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don't shiled you're daughter from the realitys of the world
it is what it is, what matters is your homelife not someone else's, there is nothing u can do too control what others do
give you're child some props, she always seems to do the right thing and shine in her own life, which is a reflection of you and baby, thus, no reason why that will not continue ad infinitum into the future
Your niece is so young. That is a shame. She's got a tough life ahead of her. Hopefully she will have a healthy baby things will workout for them.
I think others above have given so good advise. Don't shield your daughter from it. Sometimes you have to watch what others go through to stay on the right path. For me, it was my aunt who is 9 yrs older than me. She was beautiful and very talented. She started doing drugs in high school and I watch her throw her life way. She is now 53 and can't hold a job down. Strung out on drugs. Her older sister and my mother have to manage her money and take care of her. I never wanted to touch drugs because of what it did to her.
IMO this is not something that should cause a rift between you and your wife. Your 6 year old probably knows about it already or will find out on her own. I have peole like this and worst in my family and the best thing that you can do is talk to each other, and let the bad behavior of others be theirs. I limit any time my 14 year old spends with any family member that exercizes bad life choices so they have very little personal impact on her. Talk with you wife and decide whats in the best interest of your family and proceed in a way that outside influences do not affect your life. In my case both of us got on the same page with regards to this and though we still love them, we will also not enable them to impact our family with their choices. Use these type of people for real life lessons and you might not have to go though it with yours. J.R.
She doesnt know about it but I have talked with my wife and this wont be causing problem at home and ive decided its there problem and why should I get so excited about it.
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I'm pretty torked too ! the tiny logging town just ten miles away has nine or so pregnant girls in their school, 30% of the females are raising babies or are pregnant ! the highest in the state ! condoms ? what condoms ? yeah it's a shame we're here to watch our future go to s#it, it's so cool to gangbang, have multiple sex partners and of same gender, just a bunch of careless bulls#it like nobody cares anymore. sure she'll findout, just tell her the truth about the situation and how you feel when she'll understand.
Leaders did what others weren't willing to do, now they enjoy the things that others do not.
Well, sorry to hear this Fuzo, but, and thats a Big But, LOL Maybe it will turn her life around. I have seen it happen sometimes a young girl gets pregnant and turns responsible. Lets hope this is the case!
Stay Strong~~!!!
IPL
I hate to say it but I have to agree with IPL. Ironically a few years ago, I met a young lady (no, not pervertedly) online and learned that she was 15 and pregnant for a 26 year old guy. For some idiotic reason, a girl cannot prosecute a guy for statutory rape until she's 18, which she did. And the guy served some time in jail for it. Now, the girl is 21 with 3 kids (another one at 17 and 20 for her husband at the time) but totally grew up after her 1st pregnancy.
Hopefully, this will open your niece's eyes and she won't be hanging with her gangbanging loser friend.
This is my opinion, but a 6yr old girl doesnt need to know about some 18yr old s**t and what will it accomplish. When she is older, like 12 you can get into the sex talks..much to early to discuss when she prop wont understand, much less care. She is young and still very absorbing. Keep it that way in a positive way, not throwing someone elses probs on her. She is too impressionable at this age.
This is my opinion, but a 6yr old girl doesnt need to know about some 18yr old s**t and what will it accomplish. When she is older, like 12 you can get into the sex talks..much to early to discuss when she prop wont understand, much less care. She is young and still very absorbing. Keep it that way in a positive way, not throwing someone elses probs on her. She is too impressionable at this age.
12..way too late. She'll be learning about it from people or media other than mom and dad years before that. And then, it's too late.
Kids are having sex at 12.
Ya gotta creatively come up with ways to instill self value and physical limits earlier than the teen yrs. By 8 or 9, I'm sure you can have the full out "birds and bees" talk. but ya gotta be working on it before then.
HP is right. It seems times have changed a ton sinse I was young. Now days they don't consider oral sex "sex" and girls kissing each other makes them cool along with them having sex at 12yrs and before. We as parents are going to have to be more PROactive on these topics and start the discussions at a much earlier age than when we were young
I agree that we will not tell her right now, but she will find out eventually. I am close with my family so it is not like we don't see each other. When she does find out, we will not go into ANY details as I agree that at 6 she is still to young.
Of course a 6yr old doesn't need to know every detail and position, but sheltering, and trying to completely censor instead of teach. Then results of a missed opportunity, for an invalueable lesson in life, could manifest later in the child's life in some less welcome form than if the values had been started on at every opportunity.
My method, as my wife and I agreed before our child was even born, is not to shelter, and censor everything. Cause things will get to her. One way or another. And I'd rather be there beside her to explain anything that might seem confusing, or "inappropriate" as my daughter says.lol...rather than someone else, or for her to draw her own conclusion before her mind is developed enough to take on that task responsibly. Where I am with it, wheather it be some adult content on tv(language, violence,-mild adult content), or real life scenarios such as the topic at hand, bring it on for me to guide her, and calibrate that little mind. I want to do the fine tuning. Sheltering too much, and censoring everything leaves way too much unknowns for her in the future to figure out the best way she and her peers might see fit. uh uh. and I fully agree with the person on tv a while back that said, 'when you think it's time to "have the talk" with your child, you're 10yrs too late.'
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