Originally posted by Got Gear?
It's crossed our minds...
The GF seems to want to just run off to Hawaii and get married there. Only invite close friends and family.. only pay for close family that cannot afford it (like my mom).
I'm more for a "Big Party" style wedding. Friends and family together celebrating and having fun. Not some stuffy, formal wedding.. As long as I get married, have my friends and family there to celebrate it with me, and enjoy myself doing it.. I'm happy. I could care less if the wedding is a catastrophie so long as the following ingredients are present (Friends, family, fun, and a marrige license).
Man you sound more like the woman in the relationship. Guys are the ones that want to elope and women are the ones that want the big fancy wedding. But seriously its something that you need to sit down with her and the entire family and figure out together. Its your special day so you need to make sure that you guys feel comforatable and happy with what is going on.
Its not the size of the dog in the fight, its the size of the fight in the dog...