how many of you have gone through severe

[diggi]

emotional break-up with your significant other ? I'm talking about a girlfriend/boyfriend - husband/wife thing ? What was the reason(s) the relationship ended and how did you deal with it. Main thing is - how did you cope with being left by your partner - while you still love them - and would die for them - but they don't feel the same away from you...just wanna see your thoughts on this.

[Fit2bLarge]

Re: how many of you have gone through severe

trouble in paradise again diggi?

[diggi]

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not with me - - someone who's very close to me.

[daved150]

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drank alot, and went out and got laid alot...woke up one mornin' and it was aaalllll better!

[O2BESOHUGE]

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YUP DAVE SAID IT ALL.....THE BEST WAY TO GET OVER A GIRL IS TO GET UNDER ANOTHER ONE

[O2BESOHUGE]

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^ BAD O2!!

[alluprbdy]

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YUP DAVE SAID IT ALL.....THE BEST WAY TO GET OVER A GIRL IS TO GET UNDER ANOTHER ONE

what a great line, so true

[trip]

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it sucks, it rip ur heart out, tears your guts up, yada yada yada

ur basically f'd up big time

ummmmmmmmmmmmmmm

TIME HEALS ALL WOUNDS

unless ur a nut job from the start

it's true, and what ur learn from the pain, does make u stronger a better person, yet, u can't see it, cause it is literally hell going thru it

[O2BESOHUGE]

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THATS TRUE TRIP...ALL MY FRIENDS COULD SEE HOW BAD OFF I WAS BUT I COULDNT. I GUESS THATS WHERE THEY GET THE OL SAYING..."LOVE IS BLIND"

ILL NEVER PUT MYSELF AT THE MERCY OF A WOMAN THE WAY I DID THAT LAST TIME. I WAS DEVASTATED

O2

[McKenzie]

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I feel the same....the only way to forget one is to get another one. I believe you'll love many ppl in your life and learn many things about each situation....maybe not right then but in time you will.

[Sal Paradise]

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I had a hard time when I was younger and I would have problems with my temper, etc. Good thing I was in my current lifestyle because the roid rage thing would have been blamed for all of it. But I digress.

Getting involved with another piece is hard especially if the person is still in love with the one that left.

For myself I just turn a bit cold now. After the first serious girlfriend and I split I decided not to let it get me emotionally down. If she doesn't want to be with me then that's her choice. I'm still the same person and unless I've done something horrendously wrong I still feel good about who I am.

I can't let myself be emotionally brought down by the decisions or actions of others anymore. Even when my first wife and I divorced I could not let it get to me in such a way. After getting severely hurt emotionally once I think a lot of people just don't let themselves open to such a degree ever again.
I know I won't.

Sal

[Sal Paradise]

Re: how many of you have gone through severe

THATS TRUE TRIP...ALL MY FRIENDS COULD SEE HOW BAD OFF I WAS BUT I COULDNT. I GUESS THATS WHERE THEY GET THE OL SAYING..."LOVE IS BLIND"

ILL NEVER PUT MYSELF AT THE MERCY OF A WOMAN THE WAY I DID THAT LAST TIME. I WAS DEVASTATED

O2

Very well said O2.
I think I had the love is blind thing happen with both my first serious girl and my first wife. I heard the warnings and everything but I just didn't see it.

I got really lucky with the woman I'm with now - evenif I still keep myself protected to some degree.


Sal

[kite]

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Time man. That's about it, you just man up and wait it out, another will come along

[daved150]

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if i didnt have all those heart breaks...i wouldnt be with my wife now!!! i wouldnt have my kids....i wouldnt know what it id to really be in love!

[solidground]

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been dealing with it for 7 yrs..for me it doesnt get any better cause i always try to give us another chance..it comes down to if you want to get over the person or not..You gotta decide to get over the person or not and stick with it.