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    ....my wife is still smoking. Let me remind you that she is 4 months pregnant! She is also taking Adderall that she claims "she needs to do her job" and the doctor said it was OK.

    Ofcourse I have done the research and Adderall is in the medication class C which means that no studies have been done on humans but they have been done on animals and they were harmful to the animals and their fetuses. Who in their right mind knowing what results have come out of the test results from the lab animals would submit to this study? So I understand why there are no case studies pertaining to humans!

    Then ofcourse there is the smoking. Everyone knows the effects of smoking and fetuses. What is most alarming to me is that babies of women that smoke during pregnancy were TWICE as likely to die from SIDS (sudden infant death syndrome). That's not even touching on the 2500 chemicals in cigarettes that you are exposing the baby to! Who in their ****ing right mind would do that to a child?????

    Everyone that knows me knows that I am ALL about my kids. I have my schedule adjusted to where I am with my son during the day when he's not at preschool (he goes M,W,F from 9-1) and am there when my daughter gets off the bus in the afternoon. With that being said I can not believe my wife is doing this to my child!!! Number one it makes me feel like I don't know her and number two if anything happens to this child whether it be from the smoking, the adderall, or a completely different factor I am going to attribute it to the two! Which means if ANYTHING happens I'm sure I will hold her at fault and will never be able to forgive her!

    As if I needed one more reason to hate cigarettes!!! Un-freakin'-believable!!!

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    my brother's wife who, by the way, preaches to everyone about do's and do not's was alos caught smoking while pregnant. i found out at a BBQ over the summer when she snuck off behind some bushes. And...who was she with? my brother or in other words, her husband. WTF

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    • #3
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      damn bro....dont know what to say. that sux. i'd be pissed if my wife lied to me
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        I would be TORKED too bra ! the Doctor says it's cool to smoke and take some kind of unknown drug while carrying a child ? wow ! I pray that all goes well for ALL of you, really I do. I mean damn, thats like a big kick in the balls fer sure. hang in there bra and keep us informed ok ?
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        • #5
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          You put a stop to it asap.
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          • #6
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            holy crap thats unbelievable. That is the ultimate form of SELF-CENTEREDNESS!!!!!!!!!...Dont hold back to raise holy shit with her over this...Disgraceful.She should be ashamed of herself.

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            • #7
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              I have a friend who teaches the kids at school that are behind. She says alot of them are premiees (sp?) and some of them are victims of their mothers abuse when they were in the womb. The potential dangers of what she is doing now might not be seen for years.
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                When I see a parent smoking in the car with an infant in a car seat, It is all I can do to hold myself back from saying something like "Excuse me, excuse me....wt$%#@ is youre &*%#Ing problem?"..hehehe

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                • #9
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                  You know I caught her a while back when we first found out. She said everything she needed to say and promised to quit. Then I find out that she is still doing it.....This is wrong on so many different levels. We already discussed the health of my child. Now I find out she's been lying this whole time and when I told her I found the butts she tried to lie her way out of that saying she picked them up out of the yard. Well, I don't smoke. My 3 year old doesn't smoke. My 13 year old doesn't smoke (I hope). So that leaves only one way for them to get there in the first place. Plus I do the grass and I know there were no butts in the grass cause I would've gone ape-spit.

                  Its funny how I caught her. It rained last night and I noticed this morning her flip-flops by the back door when I got back from the gym this morning. My wife would only go out back to do one thing if my son is not home and he was with me. So what happened is when Kade and I left she stepped out back to smoke in her flip-flops. I am a neat freak so I went to clean up her shoes she left at the back door and the bottoms were wet. That prompted me to look around a bit and I found her butt stash.

                  I'm still so mad I am shaking!!! I'm going to have a word with her doctor, and the psych doctor that she goes to to get the adderall. This adderall thing has been an issue with us for a while. I told her today that once the baby gets here she can drink, smoke, and take adderall until her ass hole catches on fire but she will NOT while she is carrying my child!!! I don't really give a damn what she does once the baby gets here. I raised my 13 year old by myself I can raise the next two as well!!!

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                  • #10
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                    I THINK THATS PRETTY STUPID ON HER PART BEING PREGNANT.
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                    • #11
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                      Ya, I can understand people get self destructive and want to kill themselves with smokin and drinkin and shit, but this is about an INNOCENT child who has no choice in the matter. Could there be some underlying psychological reason that she is doing this to the child?

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                      • #12
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                        ^...I don't think so. She is just a selfish person. She also has no self control when it comes to stuff like this. She's in no way self-destructive. She is actually a very successful relationship manager in commercial real estate. She has an addictive personality. I on the other hand do not have an addictive personality so I have absolutely no tolerance when you can't put aside your addiction for the sake of your child.

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                        • #13
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                          just show her a pic of rado
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                          • #14
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                            Did SHE tell you the doc said it was ok or did the DOC??
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                              SHE told me the doc said it was ok to take adderall. That's why I am going to talk to the doc and also explain her tendency to abuse adderall.

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