Does anyone else think like this?

[FUZO]

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PLUS ITS A PRIVATE BOARD THE OUT SIDE WORLD CANT SEE ONLY MEMBERS

[daved150]

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you dont love her...move on. if this is how you feel, dont drag it out! no, i'm not an ass while on....actually my wife like's me better while on, lol. i believe on or not, you make the decission for your actions. if your an ass while on, your just an ass. i'm not knocking ya bro, just saying my opinion. 17-18 yrs ago, i never gave it a thaught of what my wife would look like!! i dont care, physicly, wtf she look's like as we grow old. i couldnt think of anyother person i'd rather grow old with....and yes, i knew and told her this, when i was 21! think about our kids being ugly??!! no fuking way!! never entered my head! my kids MAY BE ugly, how would i know? there my kids and look great to me! (except the 18 yr old....he got ugly at about 16 and keeps getting uglier! he'd look better with a job!)

[horsepwr]

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I think those feelings are natural and most guys have those thoughts some time or another. Maybe not at the forefront of concern, but I'd think at least 3 out of 5 men would honestly say that some time or another they had those thoughts cross their mind...just once, or hung in the back of their mind for a minute when they get to that point in a relationship and begin to think about being with that person for the rest of their life. It is natural for a male to look for the best match to carry on strong genes with. With that said, I think that you are reaching a little though. I mean, come on...red hair and fair complexion...big deal. My wife is short. I would be lieing if I said that it never crossed my mind about having a boy that only made it to 5'2". I remember how much I hated being the short kid before I shot up about 9 inches in 3 months, but I would have taught him to be a tuff sob and stand tall regardless. (We've only had a girl so far and she's better than average in height) It wouldn't matter anyway though brotha. It wouldn't make one difference, but like I said, it was a thought that crossed my mind.
With the being "on" thing. I'm like d150. My wife likes me better when I'm on. I would say that I wanted my wife with me more than ever when I was "on" before we got married and I was across the country without her.

It's natural to have second thoughts and examine the heck out of everything when you start thinking about the plunge. Just don't let the good one get away. If I hadn't have smartened up and married my wife or ran her off like I tried to do several times before we got hooked, I would be telling the story about the best girl in the world that I let slip right out of my hands. Now if your woman don't treat you like a million dollars and love ya for everything you are, maybe she ain't the one.

[McKenzie]

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I think about her and what she will look like when she gets older. It scares me. Shes a redhead with very fair skin and her Mom is heavyset.

Also our kids...I feel like I want to produce big strong good looking kids and not sure if having kids with a fair skinned girl with red red hair is right for me.

Tell me Im not the biggest ass in the world and some of you guys and gals feel the same.

Crombie...I'm a redhead...dont know if I'm fair skinned. I'm probably tan for a redhead, as I live on the beach and I'm out there daily. Chances are you..you wont have redheaded children. Trust me on this...and yes, I had the same concerns as you about having them.

[daved150]

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^hey...my wife's redhead (not blazing) and my daughter's redhead!! and they are both cute! your a goodlooking girl and your a redhead....i just dont think that there's alot of love there if he's pre-occupied with that bullshyt

[McKenzie]

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Dave...does your wife and daughter like being a redhead??

[daved150]

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my daughters 12!! monday she's fine, tue's she wants blond and by fri she wants purple!! but she dosnt really complain, complain. my wife's always been fine with it...i like it! it's not like orange...just a redhead! SEXY! my oldest boy is brown and the youngest is blonde...i got black hair. we stand together and it's like a box of crayola!!

[Klash]

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I've been dating this same girl for a few years now. I've been thinking a lot about life lately and even though I wanted to marry this girl...... now Im having 2nd thoughts. Im going to be with this girl forever and would have kids with her.

I think about her and what she will look like when she gets older. It scares me. Shes a redhead with very fair skin and her Mom is heavyset.

Also our kids...I feel like I want to produce big strong good looking kids and not sure if having kids with a fair skinned girl with red red hair is right for me.

Tell me Im not the biggest ass in the world and some of you guys and gals feel the same.

If your attracted to your girls physical and mental characteristics; more than likely you would find your offspring with her attractive. I think your worrying over nothing and in my opinion fair skinned people age very well.

[TestRip7]

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I completly agree with what everyone else above said. If you are thinking about that kind of stuff in great detail like it sounds crombie she is probaly not the right one. My fiance says that she think im more agreeable and alot nicer when im on. On or off though I want to be with her no matter what. But when I'm on I def. want to be with her alot more its weird.

[daved150]

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I completly agree with what everyone else above said. If you are thinking about that kind of stuff in great detail like it sounds crombie she is probaly not the right one. My fiance says that she think im more agreeable and alot nicer when im on. On or off though I want to be with her no matter what. But when I'm on I def. want to be with her alot more its weird.

LMAO!! IT'S NOT WIERD! IT'S TESTOSTERONE YOU GOOF!!! wow...testrip want to be around a female alot more while experiencing increased hormones!! go figure, lol, thats wierd!!
sorry bro...just seemed too obvious for me to blow it off..

[horsepwr]

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lol...that's exactly right, but TR might be saying it like I was saying. I don't just have increased libido, I like have stronger feelings for my wife when I'm on.

[daved150]

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^ummmm...yea...exactly. it intensify's your feelings on top of being the horny mutt that you become. it make's sence that it would! it does me too

[horsepwr]

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yep, I guess it all comes with the hormones. good times, good times...

That's one thing that bugs me when I hear someone mention that their girl is or would be against it. There are no down sides. Especially for the woman in your life.

[GBAGH]

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Before I picked my current girl I used to think the way that you did. I always wanted a tall strong woman to procreate with. That isn't bad in my opinion. Women look for big strong men all the time. Its a fact of life. My girl now is 5'7 and was athletic when she was younger but she's in law school now and she doesn't have time to play sports like she used to. She is fair skinned and a redhead. It ain't no big deal. I found out that she had to have some leg operations when she was a baby and she had to wear casts and special shoes. That would have been a deal breaker for me years ago, but I didn't even think twice about it now. I look at myself. I have good genetics for muscles, and looks, and intelligence, but I also have cancer, eye disease, heart disease, and alzheimer's in my family. So, its a toss up. The most important thing you can do is love the person you are with. If you can do that you can do anything. God will not put more on your plate than you are ready to handle. Heck, He won't even let you have kids if its not meant to be. The sooner that you realize that all of your "plans" have nothing to do with the way that your life will turn out the better off you will be!

[McKenzie]

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What attracted you to her in the first place? Something has to be keeping your attention with her?