7 year old bully girl

[BABY1]

There is a girl that my daughter goes head to head with at school. They are both very competitive. Well yesterday, this little girl punched my daughter in the chest. My daughter was upset and did not hit her back. We have always told her to defend herself no matter what, but I think she was just surprised.

It is a little disturbing to me that at 7, girls are acting like that. This little girl had detention in first grade all of the time.

This girl's dad is also a cop in the area so she brags about that often. I don't care if her dad is a cop or not. Sometimes a cop's kids can be the worst. I just want my daughter to stay away from her. God forbid when they are teens. If my daughter decides to lash back, I feel sorry for the girl. My daughter has been in martial arts for 3 years and she has some fast kicks and powerful punches for a girl.

[FUZO]

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Well after my daughter came up to me upset and told me what happened I was a little pissed because I have always told her if anyone touches you take your right leg and put it on the bullys head. But baby1 and I talked to her and i'm sure if she is touched again i'll be getting a call from school. I'm not teaching my daughter to start a fight lets get that clear but if she is punched I want destruction coming out of my daughter

[skinnyman]

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I too have always told my kids to defend themselves. My son, on more than one occassion, has done just that. We did receive calls from scholl however he (we) were fortunate in that each instance was witnessed and he received no school punishment. I am concerned about my daughter though. There are these two other girls that i really can't figure out. First off, I coach all three for soccer and they get along real well and are the more stellar performers on the field. And secondly, we all are invited to each others B day parties. However, there are a few times where my daughter comes home from school upset because the other two are picking on her. It hasn't happened in a while since soccer started but i can't figure out what is going on with those other two.

[daved150]

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i agree...and you know, thats the hardest thing for kids now days. last year jessica (14 at the time) was jumped in the cafateria. the girl was half her size and did it right in front of the assistant pricaple. she said she was so shocked that it was happening in front of her that she locked up (i told her, "thank god it wasnt a fire then huh?" fukin dum****)...so anyways, jess took 3 or 4 blows to the head and the girl was holding her by the hair. when she turned around the girl tried to knee her in the face and jess got 1 shot into her mouth and the vice priciple snapped awake and grabbed her. so the VP calls me and tells me "I'm gonna have to suspend her for 3 days....we have a no tolerance policy"...i said "no...i'm gonna keep her at home for 1 day, to let all the kids cool down and not make it a bigger deal, and then shes comiong back. you wont show it as a suspension and i will want to see her student file next month to be sure you dont. your NOT suspending my kid for defending herself. i'm not allowing that". she was speachless...she tried telling me it was a policy and when dr snyder (the principle) gets in tomarrow, he'll make the decission. i told her, "you tell him what i said, and if he has a problem. i'll be dropping jess off wed morning and we can discuss it then! 1 day...cooling off period. thats it!". i was HOT!! i asked her, "why didnt you kick that little shyt's ass?? she's haldf your size" she said "i didnt want you mad at me dad....."
i think it was the same for your little one....trying not to get daddy upset. next time....watch out....jess is a healthy, physical girl...she aint fat, but FAR from skinny...she'll hurt that little kid!! and i'm glad yours showed restraint....she coulda smashed that little girl!!! coulda been a real problem for you guys. i agree...they gotta stick up for themselves, but these school are fuked up about it!!
(oh...and dr snyder "agreed with my recomadations for the handling of this insident...like he had a fukin option!!! your VP was right there fuknuts and coulda stopped it before a second punch was ever thrown!! suspend her goofy ass for 3 datys!!)

[tn94z]

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Well after my daughter came up to me upset and told me what happened I was a little pissed because I have always told her if anyone touches you take your right leg and put it on the bullys head. But baby1 and I talked to her and i'm sure if she is touched again i'll be getting a call from school. I'm not teaching my daughter to start a fight lets get that clear but if she is punched I want destruction coming out of my daughter

Absolutely!! I have taught my step son the same thing. They need to take up for themselves and not get bullied like that.

[skinnyman]

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Did you see this on the news? Father boards school bus to confront bullies.

http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/39232388/ns/today-parenting/

[O2BESOHUGE]

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WHATS HAPPENED LATELY WITH THE GIRL? ANYTHING?

[daved150]

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my wife says girls are nasty....lol. she said it was like thaqt when she was a kid, but not in a grand scale. with the internet people have became more aware and maybe becouse of youtube and the "look at me" society we live in, its gotten a little more ampee up....but she said girls can turn on eachother, in school, for no fukin reason

[skinnyman]

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Bump Dave...I have heard the same through friends and my wife. I am definately inexpereinced when it comes to dealing with girls. I am one of three brothers along with 6 male cousins. So i have never had to expereince the wrath of girls.

[daved150]

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with us (boys) something gets said, someone gets smacked, its over!! these girl go around attacking eachother through friends, spreading lies (all of a sudden everyones a "slut") and then it get physical and they dont let it go!!! fukin whako chicks!!