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  • started premarital counsleing lastnight!

    its an hour sessions for 8 weeks i really think that this is going to help build our relationship with each other and god! i was very skeptical and really didn't wanna do it but after just one session i think its gonna help!

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    Re: started premarital counsleing lastnight!

    lol- those things are a joke! If you need counselling before you get married then you are in trouble my friend. I can see it if you two were 17-20 and havent lived life but, you have and both have careers and a stable life TOGETHER....

    good luck, dont let it phuck you up.

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      Re: started premarital counsleing lastnight!

      Originally posted by NATE
      lol- those things are a joke! If you need counselling before you get married then you are in trouble my friend. I can see it if you two were 17-20 and havent lived life but, you have and both have careers and a stable life TOGETHER....

      good luck, dont let it phuck you up.
      It all depends man....Money sometimes can bring undue stress on a relationship that really has nothing to do with the compatibility of two people. Also after being with a person for years the flame sometimes isn't as strong as it was. Passion fades love does not. But passion could be renewed if both people are willing. But there must be equal effort and will from both sides.

      Also sometimes people have a true connection but sometimes lose touch with themselves and that could sometimes be stress on a relationship. It's kind of like with lifting how they always say go back to basics. It's the same with relationships.

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        Re: started premarital counsleing lastnight!

        Originally posted by DJDIGGLER
        It all depends man....Money sometimes can bring undue stress on a relationship that really has nothing to do with the compatibility of two people. Also after being with a person for years the flame sometimes isn't as strong as it was. Passion fades love does not. But passion could be renewed if both people are willing. But there must be equal effort and will from both sides.

        Also sometimes people have a true connection but sometimes lose touch with themselves and that could sometimes be stress on a relationship. It's kind of like with lifting how they always say go back to basics. It's the same with relationships.

        I feel the exact same way. In today's world it takes alot to keep a marriage together, it is def. something that both partners have to work at to keep it together. Many religions require pre-maritial counseling also before a preist will marry the couple.
        --Def. a good way to figure out how to deal with each other in many different situations and put the most important thing GOD first in your realtonship.



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        • #5
          Re: started premarital counsleing lastnight!

          premarital counseling is great... it helped my marriage last a full 1.5 years!
          I'm Just an old chunk of Coal, But I'm gonna be a DIAMOND some day.





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            Re: started premarital counsleing lastnight!

            Originally posted by lxorl
            premarital counseling is great... it helped my marriage last a full 1.5 years!
            WOOOOOOOOOO!


            no offense

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              Re: started premarital counsleing lastnight!

              none taken... i put it up in a joking manner...

              the counselor told us we were not right for eachother... should have listened. I think deep down inside i already knew it... but i was in love and wanted to make it work.


              Originally posted by NATE
              WOOOOOOOOOO!


              no offense
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                Re: started premarital counsleing lastnight!

                It can be a good thing, it's better than nothing. Too many people, like ME, jump into it and end up divorced. I think it's good to give people who haven't been there a good heads up as to what to expect as far as the stresses involved and making damn sure they at least have an idea of what they're getting into.

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                • #9
                  Re: started premarital counsleing lastnight!

                  Congrats to the both of you for going. I hope you benefit from it

                  Hell, I think I'm gonna start pre premartial counseling

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                  • #10
                    Re: started premarital counsleing lastnight!

                    Originally posted by lxorl
                    premarital counseling is great... it helped my marriage last a full 1.5 years!
                    LOL

                    and counseling after marriage didn't do squat! LOL
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                    • #11
                      Re: started premarital counsleing lastnight!

                      Good luck...it's a good thing..Helps you realize the things that bother you about each other or anly going to get 10 times worse after you are married....opens your eyes to a few things and to realize what youy need to do.

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                        Re: started premarital counsleing lastnight!

                        congrats byron. whatever you think you should do, you should. i dont think that if 2 people aint meant to be together, it'll fix it. but, i dont think it'll hurt either.
                        goodluck to both of ya?
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                            Re: started premarital counsleing lastnight!

                            we are not doing it cause we are having problems but to help with future problems that we may run into!

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                              Re: started premarital counsleing lastnight!

                              i refused to go after she told me she wanted out... i said see ya later.

                              byron... get a grips on the finances from the start. its a huge issue.


                              Originally posted by Lily
                              LOL

                              and counseling after marriage didn't do squat! LOL
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