I don't believe you spoil someone by buying them things. To a point, of course. You really spoil a child by doing things for them that they damn well can, and need to do themselves. Yes, if you buy everything they ask for, then that's a sense of spoiling them on value and earning.
Now, with that said. I have always kept my daughter with, at least, 2 pairs of shoes to choose from. Well, I think I'm gonna have to pull that back for a while because she's gotten to the pointwhere she'll just have to have a pair of shoes. She'll promise to wear them. Once she's worn them a few times. Literally, like three times, she's threw with them, and she goes back to her Nikes. Which is good. She knows quality. Her Nikes always last til she outgrows them. Maybe it's because I wear Nikes. That might be it. But she just got a pair of Sketchers Twinkle Toes, with the little sparkly stones on the rubber toes. She had top have 'em. Now I'm having to make her wear them. She even tried to say that they're too small.
I'm just gonna cut it back to 1 pair of shoes at a time.
Now, with that said. I have always kept my daughter with, at least, 2 pairs of shoes to choose from. Well, I think I'm gonna have to pull that back for a while because she's gotten to the pointwhere she'll just have to have a pair of shoes. She'll promise to wear them. Once she's worn them a few times. Literally, like three times, she's threw with them, and she goes back to her Nikes. Which is good. She knows quality. Her Nikes always last til she outgrows them. Maybe it's because I wear Nikes. That might be it. But she just got a pair of Sketchers Twinkle Toes, with the little sparkly stones on the rubber toes. She had top have 'em. Now I'm having to make her wear them. She even tried to say that they're too small.
I'm just gonna cut it back to 1 pair of shoes at a time.
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