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  • #16
    Re: The grass is always greener advice

    the grass is never greener it just looks that way, i know how you feel but if your relationship is semi solid, you are not missing anything, just my .02 cents
    old powerlifter/bench press specialist

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    • #17
      Re: The grass is always greener advice

      Crap this is a no brainer: When you are dating it's fun, flirty, sexy, and very emotional. Then the decision is made to become partners in life. Well guess what, life sucks sometimes and is a lot of work. The married couple becomes like business partners each taking on tasks for the other and days run into years and years run decades. After decades you look back and say where is all the flirting, fun and sex twice a day. I will tell you where: It is in all the energy it took to building a life together and raising a family, this has been happing since the beginning of time so get control of your emotions. It's not about a strange piece of ass that can be had daily; it is about your emotions. Put your head down and keep going, the finish line is near. After your kids are raised take her on a trip and tell her to sit next to you. Say honey we are not going home until you look at me like you did when we fell in love. It will take a few days but she will; and you will go home and have all the fun. flirting, sex and emotional fulfilment.
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      • #18
        Re: The grass is always greener advice

        Originally posted by Rake View Post
        Crap this is a no brainer: When you are dating it's fun, flirty, sexy, and very emotional. Then the decision is made to become partners in life. Well guess what, life sucks sometimes and is a lot of work. The married couple becomes like business partners each taking on tasks for the other and days run into years and years run decades. After decades you look back and say where is all the flirting, fun and sex twice a day. I will tell you where: It is in all the energy it took to building a life together and raising a family, this has been happing since the beginning of time so get control of your emotions. It's not about a strange piece of ass that can be had daily; it is about your emotions. Put your head down and keep going, the finish line is near. After your kids are raised take her on a trip and tell her to sit next to you. Say honey we are not going home until you look at me like you did when we fell in love. It will take a few days but she will; and you will go home and have all the fun. flirting, sex and emotional fulfilment.
        DAAAAAM Rake that is some excellent advice! Very well put bro!!

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        • #19
          Re: The grass is always greener advice

          Originally posted by Rake View Post
          Crap this is a no brainer: When you are dating it's fun, flirty, sexy, and very emotional. Then the decision is made to become partners in life. Well guess what, life sucks sometimes and is a lot of work. The married couple becomes like business partners each taking on tasks for the other and days run into years and years run decades. After decades you look back and say where is all the flirting, fun and sex twice a day. I will tell you where: It is in all the energy it took to building a life together and raising a family, this has been happing since the beginning of time so get control of your emotions. It's not about a strange piece of ass that can be had daily; it is about your emotions. Put your head down and keep going, the finish line is near. After your kids are raised take her on a trip and tell her to sit next to you. Say honey we are not going home until you look at me like you did when we fell in love. It will take a few days but she will; and you will go home and have all the fun. flirting, sex and emotional fulfilment.
          Super inspiration !!! That's what's up tho !!!
          See my chick and I don't live together and it's hard to get to see each other all the time , maybe that's what keeps the spark there for us, but sometimes it bothers and arguments and distrust come frm that too. We are planning to get our own place in the future , so I wonder how that will be .
          I've been w chicks and there's that ONE person for everyone . I think ur mind and body tells u when uve found that person .
          So ull be good LT , I'm always willing to talk to u and make u forget shit w talk of stupid shadow boxers and stupid ass people , especially in the gym . That always cheers me up !!!
          I like talking about douche bags and morons, makes me feel better !!

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          • #20
            Re: The grass is always greener advice

            Great stuff everyone. These kind of responses are what makes this place unique. Thanks.
            "You don't know how strong you are until strong is your only option."

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            • #21
              Re: The grass is always greener advice

              Hope it all works out and you keep your family together.
              Dont know the details of this other woman, if you work with her or if you see her often. But if you two are having feelings for each other, then that is a significant problem.
              It wont do your marriage one bit of good to keep on flirting with this woman. Eventually, something is going to happen between you and her.If you keep seeing her, its like pouring gas on the fire. At this point, you have to decide which way youre going to go. I definitely wouldnt advise a relationship behind your wifes back. Thats guaranteed to bite you in the ass. Karmas a *****
              Then you have to seriously ask yourself how you feel about your wife moving on and being with another guy. If you cant live with that, then save the marriage and forget that other chick.
              Good luck.

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              • #22
                Re: The grass is always greener advice

                Think long and hard about what is important to you. Don't throw it away because you feel desired. Your wife probably feels the same desire for you but with four kids and a career time is a serious factor when it comes to sharing desires with your mate. Make a date night for the two of you once a week and don't deviate from it. It only takes one stray step and everything you and your wife have created will be shattered irrevocably and you'll regret it. Try this, imagine your wife is in your shoes and some guy is showing her attention and making her feel wanted and sexy. Now imagine she gives into that temptation. Are you mentally ok with that image playing out in your mind? You're gonna do what you're gonna do but trust me, there will be consequences and believe me they suck. Just my advice, for its worth.


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