I think it comes down to the nitty gritty.. I will use myself as an example.. I like porn and I like to watch it. Some days I want something hardcore and some days I want something soft pornish. I like visual stimulation and I know most women hate to admit some of this stuff.. But I'm not most women... If I had a man I wouldn't mind watching some porn with him, but I'm also not saying that I will try some of that stuff they do cuz some of it its way too out there for me. I'm open minded so that makes things easier for me to try things out. I'm not saying that women who aren't open minded are bad , they just need a little coaxing out of the closet.