i think i might be done

[horsepwr]

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Was that the first time she has thrown it in your face? I'm just wondering because you seem like a really good guy that values/respects/loves and treats this girl right. I'm thinking she was standing there empty handed when you called her out on something she shouldn't be doing that disrespects your values so she had to reach for something. When someone feels low or backed in a corner they'll say things they don't mean or make sense to bring you down with them. I'm thinking she has to dig for something from you and juice is all she had so she played that card in the heat of argument. If she really was bothered with it and concerned with your health, it would be the orals that should bother her. Steroids, as we all know are life inhancement drugs done responsibly. They actually make you a healthier person with longer life expectancy.

You sound like an in tune brother with your head in the right place, I'm just making sure your girl is treating you with the respect it seems you deserve.

[jamescb77]

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when i first told her even though she knew going in she told me that it bothered her. It seems like it's mostly the needle thing that bothers her. she treats me fantastic and it wasn't a throw this in your face card. I really appreciate all your support on the issue. you guy are really stand up bros and that why i love this place

[Rolsroyce]

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you have to do whats best for you James. Good luck buddy.

[Merc]

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You have to do whats best for you and your girl, glad you will stick around your a good guy!

[supernova1021]

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I have a ton of respect for you bro.

I was put in that situation before and I chose the aas because I told her "you knew what I did when we got together." BUT...it was part of a problem that eventually led to us getting a divorce. Had I known what was going to happen I would definitely have chosen her and never looked back.

So big props to you brother. If you care about her that much you are doing the right thing.

[horsepwr]

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when i first told her even though she knew going in she told me that it bothered her. It seems like it's mostly the needle thing that bothers her. she treats me fantastic and it wasn't a throw this in your face card. I really appreciate all your support on the issue. you guy are really stand up bros and that why i love this place

I see...yeah, people usually hate needles. As long as you feel comfortable with your decision and feel it's the right thing. She has a good man. She should respect your feelings the same way. Good luck bro.

[lxorl]

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beat it *****... only juicers here!

JK

i rarely use anymore either...... only thing i have done the past many cycles is oral winny with good success.

[jamescb77]

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yea this i s what imthinking my body loves winni so a few oral cycles here and there and ill be just fine actually my best cycle ever was 8 weeks of winni only had best gains and kept almost all of them

[Merc]

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a lot of times its about education, I had to sit down with the wifey and explain what everything was what they actually did and how media and most of what people hear is total BS. If you ever want to try and use again might just need a sit down with her.

With the oral cycles just make sure she is ok with it other wise she find out and your going to be in trouble mister LOL

[jamescb77]

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yea if i ever decide to use injects again im going to take that route i think that she would be more understanding if she actually knew everything about them. The orals still make her uneasy but it's not that big of a deal to her like the others are.

[trip]

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imho, i think this is an excellent example of a great relationship

this shows excellenct communication and respect on both parts

it was a "bother" in the beginning, and it was treated by both, as time went on and the relationship grew, intimacy did, and then "bother" became "concern", and then too show respect, it was treated as a concern in an amicable way

it does not shut out possibilities in the future it just deals with the right emotions, right now

be proud & lol

[daved150]

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imho, i think this is an excellent example of a great relationship

this shows excellenct communication and respect on both parts

it was a "bother" in the beginning, and it was treated by both, as time went on and the relationship grew, intimacy did, and then "bother" became "concern", and then too show respect, it was treated as a concern in an amicable way

it does not shut out possibilities in the future it just deals with the right emotions, right now

be proud & lol

SOOO...WHAT YOUR SAYING IS, ME TELLING MY WIFE TO STF UP AND MAKE ME A POP PIE, WASNT THE RIGHT WAY TO HANDLE THE SITUATION?...NO?...I'M CONFUSSED

[jamescb77]

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ah daved your a funny guy lol

[kite]

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SOOO...WHAT YOUR SAYING IS, ME TELLING MY WIFE TO STF UP AND MAKE ME A POP PIE, WASNT THE RIGHT WAY TO HANDLE THE SITUATION?...NO?...I'M CONFUSSED

lmfao

[BABY1]

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well the other night me and the gf got into a little bit of a blow out. i was upset because she had done something that i didn't like that night. As we were argueing she called me on the fact that i use aas. she already knew as i had told her a while back. she then tells me how much she hates it and why i can keep doing something she hates but she can't do something i don't like. This was all mostly over the injects. so i told her that i would not inject anymore. That being said i am prettymuch done with aas altoghether. i might do some short oral burst cycles here and there but nothing like i had been doing. That being said i will still be here as much as always and im more than willing to help with any answers or anything thats needed. This will still be my home, but for now i have to put the one i love above my aas use. Maybe with her love and blessing i will be able to use again one day. just wanted to update all of you with i little life story

I think that you are being very considerate of her feelings to stop using aas. It is not important if she knew of your use when she met you. As time goes on and relationships get closer, feelings change and when you truly care for someone you consider the other's feelings and ot just what you want and need. If people want things to be "all about themselves" then they need not be in a committed relationship. It is all about priorities, and what or who is most important to you at that time. You made the right decision IMO.