Why cant they just let go???

[mick-G]

Re: Why cant they just let go???

Its hard to cut off contact when the other person is extremely persistent.

I have a certain person that still insists and may even enjoy for all I know, still pursuing me or at least does a good job of hurting my feelings even though I have cut off contact with him.

I know it is hard, but if you are not direct, then the person may not get the deal. In which you may have to be very direct and tell them you do not want anymore contact. If that doesn't work you can get a court order, or if it is not too big an impostion get your # changed. No one has to put up with being harrased. If iam not mistaken, repeated called or any contact when a person has verbally said "no more" in stalking in states that enforce stalking laws.

[Lily]

Re: Why cant they just let go???

Its hard to cut off contact when the other person is extremely persistent.

I have a certain person that still insists and may even enjoy for all I know, still pursuing me or at least does a good job of hurting my feelings even though I have cut off contact with him.

do you still have feelings for him?? If he can hurt you so easy, then he may know you still care and take advantage of that...

[diggi]

Re: Why cant they just let go???

MICK-G = DR.PHIL

[McKenzie]

Re: Why cant they just let go???

do you still have feelings for him?? If he can hurt you so easy, then he may know you still care and take advantage of that...

nah..I dont care for him. I lost all care and respect for him with his meaness and ugly words. I believe he just enjoys belittling and dominating.

Mick...I have made it clear to him. I have changed my work number and he doesnt call my home anymore....however he does get me on IM still.

Doesnt matter....I figure he's just bitter.

[NATE]

Re: Why cant they just let go???

Buy her a kick ass vibrator and you'll never hear from her again.

[crombie09]

Re: Why cant they just let go???

me > vibrator (even a kick ass one)

[NATE]

Re: Why cant they just let go???

I dont know what that is supposed to mean?

[crombie09]

Re: Why cant they just let go???

Ummm its called a "greater than" sign I think? Remember math in middle school?

[NATE]

Re: Why cant they just let go???

Ummm its called a "greater than" sign I think? Remember math in middle school?

oh yeah! not that any of that applies to the internet but hey, good memory!



Nate > Pile of dirty laundry

[supasaiyan99]

Re: Why cant they just let go???

You guys crack me up with the greater than signs!!!

[McKenzie]

Re: Why cant they just let go???

Tell her that you think she gave you herpes.

Hell....I dont know....the meaner and more hateful I am to mine the more he stalks me

[Lily]

Re: Why cant they just let go???

Tell her that you think she gave you herpes.

if you tell her that, she for sure will leave you alone!

[mick-G]

Re: Why cant they just let go???

MICK-G = DR.PHIL

Lmao!! Nah...just common sence Bra! And Mck..if hes just contacting you on IM that is not too bad eh? At least hes not calling or comming by unannounced. I have found sometimes being nice is just like foreplay to some ppl, they don't understand when you dumped them, that means no more idle chit chat. I would like to say tho most men can be good ex's, but it just isn't that way most of the time. Women...now that is a dif story altogether, lol! Oh..the herpes thing...Damn that is a good on Mck!

[McKenzie]

Re: Why cant they just let go???

Its not nice on IM Mick...thats the thing. I could post up some of our conversations and they would make your stomach turn with the things he says. I always try to be nice...walk on eggshells n crap....but he just turns ugly if I say I'm busy or I dont want to talk.

Actually I wouldnt recommend the herpes idea....she'll prob tell everyone you have it when in actuality you dont I think the best way to deal with things is invisiblility and silence.

[mick-G]

Re: Why cant they just let go???

Are they in pms or open forum?^ If it is open, he can be banned yes? I don't know...maybe try to ignore him. If that doesn't work have a Male mod intercede. Sometimes it is better to get a male to tell a person like this how it is and it will humiliate him, and that is a big turn off to controlers.