fukin the hardest thing I have done ever

[Morgan]

Originally posted by BigSoda
there is no graceful way to leave someone is always gonna hurt,and shit who wants to think about her moving on,I'd kill a mofo damn wwwwwwwwwwwwtttttttttttttttttttttttttfffffffffffff ffffffffff

anyways sorry for whinning

That is the second part of leaving. Might be just as tough or worse if you bump into her and things aren't going well for you.

I am not at that stage yet, thought about it a few times.

Hope for your sake you hook up with someone special that will take away the pain for you.

[Got Gear?]

Sucks hey?

I had the same feeling when I sold my 1st car. a 78 Mustang II. Actually, not that great of a car, but it was mine and I loved that car to death. Much blood, sweat, and tears went into it..

When time came to sell it.. I just about couldn't do it. I nearly cried as well, over a CAR!! But when the guy who bought it brought over his 14yo son and explained to me that they were planning to restore it over then next 2 years so that the son could drive it when he was 16. That literally did bring a tear to my eye...

Good luck Soda. Things have a way of working themselves out in the end...

[bigjim33]

Originally posted by BouncersBabe
1) Don't ever be sorry for whining.

2) It is completely natural for you to feel that way about her being with another man. That means you care.

Take time for yourself and think about things. You will figure it out, and you will go from there.

very nice BB

[BigSoda]

thanks all,it means alot,thanks again it means alot,you all are a great bunch of people.

[rado]

Re: fukin the hardest thing I have done ever

Originally posted by BigSoda
Is leaving this women,so many thoughts going through my head all at 1 time.It just sucks that u never know if your making the right decision?????????????Damn I'm packin my shit and I'm almost in fukin tears wtf,too much shit for 1 day,my eating has gone to shit,havent trained in 5 days damn I hope I'm doing right,anyone read the future here???????????FUK

I wihs you the best, stay strong though

[THE JUICE]

Re: fukin the hardest thing I have done ever

Originally posted by BigSoda
Is leaving this women,so many thoughts going through my head all at 1 time.It just sucks that u never know if your making the right decision?????????????Damn I'm packin my shit and I'm almost in fukin tears wtf,too much shit for 1 day,my eating has gone to shit,havent trained in 5 days damn I hope I'm doing right,anyone read the future here???????????FUK

if u really love her, stay with her buddy. what if u dont ever find a girl like her. stay with her big bro. I know what u mean bro.

[rude]

yea bro try to work it out with your girl and if not you will be a stronger person mentally. Hope the best for you

[Got Gear?]

Do it!

Well Soda, here's my take on things:
If you stay with her, you'll always be wondering "what if". If you have doubts about a relationship now, they are going to do nothing but get worse as time goes by.

If you seperate, you may loose a good girl. But at least you know that now, and know what to look for "next time". Otherwise you'll spend the rest of your lives together doubting and second guessing which makes a life and a relationship miserable.

So, in conclusion. Even if she's the perfect girl for you, you've got to at least seperate yourself from her for a while. Because until you KNOW IN YOUR HEART that she's the perfect girl for you, your relationship will never be healthy and you'll never appreciate her.

[BouncersBabe]

Originally posted by Got Gear?

So, in conclusion. Even if she's the perfect girl for you, you've got to at least seperate yourself from her for a while. Because until you KNOW IN YOUR HEART that she's the perfect girl for you, your relationship will never be healthy and you'll never appreciate her.

Very well said GG......

[Got Gear?]

Originally posted by BouncersBabe
Very well said GG......

Thanks good lookin!

[Kristylynn]

Good Luck BS, take some time off - if you still feel that way then maybe you need to re-think it Be thinking about ya

[Keiser]

Go work things out with your baby momma.

[ryan16]

Good luck bro.... The hardest thing I ever did was leave a girl and now I regreat it every day and she doesnt want anything to do with me. Make sure you really want to leave I wish you the best in whatever you decide.

[Keiser]

yeah i left the girl in my avatar we were together 2 years and we actually LIVED together, she was sweet & loyal too, i'm an idiot.

[gongshow]

sorry to hear that man...