where do i find

[bionic redneck]

where do i find the motivation.. i mean i have had women hit on me online but when i love my wife and miss her and my kids so much i have lost 8lbs in 5 days.. where is the motivation to keep striving for my goals... mind u these all werent the most attractive women in the world which is a downer but still idk where to dig inside to find the will to go on in the gym even though im making myself... and will continue to do so.. i havent lost any muscle in fact i have lost a half inch off my waist.... lol

[BABY1]

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where do i find the motivation.. i mean i have had women hit on me online but when i love my wife and miss her and my kids so much i have lost 8lbs in 5 days.. where is the motivation to keep striving for my goals... mind u these all werent the most attractive women in the world which is a downer but still idk where to dig inside to find the will to go on in the gym even though im making myself... and will continue to do so.. i havent lost any muscle in fact i have lost a half inch off my waist.... lol

This is my opinion, and it will porbably differ from what the men say. The LAST thing you need to worry about is finding another woman right now! You need to work on you and maybe anything that you think may have contributed to what happened in your marriage. Lean on friends, family and us for support and strength, and get your ass to the gym! You cant let yourself fall apart, you children need their Dad no matter what happened between your wife and you.. They need a good role model too. Not sure of your stance on religion , but ask for strength daily, if you are and have faith that things will work out.

"IDLE TIME IS THE DEVILS PLAYGROUND"

[Ezskanken]

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Exactly, another women should be thee farthest thought in your head. Forget about them all together. Like baby said, get better not only for yourself, but for your babies as well. If the gym is the only place you have to let go, you better be there regularly...

[O2BESOHUGE]

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RE-DIRECT IT ALL TO THE GYM....YOUR MOTIVATION WILL COME BACK!

[chris32]

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you don't necessarily have to start dating 5 seconds after she's out the door. you will know when your ready bro. baby gave you a true woman's point of view. i would listen to her. take your aggressions to the gym,however, if a little hottie starts flirting a little i'm sure it wouldn't hurt. try and stay positive my friend and i know that is easier said than done but ya gotta try for the kids!

[bionic redneck]

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thanks yall ill do just that god bless yall.. i pray every day hard.. im hoping i can get through this and come out on the other side a better man

[ZOOT]

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thanks yall ill do just that god bless yall.. i pray every day hard.. im hoping i can get through this and come out on the other side a better man

You will with that attitude brutha...don't hope, know it...you will be ok man...pain will heal...work on you and the transition with the kids because they are at the top of the list...not chicks

[FUZO]

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Get yourself better and talk to family and friends dont worry about anything else but yourself first

[bionic redneck]

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yes sir boss will do

[Pellethead]

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Great advice Baby. It took me a couple dozen girlfriends to finally figure that out. Work on yourself. So many people gravitate to others and try to "fix" or change them before they begin on their own journey. The gym has saved my life as many times as I have walked through the door. The downside...if you want to call it that, is that if you hit the gym long enough you may run into the same problem. But that's why God invented headphones!

[Born2Juice4Ever]

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I think he is probably looking for inmediate gratification from others approval.
He has been left behind and feels he is less than zero.
Seeking AND finding women that may like him, will make him feel like he is on his game.


I think at some point or another WE have all done something along those lines, perhaps not same as him.

Bionic, I don't want to sound like a damn parrot, and because I also don't know you, but did read your original thread:
GET YOUR SH-I-T TOGETHER BRO. Get yourself in better conditions, financially, emotionally and physically...and life will make sense.

I believe you have the entire site here behind you with tons of love and prayers!!! Myself included!



B2J