Have a situation need your input...

[Merc]

My wife is having her family visit and some how our spare bedroom was offered to her cousin. Well here is the thing the guy is a recovering meth head only because he got caught. I think he is a piece of shyt, he worked with the DA to turn his friends in to get a reduced sentance since he was looking at his second conviction so he was going to be spending time at club fed. Anyways just the thought of someone turning in their friends for getting caught just pisses me off, take some f*cking responsibility for what you do imo. Every time I think about this guy I just want to pound the shyt out of him for being a rat. I had a family member that got turned in by one of his friends and the family member took responsibility for what they did and ended it at him which cost him so I guess that is where my hostility comes from. So I dont know what to do should i let the dipshyt stay here or tell him to go fu*k himself my wife understands my position but at the same time its her cousin and it might cause some tension on her side of the family. Oh and she didnt offer the room it was her mom that did without asking us.

Anyways any feedback would be great!

[kite]

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I don't know man. I guess it depends on how much friction you think it'll cause with the wife and outlaws. If I did let him stay I'd watch his ass like a hawk, someone like that absolutely cannot be trusted. I'm sure I'd also let him know exactly what I thought too, but then that's kinda gotten me in trouble before, lol!

[crombie09]

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I would not let someone like that in my place for obvious reasons. Are your wife and him close? Maybe go ahead and fill the room with someone else so he has to stay in a hotel or something?

[Sal Paradise]

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If I did let him stay I'd watch his ass like a hawk, someone like that absolutely cannot be trusted.

Tell him to pound salt for no other reason than what Kite had to say.
He can't be trusted - end of story.
I would not be willing to open my house up for someone like that at all.
On top of that you and your wife didn't offer - her mother did.
Let her mother put him up or SHE can pay for a hotel if she wants.

I'm a bit of an arse and family doing things for the sake of family doesn't mean SH!T to me.

Someone like that would not be welcome in my home if it was her cousin or even my own mother. Sorry but that's just my take on it.


Sal

[Merc]

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the wife and him used to be really close. They both went to a school for problem kids when they were younger so they were like brother and sister when they were there. I told my mother in law exactly how I felt and she got really upset and is worried that I am going to cause a huge fight or something. I think he is a spoiled little bit*h with his parents always bailing him out of trouble since they have money everytime something goes wrong he runs to them for help with his hand out. I know if I needed to I could suck it up for the ms.merc and avoid him while he was here but I know at the same time if tries and talks to me about stuff I am going to have to tell him just what I think about him.

[daved150]

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My wife is having her family visit and some how our spare bedroom was offered to her cousin. Well here is the thing the guy is a recovering meth head only because he got caught. I think he is a piece of shyt, he worked with the DA to turn his friends in to get a reduced sentance since he was looking at his second conviction so he was going to be spending time at club fed. Anyways just the thought of someone turning in their friends for getting caught just pisses me off, take some f*cking responsibility for what you do imo. Every time I think about this guy I just want to pound the shyt out of him for being a rat. I had a family member that got turned in by one of his friends and the family member took responsibility for what they did and ended it at him which cost him so I guess that is where my hostility comes from. So I dont know what to do should i let the dipshyt stay here or tell him to go fu*k himself my wife understands my position but at the same time its her cousin and it might cause some tension on her side of the family. Oh and she didnt offer the room it was her mom that did without asking us.

Anyways any feedback would be great!

i'd launch the foker!! i wouldnt tell the family that it's becouse he's a rat though...i would tell the i'm not having an addict in my home. if they are feeling so charitable to voulenteer my home, why dont they just offer up their own!! my spare room is being used by my dog. and my dog aint giving up his space for an addict.
seriously, wtf are they thinking?? dude, dont you have kids? dont you have valuables!! fuk this mutt!! my cousin and my sister-in-law are crack addicts, and there aint a chance in hell either will ever enter past the front porch!!! no fukin way!!! dont do it bro!! really! just dont!

[O2BESOHUGE]

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IF THERE IS TENSION IN THE HOUSE TO START WITH MERC...THAT MAY JUST ADD MORE TO IT. YOU GUYS HAVE TO DEAL WITH 3 BABIES AND THATS ENOUGH FOR ANYONE. I'D TELL HIM TO TAKE A HIKE IMO - WHERES HIS PARENTS, FRIENDS, OR GIRLFRIEND? TELL HIM TO GO THERE

[Merc]

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Well they are all coming in from out of state so we are the only family that they have around the area. my mom in law does not have enough room for everyone and I guess it was his mom that suggested that he and his gf stay with us, maybe hoping something would rub off, I dont know.

[angryoldman]

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I think you should run a 220v line to his bed and connect it to the springs (very good conductors). Then, at like 1:00 in the morning, you should hit the switch for about 2 seconds. Wait for him to jump up and scream. When he thinks it was just a bad dream and goes back to bed, hit it again about 1/2 hour later. Do it all night. Invite some friends over to help you out so you can nap. Be creative. Throw some water on him while he's sleeping and hit the switch. Handcuff him to the post so he can't get up and hit it. There are MANY exciting things to do with him. let him stay!

[kite]

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I think you should run a 220v line to his bed and connect it to the springs (very good conductors). Then, at like 1:00 in the morning, you should hit the switch for about 2 seconds. Wait for him to jump up and scream. When he thinks it was just a bad dream and goes back to bed, hit it again about 1/2 hour later. Do it all night. Invite some friends over to help you out so you can nap. Be creative. Throw some water on him while he's sleeping and hit the switch. Handcuff him to the post so he can't get up and hit it. There are MANY exciting things to do with him. let him stay!

lmao, or he could just squirt some super glue into his nostrils while he sleeps or hand him a bottle of shampoo with nair in it.

[bgpittbull81]

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i woud say do not let him stay...what if he is using still..what if he does something stupid bro..i have delt with this **** before and untill he has been clean for a few years who knows what he would do..could steal from ya..or things like that... i hate to say it but i would have to say no...

[pigmeat]

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my huse i say who stays period....but i am an a s shole like that.

[T-Man007]

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i'd launch the foker!! i wouldnt tell the family that it's becouse he's a rat though...i would tell the i'm not having an addict in my home. if they are feeling so charitable to voulenteer my home, why dont they just offer up their own!! my spare room is being used by my dog. and my dog aint giving up his space for an addict.
seriously, wtf are they thinking?? dude, dont you have kids? dont you have valuables!! fuk this mutt!! my cousin and my sister-in-law are crack addicts, and there aint a chance in hell either will ever enter past the front porch!!! no fukin way!!! dont do it bro!! really! just dont!

I agree with Dave 100% If you have kids and he's a recovering meth head, that's a No Phuking Way for me bro. I would say 'sorry, but he hasn't earned my trust yet. If you trust him, then let him stay with you, but as far as I'm concerned he still has a long way to go to prove to me he's a better man.' And leave it at that. Even if you don't have kids, I would play the Trust Card and just ask your mother in law why they didn't offer up a room to him and see what they say. I guarantee you they don't want him with them either because they don't trust him.

[T-Man007]

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Well they are all coming in from out of state so we are the only family that they have around the area. my mom in law does not have enough room for everyone and I guess it was his mom that suggested that he and his gf stay with us, maybe hoping something would rub off, I dont know.

Ok, so it's him AND his g/f now. Did his g/f do meth too? If so, then I would say hell no. If the g/f is a good girl and he's trying to clean his act up, then maybe use this as an opportunity to steer him in the right direction. I don't know bro, it all depends on his character at this point in his life. Do you trust him? Could you trust him?

[T-Man007]

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i woud say do not let him stay...what if he is using still..what if he does something stupid bro..i have delt with this **** before and untill he has been clean for a few years who knows what he would do..could steal from ya..or things like that... i hate to say it but i would have to say no...

That's a good point, how do you know he's completely clean? If he's not, what kind of **** storm would that create?