I'm so so sad.

[Gooseneck]

My girlfriend and I seriously broke up this time and I'm a wreck. I love her and her daughter more than anything in the world, but I guess sometimes thats just not enough. I said some hurtful things to her today out pure anger and sadness which I have called her back and deeply apoligized, but I dont know what to do now. The thought of her being with someone else almost makes me sick to my stomach.
I can be tough as nails when I want to be, but I can cry like a baby when something like this happens too.

[TestRip7]

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I know the feeling all to well brother. I know you've heard it a million times before but things happen for a reason whether you will ever understand that reason or not. Just keep your head up and dont let yourself get to down. Stay busy with work or in the gym or just anything to occupy your time and keep it off of her. Time will eventually heal all wounds.

[Gooseneck]

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I just took a hella Klanopin to help relax and wind down. Looks like its time for me to plan out my next cycle......... along with some other things I've been wanting to do. I'm ok now but I might be hurting again tomorrow.

[McKenzie]

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I'm sorry Goose....It seemed you two were rekindling things....but its ok. Things will be alright....It may take a lil time but try to focus on other things....concentrate on yourself

[Stackt]

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Yeah but thats life it comes and goes and sometimes hits u hard ,there will be better oppertunities to come ! Just gotta move on only time will tell .

[space mountain]

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time will heal things bro trust me !

[mtnmedic]

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I feel your pain bra. I think of my ex's alot,..the fun we had, what would things be like now,..probally some clumsy chump humping on her ? Well, they aren't wasting their time thinking about me im sure. So yes, take care of yourself, start planning some goals and things. You're working with a clean slate bra.

[SMILEY FACE]

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bro, give her time till she misses u, trust me on this.......pm me if u want

[DJDIGGLER]

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If you've already called her and apologized and she wasn't too accepting of it, wait a few days then call her one more time. If still by then nothing positive comes of it, don't be so available and play hard to get. Women want what they can't have and if you make yourself unavailable and you treat her as if you aren't too interested she will feel like the one that is losing you. Then you'll have your choice if you want to give her another choice or move on. Just don't be like the classic guy and beg, and stalk, and sound like a desperate fool. No women respects a man when he's like that so don't be that guy!!

[Gooseneck]

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Thanks for the advice guys. I wont be calling her again, at all. The only way for her to realize whether I am the one or not is to stay away, not hear my voice, see how things are for awhile without me around. Like I said, I love her, but I will not hold my breath for long either. If other opportunities arise, which one alreadys has, than I will be jumping all over it.
I just hate the hole in the gut feeling when these things happen.

[SMILEY FACE]

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Just don't be like the classic guy and beg, and stalk, and sound like a desperate fool. No women respects a man when he's like that so don't be that guy!!

well said, been there and done that and i have learned from it....

[SMILEY FACE]

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Thanks for the advice guys. I wont be calling her again, at all. The only way for her to realize whether I am the one or not is to stay away, not hear my voice, see how things are for awhile without me around. Like I said, I love her, but I will not hold my breath for long either. If other opportunities arise, which one alreadys has, than I will be jumping all over it.
I just hate the hole in the gut feeling when these things happen.

i know what u mean, u feel its hard to breathe, dry throat and the feelings in your gut, i was there in ur situation 2 weeks ago

[supasaiyan99]

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Like everyoe has said, keep your head up and move on! Plenty of fish in the sea!!! Good luck!

[solidground]

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its always harder when theres a kid involved, i recently broke up with a girl i was seeing for awhile and i think i miss her kid as much as her..just give it time

[Lily]

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Sorry to hear
Her loss, I say!