Well, after the marrige of a couple of our good friends. The GF and I were talking about how our wedding would be. We're not serious thining about getting married at this point... just sorta talking about it.

That's when I realized that both of our parents are now divorced and 3 of the 4 have new girlfriends/boyfriends.

So how the heck do you arrange that sort of thing? So much of a wedding is orientated around Parents of the bride/groom. And it's assumed they are together. Even things like seating at a dinner table seem to be a problem..

Luckily there's no bad blood between the broken couples.. so I really don't need to worry about them fighting or anything. But I'd still like to avoid awkward situations like sitting them all at the same dinner table (like it's customary to do).

Should I still ask the parents to make a speach together? Or should all 4 go up seperately? If they go up seperately, should their new significant other come up with them?

How do I ask my Dad to help pay for the wedding but not my mom (she cannot afford it)? The GF seems to expect her family to pay for 1/2.. so it'd kinda suck if my side didn't at least contribute a little..

I dunno why I'm even thinking about this... it's years away if it even happens...