Keeping a woman around once you have her

[mtnmedic]

Re: Keeping a woman around once you have her

Well I will talk from my experiences and the mistakes I've made..and to this day I probably continue to make them but I'm learning everyday. This board has helped me alot and alot of these guys gave me some very smart advices. There was a time when I broke up with someone and had real hard time moving on, but today I'm in a 3 month old relationship - really happy and I'm using experience from my previous relationship just to make sure I don't make same mistakes with my current GF like I did with the ex.

If you get bored of a girl, then its time to move on, but be straight with her. You should know by a few months if you actually wanna stay with her or finish the relationship. Just remember, as easily as you can get bored with some girl and you feel you should break things off with her, then a female can also do the same thing with you and leave you heart broken.

Now if you both are interested in eachother and want to be in a serious, commited relationship I can give you some tips that will work keeping her around for a long time.

- be honest with her and your self.
- be a real man and stand up for yourself.
- have confidence in yourself
- don't call or txt her alot. What I realised is GIRLS really hate desperate guys and thats a big turnoff for them.
- When you are with your friends and with her..show her alot of attention and never ignore her.
- When you have sex with her after you finish.. if you love her..always make sure to tell her that you love her.
- Suprise her with flowers, and do small nice things for her. SHE WILL REMEMBER ALL OF THEM.
- If she trusts you, she will tell you ANYTHING about her life or w/e. so always be there for her .. and never cut her off when she's speaking. Women like guys who are great listeners.
- Don't always be avaliable. This means when she calls, don't always pick up. Esp. if its 2-3-4 months relationship.
- Look good, dress sharp.
- Give her all the freedom in the world. Never ask did you do this, or that or all that assuming shit.. and WHAT IF (fit really gave me good advice here).
- Have goals in your life. Women don't like lazy bums.

For cheating: send her flowers to her work. Don't let her know that they are from you. If she calls you and asks you if you sent her flowers she is loyal and faithful. If she doesn't bring anything up dump her.

hope I helped.

I've done everything like that and much more,...except slit my throat ! thats how things where back in the good ol' days bra,..most of the women I've meet welcomed all that,..till they meet someone new at work or somewhere. it all boils down to M-O-N-E-Y for most ! I could care less how much money they make, boob size, hair color etc. just be real,...and give me equal what im giving you for crying out loud !!!

[space mountain]

Re: Keeping a woman around once you have her

Don't forget to have fun together and go out on a date even if you two have been together forever. Don't treat her too good just don't treat her like crap. And tell her how you feel about her every now and then. And always have crazy wild sex just like she likes it.

this is it ! u got to keep having fun etc just like when ya first meet!