that came in was hit on..So i would say have her get a job somewhere that has somewhat of an even ratio between men and women in the office, if its all men shes gonna get hit on 10x more.